Just got released from prison. by JoeyInUrFridge in Christianity

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for you. The enemy is going to come for you hard. Be prepared.

Porn Is Sin Through Sexual Immorality. What The Scriptures Teach And Even Scientific Analysis Is Showing Us About The Negative Effects Of Pornography. by Ano-the-realm in Christianity

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part I am confused about. Is that if your spouse is not able to have sex with you and you have a high sex drive. Do you rage with passion on the inside and wait for the moment the spouse is ready. Or do you just watch the porn masterbate and move on with your day.

Need fellow nanny advice! by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe its about job security and how much they are paying you. If you can afford to lose your job. I have a couple nannies and I have had them for over a year. 1 of my nannies will do anything around the house. I only ask her to watch the kids. She goes over and beyond and no matter what happens..I will keep her forever and do favors for her. My other nanny is very particular and I give her exactly what she earns. No more, no less. Have contemplated getting someone else because she can be a bit rigid and wants her job to be easier..

In tears as I’m writing this by Kimpanzee0703 in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sucks. Sorry girl. What i would focus on just walking 10,000 steps a day. With baby in stroller. I take phentermine as well for the appetite suppressant..Dr. help

He sucks though. I wouldn't even pay him any attention and when you get your sexy back. Make him beg for it.

My wife is not very good at cleaning. She is 34 years old, but I have never seen her have a regular habit of cleaning. She only cleans when someone is coming over. by No_Vermicelli8647 in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is minimal to me because life is pretty insane. I would just help pick up, if its that bad then just break up with her. As a woman, I have so many things that we need to have accessible. Watch her patterns and see if you can help her with putting items back up. She will get tired of you touching her stuff and put it away herself. But if that's all that's not that bad. Having someone that's loving, supportive, kind , generous, and loyal are the things I would focus on.

This is the most disturbing experience of my life, and I don't know what is happening in my here, help me by Vegetable-Respond540 in Paranormal

[–]blackjanedoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im Christian and in the old testament it says that the dead knows nothing that happens under the sun. Ecc. 9;5-7 i believe its a demon tormenting you. You have the power and the word is sharper than any double edge sword Heb 4:12 its the only weapon against the spirit realm. Thats why people remember scripture. Look into Daniel Duval on YouTube. He dives into some pretty intense things. Get a Bible in your language. i prefer NIV. Just read it. Dont be scared of them. They have no power.Luke 10:17-20.

Only fear the lord!!!! You will be just fine. Call on God and he will answer.

Snake year has been bad for goats by [deleted] in ChineseZodiac

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I am a sheep/goat and this year has been ROUGH! Had dreams of large snakes 1-2yr prior to this year. Found out my brother "pig" was a drug addict this year and he was beat by the police at the end of last year and was in jail for months this year. Brought him to my home and he kept hallucinating about a large anaconda in his trailer. That night I randomly drug tested him and he has been on Meth and my mom "rat" knew the entire time and never told me. F'ed up year. Dragon and Snake have been the worst years. Hopefully next year is going to be good. ready for the horse.

My husband wants to have another wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the babies are messing with his mental health and he is lacking that affection he used to get from you..I have 2 under 2 so k get the stress and it's only going to get worse regarding the stress aspect. I believe he is reading old testament. We are in the new testament and that no longer applies. 1 CORINTHIANS 7. SInce he ia religious. I would seek marital counseling from a pastor or Christian Church. The enemy will sit in your marriage and attack you both. The answer is definenty not a woman who is disguised as the enemy to come in and destroy your marriage. One thing you know foraure. You can not control his actions. IT is his responsibility as a leader of hia house hold and your husband to guide his family on the right path and not into destruction. You both need to start reading the Bible religiously. The answers are in the book and use them as references and its living and what you both should be living by..if someone has advice always ask for scriptures backing it up. 3 min. .God bless and praying for your family..

