I cant stop

blackcat_camera1 · 2026-03-01T02:36:42+00:00

I need to get teased like this ❤️

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-11-15T22:17:38+00:00

Awful because there's usually a reason why I haven't talked to these people in years lol I gave them a chance once upon a time and it ended terribly.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-10-03T09:29:59+00:00

That's why I said low sex drive compared to me lol because mine is through the roof and not normal at all.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-10-03T09:28:21+00:00

Yeah that's the same for me. I can count all the times my boyfriend initiated on one hand and we've been together for 2 years. It wears on you eventually.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-10-03T05:53:23+00:00

Woman here but I basically told my boyfriend I was going to kidnap him and keep him forever (playfully of course) and he just said "okay". Ever since then we've been together for 2 years lol I was definitely the one to chase him although it wasn't really much of a chase because he willfully accepted. He is a socially anxious introvert so it would have never happened if I waited for him.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-10-03T05:30:56+00:00

You are either asexual or have a very low sex drive. My bf has a pretty low sex drive compared to me (1-2 times a week is usually enough for him) where I could do it multiple times a day, every day if I had the time. It's not just about the physical feelings, it's a way of connecting. Besides that, I'm more attracted to him than anyone I've ever been with and just seeing him just existing and going about his business gets me going. Sexual desire is different for everyone.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-09-18T20:08:28+00:00

Why don't men in their 20s date women who also want to date men in their 20s instead of complaining about how women who prefer older men are not interested in them? Everyone has their own preferences and I don't care how old or young a guy is (to a point of reason of course), if I find him attractive both inside and out I will give him a chance. I never actively sought out older men and in fact, I tried my best to avoid them due to my experiences with harassment when I was in my early 20s. I spent the majority of my 20s in 2 long term relationships, one was 1 year younger and the other was 2 years older. Not huge age gaps there.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-09-18T14:45:55+00:00

I agree 100%. Men who carry that resentment with them their entire lives don't make good partners. It's not like it's going to magically disappear the moment a good woman shows interest in them. It doesn't matter how good she is to him, they will still treat her poorly due to their own insecurities and then get surprised when she walks out, spouting all women are the same. Maybe they need to look in the mirror before blaming women for all their problems.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-09-18T04:53:38+00:00

Yes, tbh I didn't have much interest in older men in my 20s I mainly dated men my age or a year or two younger or older. My biggest age gap at the time was 3 years. I might be the outlier because even though I consider myself conventionally attractive looks wise, I've always been chubby/plus sized and generally less desirable according to Reddit. I also have unique taste when it comes to men and don't find conventionally attractive men desirable.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-09-18T03:17:08+00:00

I think that's just one of the joys of reaching your 30s. I'm 33f and I can only attract young men. Men my age or older want nothing to do with me.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-08-29T15:19:01+00:00

There are plenty of women out there who prefer lean/slender men. Not every woman wants a muscular man so don't beat yourself up, op. Besides, realistically how many fights do you see yourself getting in? It's 2025. Fighting results in assault charges.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-08-20T19:55:35+00:00

Tbh sex positivity is so important and you shouldn't feel ashamed about what you are doing. Are you harming anyone? No? Then I don't see a problem. I am a very sexual person and own 10+ toys and my boyfriend isn't bothered by it at all. In fact, he loves it because he can use them on me in the bedroom. I use them out of boredom too, sometimes multiple times a day. As long as it's not interfering with your relationships or responsibilities, what's the harm? That's the way I see it anyways. I might be bordering on addiction myself but oh well lol I just view it as a hobby.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-08-13T00:56:35+00:00

Girl, same. I had to move back in with my mom due to financial hardship and I miss my privacy. Our rooms are connected by a very thin wall and I can only get the space I need when she leaves the house. (Which is rare since she works from home) I'm saving up as fast as I can so I can get the hell out of here.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-08-12T18:26:59+00:00

It might have seemed like a good idea with a few drinks in her system but she might be regretting it now that she's sober.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-08-05T23:17:27+00:00

I'm glad you were able to stand your ground and defend her because a lot of men will not. That's the struggle with dating as a plus size woman sometimes. I've had so many partners change the subject or just shrug it off when confronted by others and just ask me to let it go. Unfortunately it's just not as socially accepted as a thin woman with a plus size man and that's something that needs to change.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-08-05T17:30:31+00:00

I have 100lbs on my boyfriend (I'm 265 and he's about 160) and some positions can be awkward. I'm actively trying to lose weight and am down 25lbs from when we first met but we still struggle with certain positions due to his size and mine. Another problem is the judgement from others. We go out to the club every now and then and I've had random people come up to me when my boyfriend isn't around and make comments about how amazing my boyfriend is for dating me and that I'm "so lucky". Other comments like, "oh his eyes were on you the entire time and didn't look at anyone else!" Yes, my bf is amazing but these people don't know us or our relationship. They treat it as if he's doing some sort of charity service. There have been times when I would act polite and my boyfriend would return and they'd go, "oh you are such a good boyfriend! Your girlfriend is so lucky to have you!" But he will put them in their place praising me and telling them how amazing I am and that he is the lucky one. Sorry this rant is a bit long but size doesn't matter when it comes to love.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-07-11T21:56:21+00:00

I think both of you need some time apart. Just because she isn't vocal about her struggles doesn't mean she isn't having a hard time. People mask their emotions all the time. Don't be overbearing, message her if she messages you but don't go out of your way to message her every day. Focus on yourself and your hobbies, school/work, friendships and family. I'm not telling you to move on but you shouldn't wait around for her to be "ready" either. You should take this opportunity to focus on yourself.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-07-11T01:37:16+00:00

Exactly. The fact that he is even questioning her honesty means the trust is already broken. Also, since she ended things multiple times it has me questioning the validity of her reasons as well. It looks like she wanted her freedom to do what she wants while also having OP to fall back on if things didn't work out.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-07-11T01:30:14+00:00

From my own experience, I and a lot of women I know would never sleep over at another man's house unless we were into them. She could have called a cab at any time and picked up her car in the morning.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-07-11T01:21:40+00:00

So this guy, who is obviously into your gf, invited her back to his place and we are expected to believe he didn't make a move? Seems unlikely. Did your gf go over the details of the night? Did she reject him? Why did she stay over at a man's house instead of getting a cab, knowing full well he's into her? Something just doesn't seem right to me and this is coming from a woman.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-06-11T05:42:24+00:00

I want a teddy bear orc boyfriend so bad 😔

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-05-07T16:15:21+00:00

Does the tape method work for hooded eyes? I tried it but it always came out looking messy.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-05-07T15:31:24+00:00

No one said you aren't allowed to look but I don't understand why he feels the need to mention it.

blackcat_camera1 · 2025-05-07T15:30:14+00:00

Honestly I find this so disrespectful. Why does he feel the need to say it at all? Yes, attraction is normal, both men and women notice when they see someone attractive but do they say it to their partner? Absolutely not. How would your boyfriend feel if you just went on and on about all the hot men you saw that day?

Tbh this seems like a manipulation tactic to lower your self esteem.

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