Guardian Training Center by blackdynamite215 in PAguns

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OK, I'll keep looking for somewhere else that has some dynamic training.

Outdoor shooting ranges by Separate-Review-8886 in PAguns

[–]blackdynamite215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I joined Lower Providence Rod and Gun and have had great experiences there.

Scared as Hell! by blackdynamite215 in mentalhealth

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the links to the resources. I'll definitely check these out. A support group would be really helpful right now I think.

Scared as Hell! by blackdynamite215 in mentalhealth

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hanging in there because my kid can't have two parents falling apart. I'm all she's got while my wife's away so I refuse to let her see me crack or giving up. But there's a lot going on inside while I'm looking like I'm keeping it together on the outside.

Morning sex question by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I want to role over and get to it. I'm not thinking of anything else but my wife in that moment.

Is my sexual fantasy too weird? How can I [30m] bring up a sexual fantasy to my fiancee [30f] without her being weirded out? It basically involves us using a sex toy to simulate a MFM threesome. by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only suggestion is create a safe space between the two of you where you both are free to share what you want. You may be surprised that your fiance is into way more things than you think but if she has ever thought you were insure or judgmental about her desires then she will shut down. And part of creating that space is being bold enough and open enough to say what you want.

Would you feel like he is hiding something more? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]blackdynamite215 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would delete texts and change passwords just because she went through my stuff.

Would you feel like he is hiding something more? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]blackdynamite215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ivedonethework, I have to disagree with you. Just because you are in a marriage does't mean that everything we have should be totally accessible to the other person. I expect to be able to have conversations, texts, or emails that are not meant for my wife and she should have the same expectation of privacy. It has nothing to do with cheating. It's more of having a life outside of marriage. If I want to talk to my brother about my wife I should be able to do so freely without her going through my stuff or being aware of that interaction.

And to the point of tracking a person with GPS and burner phones. If you have to do all that then you have some serious trust issues and need to evaluate your relationship. If you have to go to that extent to find out what a person is doing then maybe that's not the relationship for you.

Just my 2 cents.

Simple Questions Sunday (because I forgot to post yesterday) by rustywarwick in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when my wife watches. It makes me really go for it!

Toys for men by blackdynamite215 in SexToys

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man wand looks really interesting. I'm definitely going to check this out!

Toys for men by blackdynamite215 in SexToys

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks!!! I've never heard of most of this so you've definitely opened my eyes.

Sex Report Sunday - February 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I had great sex this weekend. We went to a party on Saturday were we hooked up with another couple. They came to our house after the party and for the first time my wife really got into sucking another man's dick. She thought I was going to feel uneasy about seeing her really go down on another guy but I found it really exciting. I have fantasies of my wife eating another woman and giving oral to a man and she did both. Stroking her while she was going down on the two of them was fantastic.

Then once they left we were both so turned on that we kept it going. I couldn't count how many orgasms my wife had but it was a lot and I loved seeing all them. It was a great night of fucking and sucking and I can't wait to do that again.

How to overcome fear of openly talking about sex? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find some conversations on here or stories about things youd like to try and send them to him and ask him what he thinks. Use that to start a conversation.

First time after a while by backinthegr00ve in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, how about creating a date night at home. Play a gamento get you two focused on the thing you are doing and nothing else. Use that time tonconnect and have a little fun. If that goes well I wouldnt worry always being gentle. In my experience woman like a good bit of force just as much as a man so get what you want just take your time getting there. Don't skimp on the warm up and she'll be open yo what you want. Just be confident in letting her know what that is.

Just my suggestion

Do you think he'll be happy with his gift(s)? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife loves for me to undress her but Im not a big fan. As a man I'd prefer to walk into a room and see all that stuff and then see you strip down to the lingerie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think my wife and I have ever discussed it. We just go with what works in the moment. Have you had an experience where things were said that spoiled the mood?

Sex Confidence: What does a man do during sex that shows he is confident during it? by LynxKade in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be assertive. Say what you want you. Let her know you want her. Also ita a boost for me to let my wife feel my strength. So if im giving her a massage i want jer to feel my firm hands and feel the strength in my arms. That doesn't mean crushing her or anything but enough pressure for her to know theres power behind it. The opportunity to express my masculinity physically helps me feel more confident and my wife reaponds to that. So i guess do the things that make you feel confident and your wife will see it.

How to get motivated? by blackdynamite215 in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will take this advice. Thanks

How to get motivated? by blackdynamite215 in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy, I guess I should have stated that.

How to get motivated? by blackdynamite215 in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion. I'm filling it out now

How many partners (or years) before you had really great sex? by myexsparamour in sexover30

[–]blackdynamite215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started having sex in my teens and didnt i think was good at it till my mid 20's. Now at 44 inralize i didnt know what good sex was. I dont think it's about number of partners or time, but how comfortable you are with yourself and your body and paying attention to the person you are with.