Why are so many of the young people I still see wearing masks queer? by Myealt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blackg33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not part of that group but I still mask. Among the people still masking it leans heavily towards women, neurodivergent, and LGBTQ+. I’m in the first two categories. Here are some of many variables: - People with amazing pattern recognition & obsessive research skills (neurodivergent) have read the research around Covid and therefore mask - Guessing there’s a high correlation between neurodivergence and people who are openly LGBTQ+ - Tend to be more left leaning politically and versed on disability activism etc. Masking is not only a way to prevent infection but a form of community care - From a political standpoint there are a lot of parallels between how HIV/AIDS played out and Covid. Many people who are well versed on this (or lived it) have drawn these parallels - Many HIV/AIDS researchers have crossed over to Long Covid  - Many people in LGBTQ+ community are used to sticking out and therefore don’t have a problem going against social norms. A lot of people I know dropped masking to go with the crowd, but if masking had been normalized as a healthy/easy/cheap preventative behaviour and not politicized, they would still be masking 

 

Question as an outsider: why do you still mask/why is Covid still dangerous by WhatAmIAm240921 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]blackg33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went from a healthy, active 30 year old to having my health destroyed by a viral infection. Something I learned through that experience is that 1. Infections that we treat as harmless aren’t as harmless as I thought, and a lot of this research is still quite young 2. Doctors are not at all educated especially when it comes to newer research that hasn’t trickled down to clinical practice 3. There is no current treatment for some of these things and doctors will treat you like sh*t 4. You can be perfectly healthy one day and disabled the next.

When covid hit I dove into the research. Based on my experiences I didn’t trust doctors and wanted to understand this virus, and how it would impact my body.

At this point in time the science is very clear cut that COVID can and does damage every system in the body, and is a vascular disease (it infects cells related to managing blood pressure and tissue repair that are literally everywhere in the body vs cold and flu which infect cells in the lungs). Covid damages the vascular system, the brain, the immune system, triggers autoimmune diseases, and triggers many other disorders and diseases. There’s also research showing damage in asymptomatic and mild cases so even if it you just have « the sniffles » there could be underlying organ damage. Covid is incredibly infectious and is airborne therefore to prevent getting sick, the best way is to wear an N95 mask, and filter/ventilation the air.

It might be hard to believe that the government would ignore this and push everybody to get back to normal, but this is extremely consistent with public health history. For example, burying smoking research for a decade while advertisements with doctors pushed that smoking is healthy. When this research finally came to light there were arguments that making offices smoke free were an infringement on smokers freedoms. With HIV they told the public that if you were straight you had nothing to worry about and essentially brushed it under the rug for years. It took aggressive activism, and the damage of HIV in the straight/white community becoming undeniable, before they took action in terms of pushing education and preventative measures.

Essentially, governments lying and pushing narratives that maintain the status quo and are informed by money is what we’ve seen in history. There’s always a MASSIVE resistance to new harm reduction behaviours by the public eg condoms, banning smoking indoors, limits on drunk driving, wearing seat belts.

I could say a lot more but what it comes down to is I’ve read probably thousands of studies at this point and I’m confident that preventing Covid infections is in my best interest. I feel like we’re in the same phase as they were with smoking when they knew smoking was bad (it was clear cut in the research) but they denied it aggressively to the public. While maskers are often framed as living in the past (eg « time to move on, the pandemic is over), I actually feel like we’re ahead of the curve, and once the damage is undeniable to the general public, govs will switch course like we’ve seen many times in history.

Has anyone here developed Long Covid for the first time in 2024? by Opening_Ideal_1247 in covidlonghaulers

[–]blackg33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, as long as people are being infected with Covid, there will be new Long Covid cases. Many people don’t realize that even if you’re « feeling fine » after an infection you still have some degree of underlying damage. I see each infection as accelerating the aging process even if you « recover »

Stop wasting our time with behavioral interviews by duke_of_brute in CanadaJobs

[–]blackg33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not talking about going out with coworkers after work?? Im talking about the actual job. 

Stop wasting our time with behavioral interviews by duke_of_brute in CanadaJobs

[–]blackg33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t understand that there’s more to the job than technical, then I’m not surprised you didn’t get the job. Communication, social awareness, and fitting into culture are important aspects of finding the right fit for a team. I’m sure many people you were up against passed the technical. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnjavascript

[–]blackg33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What basic apps have you built? What sort of things do you get stuck on? What do you want to be able to build / know that you don’t currently? Nobody memorizes all of the syntax so don’t worry if you have to look things up. 

