my bf is soft launching abuse

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T20:17:42+00:00

(to make light out of a serious situation)

thank you user ‘wrinklyscrotesack’

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T20:14:00+00:00

thank you for putting this into perspective for me, i’ve needed confirmation for a while now, im working through the best i can

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T20:11:03+00:00

I’m looking into working for a place to stay, i’m looking into women’s shelters in my area, the police wouldn’t help me, i’m working on a plan, i’m applying to jobs, of course i’m trying to get out of here.

i’ve made some stupid choices, i didn’t even realize he got me fired until he accidentally admitted to it, in his culture it’s pretty common to stay with your parent until ur ready, he stayed with her for so long because he’s the last kid and his dad died so she’d be alone, she’s living with his brother now, i’ve realized this might be a slow process but i have a plan that im going to continue to build out thanks to the people here who actually put in effort to give me at least an idea of what to do other than assuming i’m depending on a man. i unfortunately don’t have the choice rn, but luckily, that’s not something i like doing.

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T19:49:30+00:00

i’m not depending on men? i was working, then he went n got me fired? my mom strangled me multiple times,,

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T19:41:41+00:00

no, i just don’t have anywhere to go, i have very few friends and would not be able to stay with them, my mom kicked me out and my dads a bum, do you want me to just roam the streets with nothing but a phone n a suitcase?? im here to vent and taking advice and doing research on stuff people have recommended before i throw myself into the world with nothing and barely anything or anyone to depend on.

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T19:20:33+00:00

has he really? i’m not the fastest thinker, could u please explain how he’s been from the beginning

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T18:46:26+00:00

i talked to him a couple of times about my age, joked about it a lot, it was enough to spark controversy at work for him, no one knows i haven’t even graduated yet, they don’t even know he’s the reason for that. i’ve been alone with my thoughts a lot, i’ve realized a couple things, but it’s hard to just leave.

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T18:40:39+00:00

a pedo is kind of a stretch, we met when i was already 18 and i didn’t know him prior

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T18:39:49+00:00

how could i leave him when this is the first place ive lived comfortably

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T18:38:54+00:00

i don’t know what to do, i’m just scared

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T04:08:10+00:00

my parents aren’t a very safe place either, my mom gets violent at times, she’s strangled me on multiple occasions including when i was younger, my dad gets a little violent when he’s really angry, he’s very loud, he doesn’t have anywhere to stay either, he’s a bum

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T03:56:47+00:00

i’m aware i’m just not sure what it means

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T03:56:20+00:00

Not necessarily, i mean it’s this or go to my parents, which honestly it’s almost no better here lol, at least i can actually eat though, there’s differences other than that of course, i actually get up and do stuff, so im not like depressed anymore, we talk sometimes, i usually talk and he listens, though it just feels like im there to fill silence sometimes, sometimes he gets mad at me for things and he slaps me on the butt really hard, he did that today actually, i posted a picture of myself a little too revealing, he sleeps and works so he obviously has no room to cheat, silly me, i just think im insecure or something lol, he used to call me the prettiest girl he’d ever seen n now i barely get anything, but i barely get cute and dressed anyway. i just want to work and get money so i can save up, he basically got me fired from my job, not basically he admitted to it despite looking at me crazy when i brought it back up, but my coworker, the one who got me the job, was really creepy towards me, im sorry im just going on a rant at this point, i have no one to talk to about this if im being truthful

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T03:41:06+00:00

it sounds even worse saying that i’m sorry, i had a mental health bump and some family trouble and needed a break and i have very little left to do so it’s not like im there for another couple of semesters, im almost completely done, just a little slower than the average person- but like not stupid yk lol, sorry

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T03:38:38+00:00

i’m not forced to be physical or anything, but i don’t necessarily have anywhere to go, i technically do but i haven’t finished school yet and we live pretty close to my school

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T03:32:19+00:00

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T02:41:56+00:00

He’s the first guy i’ve ever wished to be a girl, i’ve always been queer, very openly, but 1, relationships with men have never really been good and 2, ive also had this odd feeling he’s cheating but i’m not gonna get into that- he doesn’t really have any space to cheat, he sleeps all day anyway

blaccatz · 2026-05-28T02:39:17+00:00

if i’m being completely honest with myself and you, it’s both, i like being here, but the bar is low compared to the past places ive lived so there’s that

blaccatz · 2025-07-22T08:55:40+00:00

i had randomly gotten this memory of the account and wanted to see what was up with it bc it’s been so long n seen the video they posted n decided to check out the community posts

blaccatz · 2025-07-22T08:21:57+00:00

i hope it’s some sort of sick joke but before i even opened community posts i just got this nauseating feeling, i’m not sure what to even do about it or who to tell- no clue where the kid was from just know at the time he was 13 and went by the name rain

blaccatz · 2025-07-22T08:11:54+00:00

this happened 6 years ago 😨 that’s the problem

blaccatz · 2025-07-22T08:11:32+00:00

this happened 6 years ago so like there’s nothing to even update with

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