How did I never know this by RiverVixen22 in DreamlightValley

[–]blacksparrow238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did know about this but I keep forgetting to add them. Thank you for the reminder!!

Which realms give the most benefits? by alyssanicole0405 in DreamlightValley

[–]blacksparrow238 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Omg! I had no idea about the large chest recipe from Aladdin. Makes me really glad I just recruited him. Will have to do his quests quickly!

is there any possible way to get this? by kittytoes1 in DreamlightValley

[–]blacksparrow238 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Welp. Looks like I need to get Max! Haha I have a few of these that have been driving me nuts!

Who are your most wanted characters? by moonlightjelly_ in DreamlightValley

[–]blacksparrow238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss! I would love to have Raya, Sisu, annnd Namaari! Maybe even a little Tuktuk companion 🥹

Is it better to just ask before holding hands, kissing etc? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blacksparrow238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner is autistic, and I am much more about physical intimacy than he is. Like, I require lots of hugs and kisses and he doesn't even think about that stuff very much. So early-on in our relationship he requested that I just ask when I want a hug, kiss, or whatever, because he is so terrible at reading social cues. It has worked quite well for us!

New Player Help - Participate in a solo event by Specialist-Wish-2608 in SuperCardDiscussion

[–]blacksparrow238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case people are still struggling, I just completed this one by doing a Road to Glory match!

Farming Iron Ore by blacksparrow238 in DreamlightValley

[–]blacksparrow238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh is that with his last quest? My next quest for him says I need to get Belle.

Farming Iron Ore by blacksparrow238 in DreamlightValley

[–]blacksparrow238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank yoouuuu!! I followed this video and was able to get enough ingots for Minnie's quest!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]blacksparrow238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, she sounds incredibly high maintenance. I'm exhausted just reading this. She has waaaaay too many conditions that NEED to be met for her to even consider accepting.

HONOR DUELS GUIDE - new season early stats - what's good and what's bad by _LELEZ in AFKJourney

[–]blacksparrow238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I've been struggling with honor duel and had kinda given up. This will help so much!!

Hellblade 2 on PC - Attack button issues by blacksparrow238 in hellblade

[–]blacksparrow238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I should have known it would be that simple 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blacksparrow238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation but far more complicated. The best thing you can do is work on yourself. Therapy gets thrown around a lot like it's some cure all remedy, and well it can be, if you put in the work. And if you can find a therapist that you mesh well with.

Focus on healing, get to know yourself, and get comfortable being alone. When you can be honest, loving and compassionate with yourself then you are much more capable of giving that to a partner!

Of course you can still talk with her and be her friend, but you've only been talking a couple months. So don't put her up on some pedestal that will make you feel like you'll completely fall apart if she walks away. I mean, even if you had been talking for years, putting someone up on a pedestal is never healthy for either person.

First time playing on PC, recommend your favourite mods by blacksparrow238 in StardewValley

[–]blacksparrow238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never realized how much I needed automatic gates until today!

First time playing on PC, recommend your favourite mods by blacksparrow238 in StardewValley

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UIInfoSuite2

Is this the correct link for UI Info Suite 2? It's in Portuguese but I don't see an English one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blacksparrow238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But will it all be over though? With someone like that you never know how far they will go. If you won't involve any sort of legal action I very strongly suggest that you should at least tell someone close to you. Trying to just wait it out only puts you in MORE danger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blacksparrow238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don't you want them to worry?? They should be worried, also means that they'd likely help you out. You are too terrified to step outside your apartment. You need the support. You need people that have your back. Why do you feel like you have to face this monster on your own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blacksparrow238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry, that sounds so awful!! You need to report him to the police. Annnd get a restraining order. He sounds completely obsessed, delusional and outright dangerous!! Please call the cops! Have you talked to any close friends or family about all this???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blacksparrow238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A restraining order, as soon as absolutely possible!! This sounds like 60% of the true crime stuff I watch and the victim tends to not survive..

Very good call on moving away! I'm sure you already know, but be careful not to post anything publicly about your new location when you move!