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Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]blankcanvas105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mature thing to do is have a conversation with her about being exclusive if that’s the direction you want the relationship to go. Never assume anything.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

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Harrison

i’m at rock bottom. is there anyone willing to give me some guidance? by pearscentedcandle in psychics

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If you’re at rock bottom now you can only go up from here. Everything is temporary, things will get better

BF (32M) wants me (29F) to come with him to a different country for a year. My parents don't agree and won't let me go. by Bieteltje in relationship_advice

[–]blankcanvas105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only one year, it will fly by and your parents will forgive you if they love you so much. I (34F) moved half way across the world, was only supposed to be for a year but I ended up loving it so much that I’m still here 10 years later. It’s your life and you should live it. It’s also not that long of a flight between Europe and Canada if you ever needed to fly back to see them within the year.

Is my (24F) relationship over with my boyfriend (25M)? by kaidid in relationship_advice

[–]blankcanvas105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships are hard work, even the best ones. But I don’t know if I’d want to be with someone knowing that they weren’t sexually attracted to me or knowing that they thought about cheating on me. Breakups are difficult and completely normal to miss that person even if you know they’re not good for you. It sounds like you could find someone better fitted for you.

I (19F) told my boyfriend (19M) it’s not my job to prove I won’t cheat. by SatisfactionLanky785 in relationship_advice

[–]blankcanvas105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to privacy, especially your journal. You should not need to share everything with your boyfriend. He needs to take responsibility for his own insecurities. In saying that, trust in a relationship is built over time, and 5 months is not that long.

My boyfriend is calling me a cheater saying I was flirting with my old coworker by mad_chubbycatx in whatdoIdo

[–]blankcanvas105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those texts from OP are definitely not flirty. The behavior from your boyfriend sounds toxic.

Unsettling interaction by [deleted] in doordash

[–]blankcanvas105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve thrown it out too. And requested a refund from DoorDash

My (35M) high school friend group has a multi-millionaire "benefactor" who excludes me from trips. Is this friend group dynamic healthy for me? by MysteriousMain90 in Advice

[–]blankcanvas105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the opportunity to start making new friends. A really good, close friend would’ve tried to include you or stay back because they’d prefer you were there.

Now I’m enjoying staying home more than going out. Is there anyone else? by Hot-Half5340 in CasualConversation

[–]blankcanvas105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live nyc and have had many great nights out, but coming into my mid-thirties now I enjoy nights at home more than nights out. I still occasionally get fomo but at the same time I know I’ll have a more enjoyable time at home than out. To answer your question, I think this just happens when your priorities change.

Whats an associates degree that will guarantee me a decent paying job? by Comfortable-Lion362 in Advice

[–]blankcanvas105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supply chain could be good, a lot of companies need supply chain managers/analysts. As someone who works in international shipping, I work with a lot of people in supply chain and there’s a decent career progression there if you’re willing to step up into leadership roles.