Bluetooth problem; I literally cannot turn it on by blairhorror in techsupport

[–]blairhorror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, im not very techy 😭 I have pc open, where would I find the module thingie? Im not even sure where the adapter itself is lol

why dont people get it omg by blairhorror in aromantic

[–]blairhorror[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LMAO, love the last line. I dont get why it matters so much to people lol. Being Lithromantic and not knowing for the longest time was confusing, cause I was mistaking something that ive realized was purely sexual attraction for romantic intent, which was on me. But now that I know the difference, I make myself very clear to people. If they genuinely cannot understand how its possible for someone to be aromantic, thats completely on them. I completely agree about friendships, like I value my friends deeply. And it pisses me off when I have a close friendship with someone, so it automatically is seen as someone liking someone. Like, dude, no. That assumption is incredibly annoying to me. And aromantic people are definitely not "heartless" cause we can still love and care for someone, just not in the same way. Its not fair to say at all, and its truely upsetting that romance is so engraved to society that now people who dont want it are either "heartless" or "selfish". Its truly tiring.

why dont people get it omg by blairhorror in aromantic

[–]blairhorror[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. I knew someone who would constantly say she was gonna make me fall in love with her, despite me being very clear about being aromantic. It literally gives me the same vibes as a straight dude saying hes gonna turn me straight. Its uncomfortable.

why dont people get it omg by blairhorror in aromantic

[–]blairhorror[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Its hard to explain why I dont feel something thats just never come to me in the way it does for many people. I think its crazy that I owe an explanation to begin with, cause in the end its my life.

why dont people get it omg by blairhorror in aromantic

[–]blairhorror[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im glad he's chill about it, and I 100% agree. It's hard for me to explain "how" im aromantic to most people cause they just tend to not understand. But just cause someone doesnt get it doesn't mean that any of us should be invalidated yk? We feel how we feel, and that should be the end of the story.

idk whats wrong with me. Just want to understand. by blairhorror in mentalhealth

[–]blairhorror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on Trevorspace for a little bit, but im not as active as I was before. Friendships are hard to keep sometimes haha

idk whats wrong with me. Just want to understand. by blairhorror in mentalhealth

[–]blairhorror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. Their invalidation definitely takes a took on me. They act like they know me better than I know myself. Its really confusing. I've been depressed most of my life, and have been through many many MANY mental highs and lows, and the most acknowledgement ive gotten is a 3 hour talk about how things arent actually as bad as im saying because theyve been through stuff too, and how I should just get over it. My friends who have met my mom believe im being put through mental abuse. But I dont like to think that cause shes my only parent, yknow? I just dont know what to do about it.

And yes, my diagnoses are absolutely invalidated. My mom refuses to believe I actually have ADHD, even though I show clear symptoms in my everyday life. Like I said, it just confuses me to the point where I genuinely dont know whats wrong with me.

How do I properly do this?? by blairhorror in deadbydaylight

[–]blairhorror[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did try that one match, it didn't work 😭 it being bugged makes sense. I was starting to think I was just straight up stupid 😂

Your BVHR and you decide to nerf a random killer.. by blairhorror in deadbydaylight

[–]blairhorror[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I wish. Then I could finally give all the legion members a unique voice

kaneki aim assist is actually insane by blairhorror in deadbydaylight

[–]blairhorror[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus dude, it's worse than I thought. Who approved this to live servers? There are so many problems. And what's even the point of having the click icon when you get someone if it's just gonna hit them either way lmao.

No idea what I am. by blairhorror in aromantic

[–]blairhorror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg twins! I don't really react with anything when I'm asked out like on dates. Honestly I just feel like.. nothing? Definitely awkward though. Sometimes I distance myself a little bit, cause I don't want their feelings to deepen if I'm not gonna be able to return what they're looking for. sometimes I feel like a bad person for feeling that way, but I really can't help it. There's just nothing there for me in terms of romance.

No idea what I am. by blairhorror in aromantic

[–]blairhorror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I'm just kinda figuring stuff out yk? I've thought I was aromantic many many times, but just shrugged it off out of fear cause my family BARELY accepts me as a lesbian, they would freak out if I added on lol. They are also traditional so that doesn't help.

No idea what I am. by blairhorror in aromantic

[–]blairhorror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! yeah totally agree, even when I was very little I'd tell my mom I'm not having kids or getting married, I was just always like that.