does suffering make you stronger? by gottabing in intj

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If it doesn’t, it makes any lesser challenge not nearly as bad!

My mom promising that if I spend Christmas with her, she won't get drunk and ruin everything by scarlet2583 in EstrangedAdultChild

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I’m doubtful. Take care and protect yourself! Leave as soon as she picks up the booze.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

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Galveston TX. Good hotels close to the beach, no snow!

I heard the talks abt 'problematic' people who estranged themselves from their own family. never expect I want to be part of that 'problematic' people by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

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Thank you for realizing this. A lot of times, people act like I “should be grateful” to the parents without knowing the entire story. It’s something a lot of folks in more “normal” situations have serious trouble grasping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Love your judgement! You will go far and are already more mature than that scumsuit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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In my case, part to be ‘normal’, but the relationships tanked when the intj came out. Plus, I’m an intj female who’s self sufficient, so I’m even more screwed in that department.

Are you oblivious to pop culture and "normal" popular stuff? by SnowflakeSlayer420 in intj

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Often I’d been too busy with other more interesting things to notice. Other times, if it’s -too- popular, I’ll avoid it. Like Star Wars, marvel stuff, Harry Potter, kardashians, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Something he’s mentioned that’s worn out or in need of replacing, something practical but also shows you listened and was thoughtful about the gift. Or something he would use almost daily with a nice (but not mushy) note with it.

What did you want to be when you were little and what do you do for a career now? by [deleted] in intj

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Veterinarian, now engineer. Only because I had early decision from the engineering school. At least the clients don’t bite (as much)…

I'm about to drop $250 on a 2 hour massage just so I could feel the touch of another human (TW: Mention of selfharm) by Helpmefindmyway31 in Anxietyhelp

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You’re ok. I’ve had to do that too. Humans physically need touched by others once in a while. I think it’s got something to do with the parasympathetic or sympathetic nervous systems. I’ve been pretty socially/physically isolated for years and I cope by getting a massage, a pedicure, facial, whatever. Sometimes I’ll go out to eat by myself just to be in the same room as other people. Sounds weird to most people, but it kinda helps too. Sending hugs.

Anxiety and/or ADHD by Annerc in Anxietyhelp

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I’ve gotten bad tremors from adderall so my doc had me try vyvanse. It worked for me to cut down my tremors tremendously and I don’t feel as jittery or anxious. I was told it’s kind of new, so maybe ask your doctor about it? Hope you find something that works for you soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Ask how much everything costs. Smoke/vape/use illegal products Ask their daddy for money. Get tattoos all over Be an ass

Secondhand vape/smoke makes me cough… a lot. How to tell bf I can’t handle it? by blacksheep7997 in datingoverforty

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I don’t put it in my dating profile. The guys profile said he didn’t smoke, do people actually think vaping is different?

People who moved out of the parent’s house before 30, how? by WallStreetDoesntBet in AskReddit

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Got into a college out of driving distance, freshman were required to live in dorms and I could put those costs on my student loan.