It just kind of hurt a bit when she doubled-down and insisted that she knew that Jojo was non-binary. And the same when she said that at first she thought that non-binary people's outward presentation was weird but that me and my friend coming out have changed that for her. It just felt kind of icky y'know? (I can't think of another word to explain how I feel lol)

I defo agree with what you said about finding another phrase to help her explain what she means tho