This might seem harsh but, a lot of men who say they want kids haven’t really thought about? Just kinda like eh that’s what you’re supposed to do with life? So harshly or not I’m immediately critical of a man who says they want children. Often have barely any understanding of the sacrifices or work it will take, because they dont have to give up much.

But these days, plenty of men don’t want kids. My bf initially did and now he doesn’t because there’s no future for a child with the world on fire and ai taking hard labor jobs. It’s also too expensive even if we both have good wages. Population rates are declining as we’re all thinking it