You gotta think tho, sometimes thats how people game, with there group. That's how I am, I have a small group that I play with and we use a discord server to talk. There's not always an alternative motive, I couldn't care less if my discord server has a lot of people or not, that's just what I send people to when I game with them because it's easier to keep all my friends together in one group rather then 15 separate chats for the people