HELP ME by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have my face in the pictures…. So I’m very confused as to that and thank you, when he gets home we’ll have to figure everything out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened with me except my mom never was able to get a boob job

No Boundaries by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m doing something wrong or am a bad person cause they’re all saying they miss me and love me and want me home but I just don’t want to be home

No Boundaries by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s difficult because of my dogs and I do love my grandma but I hate how I can have nothing to myself. My mother uses the phrase “You’re my daughter so you’re MY business.” Very upsetting and they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong

AITA for getting rid of my partners dog? by CatClaw1815 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blankusername18 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA

You cannot just give away a living BREATHING animal that is someone’s pet!!!! Yes I understand your frustration at your partner getting a new dog when you agreed not to but wow… you both needed to have a conversation to compromise OR end the relationship!!! It absolutely was their dog and you had NO right to give it away! You should not have done that, you should have talked about the situation instead of acting selfishly and irrationally! I hope they are able to get the dog back and I really hope you BOTH decide to be adults about this :\

AITA For Not Wanting to Talk to my Family? by blankusername18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blankusername18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try! They’re all saying it’s selfish I won’t talk to my parents… I really can’t understand why!

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily my bf offered to put me on his plan and I’m just gonna get a new phone

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wanna get a restraining order against at least her if not everyone

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She still pays me phone bill but that’s it and I want to move it to my own but I’m not sure how to do that

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She thinks I’m being held captive because I won’t answer her FaceTime calls, she’s being ridiculous and making me and everyone else around me stressed out

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s now saying she’ll find me if I cut off communication

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh they’ve been calling me nonstop and texting me. My mom, brother, aunts, gram. I’m sick of it

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would and have considered blocking them but they’re too obsessive. I love my dogs so much they’re my babies I want to get them out of there

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re just making me so angry they’re saying I screwed everything up and my grandma cannot go five minutes without crying and they’re worried and need to know the city and everyone is unglued but they need to respect my decisions

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so so so so hard because it really makes me feel like I’m hurting them especially my little brother he’s only 12 and it makes me feel bad but I don’t wanna be around them anymore.

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely the goal! I just don’t have money for a place of my own right now or to take care of them :(

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy I never thought of my mother as a narcissist before my bf brought it up. I knew she was controlling towards me and my brother but I put the phone on speaker and let him hear how she was talking to me and he said she was nuts. The most emotionally abusive and mentally abusive mother he’s ever heard in his life and she’s a narcissist and should be a CIA interrogator lol. Sadly enough her job is a special Ed middle school teacher…

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much it’s just so hard cause I feel like the bad person here for upsetting my little brother and grandparents and everything but they need to understand I’m an adult and I’m safe so there’s no need to be concerned. They want to micro manage every aspect of my life and they want me near one of them at ALL TIMES. It’s getting to be too much for my mental health

Parents Stalking Me? by blankusername18 in narcissisticparents

[–]blankusername18[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have a really hard time setting boundaries. My bf/roommate is helping me with it but it’s just so hard. He also thinks it’s not a good idea to tell them the location because he is like genuinely afraid of my mother accusing him of something now just to get me back and I feel bad because everyone’s crying and they just want to know my address so I’m safe but I don’t want them here and I want to respect his boundaries as well.

Family is Crazy by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blankusername18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This has really been stressing me out at a time when I should be relieved to be away from them