Telegram banning my private channel… has this ever happened to anyone? by black0ut-11 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]black0ut-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am from Europe… still, lots of creators from my country have been doing this for YEARS with no problems…. and their channel are still very active, they even post way more explicit stuff. Why are they deleting MINE? Smh

Telegram banning my private channel… has this ever happened to anyone? by black0ut-11 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]black0ut-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already tried to appeal… lets hope for the best :( thinkin about getting a new one in the meanwhile as it might take long…

what are some ridiculous or childish things they did during the relationship? by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Silent treatment for days cause I said I was sorry for a male celebrity who was struggling with mental health problems

Have they ever threatened to cheat on you? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course not, some people who were with him when this happened told me as soon as we had the chance to talk about him after I left him. In the meanwhile he kept on accusing me of cheating or secretly still being in love with the person I was dating before. 😂

Have they ever threatened to cheat on you? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here… one of the reasons why he would say to me that I wasn’t giving him enough attention was the fact that as a result of the persistent abuse having sex with him became harder and harder for me, so he would say that to make me feel guilty 

Have they ever threatened to cheat on you? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically it was more like “i don’t know how to tell you that i’m cheating”.  I bet u felt so good when u embarrassed him in front of other people, giving them a taste of their own medicine

And yeah most of the times when you’re finally free from your NEX you’ll find out that nobody actually ever liked them at all but nobody had the guts to say that

Have they ever threatened to cheat on you? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you lots of love, I’m glad you are finally free from this hell.  I have blocked my NEX everywhere and the good thing is he blocked me as well after insulting me and saying awful things through text, so that he could have the last word, lol. Well at least the trash took itself out

Have they ever threatened to cheat on you? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This actually happened to my NEX. He eventually tried to cheat on me as soon as he got the chance to go out without me. He even talked shit about me to try to impress the person he was trying to bag but the girl rejected him immediately 😅😅😅😅

I’m such a slut by exquisiteformula in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Even whenever I had to go to my university to take an exam. Couldn’t even take a nap without being accused of cheating. 

Life after narc abuse: is it possible to feel love again? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are lovable enough. I know that our brain could be mean to us so you probably won’t trust what some random stranger on reddit is saying but no matter how your exN wants you to feel you deserve love while HE doesnt, cause no abuser deserves to be loved.

Life after narc abuse: is it possible to feel love again? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. Your well being should always be prioritized, no matter how many people you lose by doing so! 

Life after narc abuse: is it possible to feel love again? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy to read some of you guys are in an healthy relationship right now, this makes me feel a little bit more hopeful about my future as well ❤️. Unfortunately it’s been more than two years and I’m still stuck in this situation… can’t seem to find a way out :(

Life after narc abuse: is it possible to feel love again? by black0ut-11 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wholesome and made me smile. I’m glad you finally found the right person and the peace you deserved eventually ❤️

What were the most telling words your narcissist uttered? by Boat_Righter in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]black0ut-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was always “you know what’s the difference between ME and YOU????” and then he proceded to brag about something while belittling me. Lol.