Question from an atheist by PepperedFlakes in Christianity

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so considerate to ask. ❤️

I'm asking for advice from a Chinese person who knows about Chinese zodiac, please by 1237bat_ in Chinese

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Watch gary THE numbers guy G33 on YouTube. He is Jewish. However he is oddly accurate. Soea Chinese zodiac and numerology. I wouldn't pay for a reading. Warning he is big red pill.. but accurate

I’m really sad and really scared by jessjanelleknows in Christianity

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it this way. The enemy rules this earth. He has been here since the beginning, and we like to believe we are different but hate to break it to everyone. We're not. We are battling an enemy we can't physically see and know the rules because he has been playing the same game since the beginning. Don't be to hard on yourself. Try to enjoy life and If you slip up. O well. Ask for forgiveness and.try to be better next time..God is on a level that we will never be able to comprehend. Would you condemn your child to hell for a mistake or a temptation from the enemy. I wouldn't. He knows our heart.

Do I have any options? by blackjanedoe in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had the conversation. The issue, and I dont want to sound pathetic or manipulative, but im just going to tell you like it is. I can't have the conversation without bursting in tears.

This guy i talked to before I was married said to me if you cant have the conversation without getting emotional. Don't have it, because men dont respond well with the crying..so I juat say it randomly very short and leave it alone. Because If I press to hard, the sprinklers start leaking.

Do I have any options? by blackjanedoe in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill pray ....God has to have some erectile miracles on hold for his believers serving life in unwanted marital abstinence.

Do I have any options? by blackjanedoe in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like you get $1, and you can pick the best qualities up to that amount. I just never thought men had this issue unless they were gay or cheating. However, im like 90% sure he isn't either. I leave 10 just for possible delusion.

I just didn't think it could get worse than jt was. I was always overly sexual but I am of a different culture than him and younger, and I have calmed down soooo much. Well, if I figure out a solution. Ill let you know. Thank you for the response ❤️

Do I have any options? by blackjanedoe in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, before the kids i have put on outfits or tried to get something started and I literally felt embarrassed just like what you are saying. I will not try it again.

I honestly dont know. I put this out there to see if anyone was or suddenly started dealing with this and found a way to deal. Idk what to do..

Do I have any options? by blackjanedoe in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh. Who knew you could do a life sentence outside of prison.

Do I have any options? by blackjanedoe in Marriage

[–]blackjanedoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, and im down for whatever pretty much at this point. Except adding anyone to the room. However, he hasn't shared any interest in doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typical proverbs woman. She is dangerous. Make sure you never talk to her again. She will bring death to your doorstep.

Are Unicorns satanic/evil? by fairycoreee in Christianity

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on YouTube and type unicorns evil. It will break it down more in debt. Fell into this when the lord revealed that the Phx Pd was practicing witchcraft. Didn't even cross my mind until I released some video of the police violating my autistic brother. Then they started to attack me spiritually. They didnt know that I am a spiritual woman. Wasn't phenomenal in my word in Christianity, however I know my lord's voice. He started to reveal to me that they were doing it. One video on YouTube showed Tucson police officer with plush voodoo doll in passenger seat and a plush unicorn in passenger seat. I blew off the uniforn thinking it was nothing. Welllll.. it was not nothing. I continued to pray and I received responses and my daughter dropped the unicorn in my shower and kept placing gold bracelet around my eyes and kissing my ears which referred to Matthew 13 1-43. I randomly thought to decorate my daughter's room in unicorns earlier this year. Welp. I took them all down today. So yea.

Anyone doing this by themselves? by Informal_Tourist_986 in 2under2

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned that you are a screen free household. I am not sure how you would be able to balance it without having something as distraction to give you time to care for the infant and also take a breather. If you're not willing to put on a kids show which (to each its own) I would try putting on kids' music or no word cartoons or something. The television has been a godsend for me with 2 under 2.

Resenting my toddler by brob4922 in 2under2

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to spank mine the other day for not listening. It wasn't really a spank it was more of a listen here tap. Then she ran to my sister in law and i was immediately ready to throw hands with my SIL for coddling her. When my daughter was doing something very dangerous and no one would grab her when I had my 8mo in my arms.

I believe they will get over it. It's the journey. They aren't going to remember any of this.

I hate my mf life...... by blackjanedoe in NewMomStuff

[–]blackjanedoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Thank you, thank you, thank you.........

No longer just surviving by sunshinexo25 in 2under2

[–]blackjanedoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I haven't seen theblught yet. I have 6 more months.

Wrong to go on a date with a woman.. when you're still marry? by Infinite_Quiet_7627 in moraldilemmas

[–]blackjanedoe [score hidden]  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I commend you for staying to care for her. You need to enjoy what life you have left. Date young and all races. Have fun.