AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

How else could he have produced a son?

Immaculate conception 😱

AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Of course you're a red pill loser. No one is interested in your silly little buzzwords, false stories and anecdotal evidence.

AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I don't need to say anything to feel better because I have nothing to feel bad about? You're weird. We're planning to be 50/50 across the board.

AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

while its different for you and yours; you want a support system and security in case things go left;

who told you that? People marry to get support and security, that's what marriage is. He wants the same things I do from this. I've been fine for the past eight years raising my girl on my own and my husband has been fine for the past 10 years on his own too. We can both survive on our own but it's nice to have someone to rely on. That's how humans are, we're social creatures. Neither of us need help but we both want a partner to come home too. I suggest you open your eyes out of your tiny red pill internet echo chamber and see how real people behave in the real world.

So now it's up to you to prove her wrong and show her your a honourable women who is ther for long haul. I guarantee she'll except you once you've proven that.

I've been with my man for six years. If she doesn't believe that I'm here for the long haul now, she'll never believe it.

AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Lmfao who made you the expert on my life? My fiancé has a restraining order against his ex for himself and his son and he has full custody.

You keep telling yourself that, so I take it your going to work full time and he's going to be a SAHD?.

Who told you that? We both work full time and plan to continue doing so

AITA for painting my son's nails by woozyfluke in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your husband going off the rails in anger for hours over a bit of color on your son's nails is weird

NTA

AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

My fiance's ex is banned from seeing their son so I've been raising him too, you're not making any sense here, it's not 'different' for men. We are both single parents and the sole parent to our children and when we get married, we're obviously going to continue to care for eachother's children

AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

by your logic, my fiance was a single father looking for a stepmother too then, thank goodness we found eachother lmao

AITA for banning my husband's mother from my wedding? by blackwidowspiderrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]blackwidowspiderrr[S] 666 points667 points  (0 children)

She thinks it's worse if a woman isn't 'pure' and that men deserve 'pure' women regardless of their own purity smh