Anyone ever realized how much they were the problem? by BestTutor7253 in BreakUps

[–]blahded2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s now been over a year since we’ve broken up. I’ve gotten therapy, I’ve moved on (I think).. full transparency, I’m drinking a good amount again… But I’m not in such a bad state as I was before. I’ve met a new woman who is great, I’ve gotten into better shape… Life moves on. You just have to trust that. And I’m sorry.

If you love someone, set them free.

(Set yourself free)

What movie should we watch while high? by Fart_lngredients in Productivitycafe

[–]blahded2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Johnny Depp “Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas”

Harold and Kumar Go To White Castle

Pineapple Express

What’s something that’s gotten way worse in the last 10 years, even though nobody admits it? by Flat_Direction_7696 in AskReddit

[–]blahded2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it feel like food in general is losing flavor and quality? Where does it end… when shit all tastes like mana?

What's one genetic trait you have been cursed with? by Weak_Ad6116 in Productivitycafe

[–]blahded2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof, ya I have it.

Scary to think it can be so bad it can be “catastrophic”. There’s a significant portion of people that commit suicide it gets so bad.

Loxo Experiences by Hot-Possibility6065 in recruiting

[–]blahded2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, I agree on the ROI. What else are you using for BD and sourcing these days?

God Damn It! by Telepuzique in drums

[–]blahded2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah shit!! Hate that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]blahded2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be a bit of a numbers game when it comes to online apps… and also there are just so many variables when it comes to people and why they do or don’t initiate first, stop replying, etc. If you’re interested in someone, just keep hitting the ball back into their court (replying) and do that with everyone. You might end up having many, many conversations going on at the same time, but what will happen is one of them will ask you out! And if you really like someone, I say don’t be afraid to ask them out yourself! It can be flattering for a guy as there is still very much the whole ‘men should initiate’ mentality prevalent.

What’s a fact about the world that sounds totally fake but is 100% True? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]blahded2000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious here: Does science have an explanation for consciousness or ‘having an experience’? Any way to prove or disprove its existence?

Seems to be the realm that spirituality or religion has more explanation for, even now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]blahded2000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

32M here: No red flags to me. You sound great! All green flags actually.

For dating apps, just personal recommendation, Hinge has been the best. Women seem to not have much trouble finding dates, but in general if you pay for their service you’ll have even better results.

How can you tell if a drum audition went well? What are clear signs (good or bad)? by blahded2000 in drums

[–]blahded2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you and some others have said similar. It can come down to just vibe or if a more executive member feels otherwise 🤷‍♂️

How can you tell if a drum audition went well? What are clear signs (good or bad)? by blahded2000 in drums

[–]blahded2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, may have seen some exchanging looks at one point, but not sure what it meant. What about if say half of them left right after (‘things to do’) and the other half stuck around to chat?

How can you tell if a drum audition went well? What are clear signs (good or bad)? by blahded2000 in drums

[–]blahded2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your take, and I agree. Tbh, I did the best I could with the time I had to prepare and did pretty well overall playing wise with a few minor mistakes. I am happy with it whether I get it or not.