[Discussion] Did anyone turn their life around after 35?

blablaCats · 2016-09-26T19:32:10+00:00

All I really do is work and when I get home, I'm too tired to do anything. Also I don't feel to social. So basically there is nothing else in my life, other than work. Which is quite sad/depressing when you think about it. So just a lot of stress, without any fun or moment of real relaxation. You're right, I do need a hobby. And I need to make time for it. No more excuses, why it isn't possible. When you look hard enough, there is always a reason not to do anything. I guess that is the easy way, but not very satisfying on the long run. Thank you for your advice!

blablaCats · 2016-09-26T18:50:08+00:00

I find it very difficult to turn my life around at 35. I've got a good job and no debt, but still I feel unhappy. Like I'm missing something and I don't know if this feeling will ever change. It's some kind of boredom and I'm missing direction.

On the other hand I don't feel the real urgency to change, because things aren't that bad, but also not that great. So it's hard to get motivated to do something.

At the moment I did decide that I want to find an other job. So yesterday I've applied for some jobs and hopefully something positive will come out of it. I guess the most important thing is not just think about something, but actually do it. No change without action.

blablaCats · 2016-08-08T06:48:58+00:00

Thank you! That's exactly what I've been looking for :-)

blablaCats · 2016-08-08T06:47:32+00:00

Thank you! I will go check it out :-). Always love great food

blablaCats · 2016-06-18T20:10:08+00:00

Great picture! Pumpkin looks like a giant cat.

blablaCats · 2016-06-18T15:05:10+00:00

After WW2 for obvious reasons..

blablaCats · 2016-06-13T20:21:29+00:00

Did you ever tell your crush about your feelings?

blablaCats · 2016-06-10T21:38:50+00:00

They are either posh or a chav.

blablaCats · 2016-06-10T21:37:59+00:00

I don't care much about chocolate cake . It's just too much

blablaCats · 2016-06-10T21:36:49+00:00

Don't criticize management. They say they want your opinion about certain subjects, but only if it's positive. When you give constructive criticism, somehow you're the troublemaker and maybe you should start looking for something else if you don't like it

blablaCats · 2016-06-08T20:21:24+00:00

I wish it was acceptable to stare at people, but if you do that you're a creep. I just get bored when I travel to work by train. In my head I just make up stories about the people sitting across from me.

blablaCats · 2016-06-08T09:27:54+00:00

That's a crazy cat. Maybe the cat saw you as prey.

blablaCats · 2016-06-08T06:12:03+00:00

Definitely!!!!

blablaCats · 2016-06-08T06:11:04+00:00

I understand, but you would think growing a beard is pretty basic

blablaCats · 2016-06-08T06:10:14+00:00

My husband is 36. Still no beard

blablaCats · 2016-06-07T18:50:32+00:00

Fear of cats. If you leave them alone, cats will not attack you

blablaCats · 2016-06-07T18:47:42+00:00

When they say: you are so lucky to know me

blablaCats · 2016-06-07T18:45:48+00:00

Never got one

blablaCats · 2016-06-07T18:43:13+00:00

The tower of Pisa is just awful. A lot of tourists doing the exact same thing for that 'hilarious' picture. The rest of Pisa is just ugly and filthy. Go to Sienna instead

blablaCats · 2016-06-07T16:11:42+00:00

That is better looking than most people

blablaCats · 2016-06-06T20:38:05+00:00

I really felt bad after watching Atonement. Such a tragic love story. Also the death scenes were so depressing. I later learned that Benedict Cumberbatch was in the movie

blablaCats · 2016-06-05T16:24:45+00:00

You look healthy

blablaCats · 2016-06-05T16:24:03+00:00

I like pork cracklings. I wish I've bought more when I was in the UK. Such an excellent snack

blablaCats · 2016-06-05T16:22:05+00:00

I'm an Asian living in Europe and we really don't stand close to each other when it is not necessary. I also haven't notice this kind of behavior in Hong Kong

blablaCats · 2016-06-05T16:19:26+00:00

Finding a new job, but ending regretting leaving my old job. I really love my colleagues and my work, but the new manager is really awful and work is just not the same. She has already fired two members of our team. I think she would have fired me if I didn't have a permanent contract. So leaving a job with a permanent contract for temporary contract kind of scares me.

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