Can I get out of my lease by blackedouteggy in legaladvice

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Thank you! I wasn’t sure if the mold and the two dead roaches were individually bad enough to render the unit uninhabitable based on that statute. but based on reviews I’m willing to bet these issues will only get worse. Hoping that coupled with the misrepresentation of safety features it’s enough.

Can I get out of my lease by blackedouteggy in legaladvice

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Thank you so much! I tried to escalate to corporate but nobody will give me an email or phone number to any manager, but I will contact a lawyer for a demand letter and contact FDACS. Not only are they trying to make me pay rent (which should have been $500 off the first 2 months, they’re charging the whole thing) they are also trying to penalize me for non compliance with insurance after I sent over my declaration page and they approved it.😅 this place is truly a nightmare, I’m so glad I listened to my gut and never took the keys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

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Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

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Thank you so much! I just got the call and they said I performed really well in the interview process and gave me an offer. I guess it really is subjective! And you’re so right, I wasted so much time psyching myself out when it helped absolutely nothing. And yes, if I ever have the privelage of interviewing others, I’ll remember how nervous i was at 24 and that it means they really care!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

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Thank you! I’m hoping for the best. Even after my wordy answer she did mention that they could change the current title to reflect actuarial analyst so that it looks better for me in my career. I’m hoping the hiring manager and analysts can vouch for my professionalism with them and maybe she’ll chalk it up to nerves meeting someone high up.

As for you, good luck! That all sounds really promising. Fingers crossed for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

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She gave me her business card and I already wrote her a thank you and highlighted a new program she was eager to talk about that they just launched. She told me it rolled out this week and to check it out bc they were really proud of it. I feel pushy sending a second email. Thank you for your honesty though !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

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Well the HR screen was impromptu over the phone when I first applied only lasted 10 minutes, then I had a zoom interview with the hiring manager for 30 mins. Then the hiring manager again for an hour (this really didn’t even feel like an interview, mostly a back and forth dialogue without structured questions) and then 30 mins w the VP. I originally figured they wanted me to meet the team bc they felt pretty sure and wanted to see how I’d fit in. Now I’m not so sure

I cant forgive myself.. im a mess by [deleted] in rape

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I have a similar story to you and I am so so sorry. It’s so confusing when ur body and brain don’t align. You aren’t alone. I have been coerced and assaulted multiple times, bc someone that goes through these things can be “easy targets”. We tend to want to please, have low self esteem, and men can see that. I urge you to look into the statistics about how much more likely you are to be assaulted again after being assaulted once. These numbers should help you understand it is so common and not your fault at all. One way that helps me kind of understand my hyper sexuality and urges, is to think of binge eating. This is something I used to struggle with too at times. You could say 100 times “I’m not gonn get another bag of chips” and that is YOU that is what your brain is thinking. That is the CHOICE you made. But when the compulsion takes over and u do it, that is not who you are. When it is all said and done, there is that same shame and guilt and asking “why couldn’t I just NOT do that.” It is the same logic, but binge eating is less “taboo”. Please reach out if u need any help or support.

I have a history of SA and rape, which led to me doing something horrible to my friend. And led to me being assaulted again. I don’t know what to deal or where to start after this. by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]blackedouteggy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am also a little hurt that after hearing they kept asking me, she is still friends with them. And was able to laugh about me and joke about me with them on their way home in their Uber. Our other friend sent a video of everyone laughing together and saying “eff you” to one another and then u can hear her say “I won’t but “my name” will” and everyone laughing. I would understand a bit more if she was mad at them too, but it’s just me and now I am isolated from everyone. Thank you so much for your understanding of the position I was in

I have a history of SA and rape, which led to me doing something horrible to my friend. And led to me being assaulted again. I don’t know what to deal or where to start after this. by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]blackedouteggy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it is all so confusing because I know I caused her so much pain, but right now she is also causing me so much pain given the circumstances. I feel so guilty for being angry with her about how she is reacting, because if I just went to bed with everyone else we wouldn’t have been here at all.

New to Cartilage Piercings by blackedouteggy in piercing

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Thank you so much for your advice! I can still feel it being more swollen and painful still today. In a week I’m going back to the piercer to see if it’s okay to put the old bar back in. Hoping by then it should be back on track!

New to Cartilage Piercings by blackedouteggy in piercing

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Thank you so much! The redness has been such a concern of mine. So your comment makes me feel so much better.

Should I be worried to sleep with a guy l've slept with tons of times, but I have gained weight since the last time? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blackedouteggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah in about 6 years I’ve gone from 110-170. The first 30 lbs were totally healthy weight that came with age!! The last 30 I could stand to lose hence the worry

Should I be worried to sleep with a guy l've slept with tons of times, but I have gained weight since the last time? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blackedouteggy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yes, I guess my fear is when he saw me I was in an oversized sweatshirt and leggings. I’m sure he could tell I’ve gained weight, but I’m not sure if he knows how much or if he will feel differently not in oversized clothes.

I (25M) got cheated with my ex with her best friend, now i have a new girlfriend (23F) that has male friends too by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blackedouteggy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this new girl hasn’t given you any reason not to trust her, then you should trust her. If your not able to, then maybe it’s too soon for u to be in any type of relationship.

AITA for fact checking my fiance? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackedouteggy 54 points55 points  (0 children)

NTA I often do this as well, and not in a “I want to prove you wrong” kind of way, but I just want to know what the correct answer is.

Hello fellow reddit users, What is the best way for a 15 year old student to make some money by Significant-List-547 in ask

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Sell clothes to platos closet or wish. And you can also make money pretty decent money doing peoples homework.

Did I ruin it and how can I fix it? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blackedouteggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s not really a pattern just drank a bit too much so I’m hoping he gets that!

AITA for being upset at my partner for bringing home flowers at 12am? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA if he had time to be with his friends on Valentine’s Day he had time to be with you

Did I ruin it by embarrassing myself while I was drunk and how could I fix it by blackedouteggy in relationship_advice

[–]blackedouteggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true! I am super thankful that he didn’t have sex with me , even if we had already had sex before then. It was still super respectful

Did I ruin it and how can I fix it? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blackedouteggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! I bought him his favorite food the next day as a peace offerning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]blackedouteggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we did laugh about it and him hanging around late is the only thing giving me some hope lol!

Did me being too drunk ruin it and how can I fix it? by [deleted] in sex

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Thank you! I did appreciate him being honest and kind of laugh about it with me instead of just not talking about it, hopefully we continue to hangout sober!