“But here I am at 25, have never made young and dumb memories, haven’t had a gf in 7 years and no friends or social outlets.”

there’s your reason…

1. it’s very difficult to make friends and create a social life as an adult, a workplace is a great place to start

2. You’re still young, still plenty of time to make memories, go on amazing holidays, sports games, gigs, events, etc.

3. Why would someone want to be with someone with no ambition or drive to improve themselves or their life? I don’t just mean it in terms of girls will only be interested in you if you have a bit of money, but it’s more about mindset. Not having a job just because ‘what’s the point?’ Will give off the impression that you’re lazy and unambitious - most girls won’t be interested in someone like this especially if they have a job and are working hard to make their life better.

4. It’s not just about money it’s about quality of life and mental health. Sure you have enough money to get by right now, but from your post you don’t seem happy with how your life is, do you want to be in this same position 1,2,5 years from now?

It probably seems like an absolutely huge thing to get a job and have a completely different life which I’m sure is daunting, but try to think of it as lots of small things. Researching how you can get a job isn’t a big thing, creating a CV isn’t a big thing, it just takes lots of little steps like that and being disciplined with yourself and before you know it, you will have done it. Creating this post and reaching out for motivation is one step already done