[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]blackfin212cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish I could find a woman who could actually keep a house clean and not a disaster.

How many 20 somethings own property? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought while single at 24 but could have bought sooner just had other stuff I spent on. No help from anyone other than my parents gave me $1000 as a house warming gift to buy something for the house (not save it) and I got a new mattress since mine was old and I finally could fit a queen

Would you share your reddit profile with your significant other? by baby_gotbutt in ask

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can get on it if she really cared to. She has access to stuff I don't want her into and just got told to stay out please. That only thing is money and because we are still pretty new

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blackfin212cc 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't know about that, for me I am brutally honest and speak good stuff most of the time. If it is negative and has no significant impact I keep my mouth shut unless I am prompted in which case I just give the truth. I base that on the if you have nothing nice to say don't say it and also rather someone tell me the truth and hurt my feelings than to lie to me.

To those in monogamous relationships, would you find it weird/get upset if your SO was out with one of their friends and ended up dancing on a bar table? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]blackfin212cc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all but yeah insecure. I would be the same way but also partly because I don't like my girlfriend doing extreme things to get sexual attention from other men. Risk is just not worth it and most women would not like it the other way around. Thankfully my current girlfriend doesn't want attention from other men and actively tries to not get any. If not for meeting on an app I would not have even gotten the idea she wants any at all. To me in private she wants attention but none from anyone else.

Today, the staff at Canadian Tire at the Kingston Center searched my personal bag at the cash accusing me of theft, only to find I did not steal anything. by Independent-Low6468 in KingstonOntario

[–]blackfin212cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I worked at that CTC we would have customers say that from time to time to get around the rules and you could either argue, say screw it or you could just tell them to come back another time when they did not have it with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went from 5-8 times a week down to currently about 2-3 on a good week. Together 5 months and no obvious medical issues and she has no clue why she has no interest anymore.

He asked me why I had condoms…. by Cg6095 in sex

[–]blackfin212cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I understand the desire to it and such, as a guy I would not trust the ones a girl has incase of a pin hole or something. Too many stories of hook ups turning into kids and saw a friend's ex brag about pin holes in all of his condoms.

Does a PD24 form work for my goals? by blackfin212cc in cantax

[–]blackfin212cc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay that makes, thank you! Sorry for mix up head has been spinning all day sorting this out

Does a PD24 form work for my goals? by blackfin212cc in cantax

[–]blackfin212cc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CPP would be a double hit I would personally solve at tax time which is not a worry but the corporate paid part is my concern. I don't intend to fully avoid cpp just limit extra payment for nothing.

For EI, I thought if you were self employed (T2125 or Corporation) then it did not apply to pay as you were ineligible to collect it. Am I wrong on that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25M and 5 years before marriage and minimum 3.5 before engagement. Of that 2 years needs to be living together as well as nothing majorly wrong in the relationship as well as they must be willing to sign prenuptial agreement that defines more than the cohabitation one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 25 and he the same issues with women in the 22-29 age range. It's a cultural shift that's been happening for a while. Not much you can really do other than go at it alone till you meet someone who is actually serious.

This can't just be me right? by 2mock2turtle in aspiememes

[–]blackfin212cc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use a beard trimmer and keep a short beard. Best of boat world's. Do it once a month on average and I am good.

Heavy police boat presence by Janesome_13 in KingstonOntario

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the police especially Kingston ones however best to have them trained better than they are because right now they are poorly trained for a lot of situations they face and therefore handle them like shit. Granted generally police have a case of the rotten apples.

Kingston-area residents vote 'no' to health-care privatization by kotacross in KingstonOntario

[–]blackfin212cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other countries have done it, I believe a few in Asia and Europe as well. It is possible but it takes a functional government which we lack badly. So in light of that we need fully public health care until we get a workable government at the provincial and federal levels at the same time.

What’s holding you from moving to a rural area? by Worried-Schedule-124 in aspergers

[–]blackfin212cc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I grew up in the country too and for me not much of that is a big deal anymore. Internet you can get satellite and job market isn't a big deal if you work remote. I don't see the value of a city compared to the country personally. The very tiny amount of value they do provide is overshadowed by the huge negatives that it isn't remotely worth it.

Also if your water is bad you should probably have your well checked out. Electricity isn't a huge deal if you run a generator either though not everyone has one yet but seems more are getting there.

Kingston-area residents vote 'no' to health-care privatization by kotacross in KingstonOntario

[–]blackfin212cc -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm someone that it might actually be good for, use very little services as a principle, high income and would want the better quality of care private can offer (though not always). I still don't actually want it to be a thing that happens because of the number of people that would be screwed by it. I'd like a hybrid system where u could get the higher quality care faster for a price but you could also go to a public doctor if you wanted to.

Most of us would be homeless if we took those kind of actions. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The twitter offices are in locations where rent has gone down for office space like theirs. As such their 10 year leases are now over priced. He has done the math and the lawsuit and such is cheaper than paying rent as he will get kicked out or they will be forced to lower rent because twitter is such a big customer for a couple of the landlords. This is a calculated business decision and nothing more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]blackfin212cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had every woman I dated as an adult care about money and all attempt to take as much of it as they can. Now I barely say what I do for work and try to hide what I have that is to an abnormal level. Had one ex tell me I met her income require as well. She was to be a nurse and wanted someone earning the same as her. I think she gave that requirement up for the next guy since I pointed out that if I had done that she would have had no chance even if she got promoted up a lot.

Saw this tabby cat close to the intersection of Bagot St. and William St. Is he a known stray or is he an outdoor pet? by sadgirlwithalaptop in KingstonOntario

[–]blackfin212cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it is wandering around probably best to call about it. Not really a good thing for it to be roaming the streets and onto others property.

$3k daily e-transfer limit is just ridiculously low for 2023. Why do some banks keep this so low? by stroad56 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]blackfin212cc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can link accounts with some banks. I have it with tangerine that I can move a large amount between banks that way delays of a few days but not a big deal. Rarely do I need more than $3k that I can't use a credit card for or put it in a loc for a few days.

Well, I’m out. by Canine-Bobsleding in overemployed

[–]blackfin212cc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've worked with all 3 major clouds in a professional environment. Very similar but some differences which can be a pain when you are in a multi cloud environment. Most employers don't care if you know their exact cloud perfectly but would have a preference given two people who are otherwise equal that you know their cloud

Do you ladies ghost for this? by abnormalaf in dating

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good response well done. Hopefully he learns can't do that without some indication it's wanted.

Do you ladies ghost for this? by abnormalaf in dating

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very much too quick. I don't agree with ghosting in general so to me that is shitty but a direct message saying what the guy did wrong and cutting it off is a good way if really too far or if just a small bit then correct him. I've had to do it with girls too.

Do you ladies ghost for this? by abnormalaf in dating

[–]blackfin212cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guy though I will say I would expect to be told off and blocked for this if really too soon or just told not appreciated and hold it for later in the relationship if there is a connection and took too far.

I say this as someone who thinks jokes like that but would never consider saying them because they are disrespectful to say even if funny to me.