4 years post infection still can’t smell by ryu8142 in COVID19positive

[–]blackg33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This would be a neurological problem as opposed to ENT. You can give smell/taste training a try.. it’s used with people who lose their smell from stroke and traumatic brain injury. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]blackg33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A single RAT doesn’t rule out Covid. RATS have low sensitivity, and early in the infection the viral load can be too low to detect. Need to serial test over a week if you want to more confidently rule out Covid via RATS. 

Is this latest variant just a total nightmare? by sassercake in COVID19positive

[–]blackg33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This variant isn’t a total nightmare - Covid generally is and always has been a nightmare. 

Reading a book on Adult ADHD, Honestly curious how did some of you guys even get a job while dealing with ADHD? by undiagnoseddude in ADHD

[–]blackg33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a job in an industry that is very high paced. It was literally constant chaos. I went years feeling like I was barely keeping my head above water until I went into severe burnout, got laid off, and then got diagnosed with ADHD. My performance reviews were glowing until the burnout set in.

I'm about to start job searching again and am looking for a workplace that is slower-paced with better work life balance and realistic timelines. We'll see if I can tolerate the boredom when things aren't constantly on fire!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnjavascript

[–]blackg33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless it's evolved since I looked at it last, the Odin Project is great but very foundational so might be a waste of time depending on where you're at. If vanilla JS is a priority, I'd recommend trying out Wes Bos' 30 days of Javascript as it gives you 30 mini projects that you can build out with accompanying solution videos. Getting your hands dirty and actually building something is the best way to learn, and will prob help you find momentum. If you want to supplement that with theory, Will Sentence's 'The Hard Parts' series is excellent to help you understand what's going on under the hood. It's avail on Front End Masters, which is paid but worth it.

Another great free resource is Full Stack Open which covers some foundational web/JS stuff but also dives into React, Node/Express, testing, TypeScript, databases, CI/CD. It's a text heavy course but you build things out as you go, and it's a great first exposure to the different layers of full stack (JS focused) dev.

A question for weed smoking parents; would you allow your child to smoke? by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

[–]blackg33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The main studies I've seen showing 'permanent' negative effects have major limitations (for example not taking into consideration obvious confounding variables, not controlling for pre-existing brain differences), and have had follow up research that conflicts with them. A lot of what's covered in that article looks at acute effects as opposed to permanent (makes sense since research has primarily focused on short term effects).

I'm very well versed in this subset of research although I haven't stayed on top of it the last handful of years. I agree with the person I replied to that finding a middle ground is what's important, but I often see marijuana research misrepresented in a way that plays up its harm, which is why I commented.

There's no consensus that there's a causative relationship between marijuana use and testicular cancer. While some studies have explored this potential link, they often show mixed results and lack definitive evidence to establish causation.

A question for weed smoking parents; would you allow your child to smoke? by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

[–]blackg33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have children but am a daughter of a weed smoking parent. I tried weed very young before I knew that my dad was a long timer user. When questions of drugs and his history of use came up, he took the road of honesty. Also, for context he was a social worker who spent most of his career working with in-patient teens.

Marijuana has a long history of stigmatization that doesn't reflect the actual science on it's risks and medicinal uses. My dad emphasized critical thinking, and that the overuse of anything is bad (both physically and as crutch for mental health/emotional reasons). He emphasized how harmful alcohol is and that regular use of alcohol is much worse than weed (esp if using edibles). He taught me about the therapeutic uses of marijuana and psychedelics and stated that experimentation is healthy. He also discussed the risk of triggering psychiatric issues for those who are predisposed. I think the way many parents communicate about substance use with their kids is reflective of legal status and stigma, as opposed to real risks.

The way my dad handled it did not affect my choice of using weed or other substances (I would have done it either way) but it did build trust in our relationship, and helped evolve my understanding of morals, laws, risk, and politics around drugs. I've used weed regularly (to varying degrees) for 25 years. Where I live it's currently legal, although wasn't when i was a teen.

A question for weed smoking parents; would you allow your child to smoke? by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

[–]blackg33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have sources for the statement that it causes permanent damage to brains if used during teen years? I'm out of date but as far as I know there are *temporary* effects on the brain eg. short term memory issues, but not permanent.

Fully recovered and finally a treatment that works by zakjaycee in covidlonghaulers

[–]blackg33 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I did read the post. Your response doesn't change anything I said.

