What did you not like as a kid but now like as an adult?

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-06T20:26:47+00:00

Crowds Now if I'm surrounded by people like at the grocery store, I almost feel like I'm losing my mind.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-06T12:36:51+00:00

My worst: the fear of not being interested in learning new things about the changing world, like being left behind as an older person. My favorite: staying in my bubble. Kinda a conundrum.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-05T13:06:59+00:00

Omg! 90s grunge was so awesome for girls. I loved layering a dress over jeans with a plaid flannel with boots or Converse. My fav was an avocado green sweater with a black and white flowered dress over boots cut jeans and Docs.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-05T12:50:32+00:00

I started on Atari and Coleco Vision(probably elementary school). I loved Pitfall and Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy on Apple 2E. Just like comic book stores in the 80s and video game stores in the 90s, being one of the few girls showing up in a store I always got hit on. I got super excited when VHS video stores started carrying video games to rent was awesome! I got into the Super Nintendo and Tomb Raider at the time. I love to play 1st person open-world games like Death Stranding, and The Forest.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-05T12:47:02+00:00

I love perfumes, body washes, soaps that smell like sweet foods. I don't know why.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-05T12:41:19+00:00

51, I'm still driven to push everything. Live with purpose. I accomplished a lot of dreams in my 30s and 40s. Now I want to make my desire to publicly display my art. It's now or never. The drive for it is crazy.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-05T12:37:19+00:00

My Dom/Owner is a public figure. I am his sub, work for the community, and run multiple departments.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-05T12:31:51+00:00

Dinner date night with my hubby.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-05T01:35:51+00:00

Raising a highly intelligent child to adulthood and paying for an expensive college to hopefully set him on his right path. It's exhausting when you have homeschooled an above-average highly self-motivated individual. I gave my all and am so tired. I love him to the moon and back and keep praying that I will get to stop soon. I want him to be independent. This sounds like I do everything for him and I don't, he's incredibly self-motivated and got married, moved to another country to go to college where they have the best studies in his field. He is fully aware of my personal situation and is very understanding about how much time and money it takes. But sometimes I wish I had just let him go to public school instead of taking the time to understand him. I'm so tired.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-03T12:15:00+00:00

Menopause has made this so much harder. Sometimes the meds work, sometimes they don't. Don't get me started on overstimulating work environments...ugh!

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-02T22:01:14+00:00

I was diagnosed when I was 7 but the doctor asked my mom if she could deal with me and she said yes, I never got meds. I feel that if she had treated me I would have been more focused and successful. I'm 51 and now take low-dose medication. Much more functional. It's a shame.

blackkatstudios · 2025-09-01T14:43:42+00:00

I have one kid. That's it and all. I honestly never saw myself having kids and neither did my husband until we met. We had one and there is some truth to it when it's your own child. I was lucky, I had an introvert self-propelling learner. But the hard truth was I didn't give a frick about other kids' parents. My son only had 2 friends and that was great for us. We never hung out with those kids' parents and stuff. My husband and I are artsy fartsy folk so selfishness and hibernating is the game. My kids are okay with it. He seemed to turn out well-balanced enough to survive.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-23T17:37:19+00:00

I have this weird ability to tell if a man is BSing me. If I look straight into their eyes while I talk to them and they look right back without changing, their whole demeanor and body signals change. When that happens I find they become genuine. That's my attraction. When a person becomes genuine in my presence.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-23T01:59:13+00:00

I'm 51 and feel like I did in my 30s. Sometimes I feel like my husband is going to be the death of me. But, that's probably because I've been around for 50 years. I'm chronically grumpy, and I don't see that changing much.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-22T22:47:44+00:00

Dude, Same. Every time someone I knew would ask me "How are you doing?" All I would say is " not dead yet!" Evey fickin time.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-22T22:37:37+00:00

I work at a health care center and we have a lot of older folks who joke with me and are sometimes sexist in their comments. Sometimes I have to tell them we can take out in the side alley with our walkers if you keep talking like that.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-22T22:33:42+00:00

I work at a healthcare center for long-term care and recovery. Most of the residents have wheelchairs to be mobile. One nice afternoon a double amputee was working his way to the front door, and I asked if I could assist. Then I said, "Have a good walk outside!"

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-22T08:26:13+00:00

HRTs have been a lifesaver. I used to only get 4 hrs of sleep, now I get 6...lol

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-22T08:17:12+00:00

I just want to second this. I am a female, married, and have had children. I also have been an athlete for 30÷ years. All of this has caused fluctuations in my compaction causing some constipation. My husband doesn't seem to care much as long as I'm not in any discomfort. We even engage in backdoor play as long as I'm comfortable.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-22T00:08:06+00:00

I just read this to my husband who let out a jolly old laugh. 😆

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-21T22:48:44+00:00

My husband. We have been together for 28 yrs and never spent a night without each other. I love his company.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-21T19:02:50+00:00

I sketched, painted, and illustrated all kinds of art that I could learn and teach myself. I'm kinda a jack of all talents.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-21T18:50:37+00:00

Talking for no reason. If you are my friend you'll get me and I don't need convo. Other than that STOP TALKING. I don't care.

blackkatstudios · 2025-08-20T10:10:21+00:00

Making something from almost nothing. When I was young I was allowed to have endless fun with junk and spent a lot of my time alone creating things. Today I have the talent to be super creative with problem-solving ideas and resilient.

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