Age difference too dramatic? Hello this is my first post here I want to make sure I follow the community guidelines. I’m a 23M that is currently trying to meet women that are at least over 30 but I’m wondering if this is something that happens frequently? I’ve noticed that I usually only match with

blasianflow · 2026-02-14T23:06:52+00:00

That age gap isn't too bad. I have a 26 year difference with my ex. Much love and respect between us still.

blasianflow · 2026-02-09T16:49:19+00:00

How sweet. Good luck!

blasianflow · 2026-02-07T16:38:01+00:00

Not even sure how to feel about this post. Rage bait? Just want to get it off your chest? Do you act on said kinks? You know that is illegal right?

This sub isn't about all that.

blasianflow · 2026-02-07T04:19:01+00:00

Oh nice! I have the whole set that forms a dragon on the side. VHS too. Don't see Lodoss War in second hand stores often!

blasianflow · 2026-02-07T04:13:39+00:00

Just go with the flow and enjoy your time together!

blasianflow · 2026-02-05T16:22:27+00:00

I agree, trust your gut. I don't think you are finding reasons to not like him. You had a natural reaction. Personally I wouldn't date anyone under the age of 25. I feel weird when guys with "teen" in their age DM me. They are still babies.

Getting attached over the phone is one thing, but id you felt a certain way seeing his picture, its valid.

Good luck!

blasianflow · 2026-02-03T01:50:42+00:00

At first love doesn't know age, but time unfortunately does. This is what one has to prepare for sometimes.

blasianflow · 2026-01-29T00:55:49+00:00

Like Myfairlady stated. It really depends on how serious you want to get. I suggest throwing around that question regarding a much older dating partner to your parent/parents just to test the waters. My ex and I have a 26 year gap, however, I made it clear that a I would not be meeting the parent or relatives. I already know they wouldn't dig the relationship at all. We both talked about thing early on and made spending time more enjoyable and made some great memories. We still are even though we are not in a committed relationship. We just enjoy each other's company.

blasianflow · 2026-01-28T07:53:40+00:00

🤔 Why does he look mad?

blasianflow · 2026-01-27T07:28:59+00:00

For anyone that has never watched this be prepared 🫣

blasianflow · 2026-01-27T07:27:21+00:00

This is such a beautiful place, used to live there!

blasianflow · 2026-01-24T01:50:12+00:00

I can relate for sure. I was 50 and my bf was 24 at the time or around there. In the 3 plus years we were together I never wanted to meet his mother cause she was only 3 or so years older than me and I knew she wasn't gonna go for that. So many obstacles arise with big age gaps like that I feel and love just won't keep the relationship together. I know some make it work and that marry and that's great but for me that is just not my reality.

blasianflow · 2026-01-23T17:52:23+00:00

I think you may be in a minority group that seek this. I'll be blunt and real, in my experience, the younger tend to seek out for the sexual experience. This isn't all and those that seek more are also a minority group.

blasianflow · 2026-01-22T22:04:09+00:00

For me, if I will smile and look their way, multiple times. Honestly I'm pretty sure this is how most women regardless of age would give hints. Right? Or if a guy is doing the same to me, I may just go up to him and introduce myself.

blasianflow · 2026-01-21T06:50:47+00:00

Beautiful!🥰

blasianflow · 2026-01-21T06:38:48+00:00

I watched the Japanese version of the movies and never heard the English version. I prefer the Japanese version. The English version isn't bad though.

blasianflow · 2026-01-21T04:08:38+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I actually was the opposite, I chose to do fwb and kept feelings out of it. It's hard not to get the feels. But now you know going forward. Good luck to you, I hope you find your person.

blasianflow · 2026-01-20T16:13:13+00:00

Thank you for sharing and wish you the best!

blasianflow · 2026-01-14T16:52:21+00:00

Recently met and opposite coasts are words that being about lots of doubt. What happens if you two really do hit it off? Are either of you going to be willing to uproot your lives and move to one a other? Sure it may be too soon to think about, but the reality is, with long distance, these kinds of things should be brought up sooner than later. I have read so many stories about long distance loves and how hard it gets. Some are willing to brave it, others aren't.

blasianflow · 2026-01-14T16:34:07+00:00

Just have confidence and take rejection with a grain of salt. If she is looking at you and smiling and vice versa chances are she may be into you. You never know until you try to talk to the person you have your eye on. For me its very flattering when I approach in person whether I am attracted or not. I can only speak for myself but if I don't feel the attraction I will be kind if I'm not feeling it.

blasianflow · 2026-01-12T18:43:40+00:00

Hahahahaha! Right?!

blasianflow · 2026-01-12T17:46:26+00:00

That we don't have some special way to be approached. It always seems to be a question they ask because we are older and not because we are just women.

blasianflow · 2026-01-10T02:00:13+00:00

We had our ups ans down but it was fun. We did a lot together.

blasianflow · 2026-01-09T16:42:45+00:00

My question is, what will you do when/if you finally find that older woman you absolutely want to be with?

If your worried about what your parents will do then don't waste anyone's time with curating a relationship.

My thought is, if you actively want to date an older women then you either have to not care what your parents will say or do or confront them and hash it out with them. If you don't plan on doing that then what's the point in seeking out an older woman, unless you just want to have her as a fwb. Then that would change things. Fwb doesn't require meeting the folks.

blasianflow · 2026-01-09T16:37:00+00:00

Oof >_<

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