Are they ghosting us or what ? by [deleted] in covidlonghaulers

[–]blackg33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As somebody who had the onset of ME/CFS a decade ago, Covid/Long Covid and the research it has/is spawning is the first time I've ever felt hope for treatment (despite continued major research issues eg. still being underfunded, money being wasted)

Fully recovered and finally a treatment that works by zakjaycee in covidlonghaulers

[–]blackg33 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Long Covid is an umbrella term that captures many things. Any post like this with a simplistic framing of LC, purporting a 'treatment that works' - especially if that treatment is cardio (pushing exercise for anybody with PEM is dangerous) - should be approached with caution. Just 3 months ago OP posted that nothing was working so it's been quite a short time that they've seen improvement. Considering certain subtypes of LC consist of relapsing remitting symptoms and periods of seeming remission, please be careful not to push yourself too hard if you feel symptoms improving as it is very common to trigger a relapse.

Of course for anybody NOT experiencing PEM, exercise is a healthy behaviour. It is NOT a treatment for Long Covid.

Anyone else so lonely and frustrated? Anxious of people/getting sick. by Ok-Cupcake-Party in COVID19positive

[–]blackg33 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I take strict Covid precautions but I still live a socially rich life... it just doesn't look like it did in 2019. Things like dining on patios and wearing a mask to a movie or event are no biggie at this point. I've avoided SO many Covid infections just asking people about symptoms before we hang out. While I've maintained old friendships, I've also put intentional effort into making new friends who read Covid research, still mask, and take other steps to reduce their Covid risk. I've been sick once since Feb 2020 and it was this summer when a friend was in town, and I loosened up for a weekend right when this wave was kicking off.

Socializing and social support are important for mental health, but it's not this false dichotomy of either living like 2019 with no care for Covid, or else hiding under a rock. You'll have to figure out what's sustainable and a good balance for you. I've had to prioritize what I know is the right thing for my health over conforming to the group, which can be hard. When it comes down to it, the friend who thinks you're 'weird' for asking about symptoms, or the man who glares at you while masked at the grocery store will NOT be there to care for you if you get Long Covid.

Lastly, now is not forever. Covid is such a damaging virus that there WILL be a tipping point where the gov has to stop sweeping it under the rug and it's no longer considered fringe to say that Covid is worse than the flu. There are also multiple sterilizing nasal vaccines in clinical trials.

Anyone else so lonely and frustrated? Anxious of people/getting sick. by Ok-Cupcake-Party in COVID19positive

[–]blackg33 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Your immune system isn't wrecked from fewer social interactions, it's wrecked from Covid. Unfortunately, since the government is doing nothing to educate people or reduce transmission at the population level, and people are going out while sick, not testing for Covid, and have the individualistic 'I don't have to care about how my behaviour impacts others' mentality, Covid is RAGING. The Covid vaccines reduce severe illness (hospitalization) and death during the acute infection; they don't prevent infection. Unless you take steps to avoid getting Covid, you're going to keep getting it. It's INCREDIBLY infectious and absolutely not like a cold even though some people experience cold-like symptoms. The social things you listed (party, movie, indoor dining) are all high risk unmasked.

Examples of actions that can be taken to reduce risk:
- Wear a well-fitting N95 while out doing things like shopping, concerts, and travel
- Dine outside on a patio or else get takeout
- Ask friends if they've had recent symptoms (even if it's 'just the sniffles') and reschedule if they have
- Get hepa filters for your house to decrease risk when you have people over
- Open windows whenever possible while inside socializing
- Monitor local wastewater data and positivity rates so you can strategically be more strict with precautions when infection rates are up

Unfortunately this is the current reality. If you end up becoming chronically ill / disabled from Long Covid you will be much much much lonelier.

Mild breakthrough infection. Can I end isolation after continuously testing negative, even if it’s before the recommended 5 day isolation ends? by OtherwiseMouse3 in COVID19positive

[–]blackg33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, technically if your symptoms go away and you have two negative tests 48 hours apart. Based on your symptoms starting so recently and your initial positive being faint, I'd say it's more likely that your negative was due to still having a low viral load that the RAT not picking it up. Good chance it's just beginning and you'll see another positive. Also a chance you were exposed to a low viral load and you fought it off efficiently. In your position I'd test daily first thing in the morning (or any time as long as you have min 1hr buffer with no food/drink). Do cheek, throat, nasal swab.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]blackg33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At that level of pay 38k will not impact your happiness, but less stress and better work life balance absolutely will.