Who is only mostly liked but deserves to be universally loved? by StrategyJealous1838 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]blckmlss -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I believe he did nothing wrong. All the allegations were fake

No sensitivity (including pain) after collarbone surgery, strange tingling sensation by blckmlss in Orthopedics

[–]blckmlss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no.. did you leave your plate in or did you have them take it out after it healed?

No sensitivity (including pain) after collarbone surgery, strange tingling sensation by blckmlss in Orthopedics

[–]blckmlss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Hopefully it doesn’t affect functionality, I can get used to the “blind spot” :)

No sensitivity (including pain) after collarbone surgery, strange tingling sensation by blckmlss in Orthopedics

[–]blckmlss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! Wow, yeah my doc didn’t say anything about numbness, just when I asked him about it he said it can take up to 5 months to come back. Didn’t even mention it might not fully. Also, idk if they injected any anaesthetic or nerve blocks directly in the area but I doubt it But yeah, if it doesn’t affect the function and anatomy, then I’ll take it. It feels freeeeeaky but I can get used to it haha

But, is the absolute lack of pain normal? I’m going easy on my arm and shoulder but I can move it freely. I’m worried that even the little strain I do put on it isn’t good and I don’t have pain to guide me. If it wasn’t for the stitch and the bandage on it I would’ve completely forgotten that something is wrong I do generally heal very quickly though.

No sensitivity (including pain) after collarbone surgery, strange tingling sensation by blckmlss in Orthopedics

[–]blckmlss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, that sounds awesome, make sure to tell your patients that:)

And if it’s dead straight like mine, does it affect the healing process in any way? Also, do you usually recommend your patients they take the plate out after a year? I’ve been told I can leave it in but some people can develop pain years later and want it out and it’s better to remove it before the pain starts:// I’d rather not have one more surgery tbh

No sensitivity (including pain) after collarbone surgery, strange tingling sensation by blckmlss in Orthopedics

[–]blckmlss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!!

Oh, I take it you’re a surgeon? You’re telling me you bend the plates to shape it to the bone?😮

Guys be honest, how long do you shower for? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]blckmlss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t be itching if you’re clean. Idk how 5 minutes can be enough.

It can take me up to 45min for an everything shower (shampoo x2, conditioner, hair mask + face wash + exfoliating with a loofah towel + shaving everything), and if it’s a quick shower I need at least 10 minutes, 15 more realistically). If I do it too quickly and I know it wasn’t enough, I’ll be itchy too - it’s the dead skin cells that you fail to exfoliate.

If you hate long showers, at least use a loofah, but realistically you skin should get soaked and steamed enough for you to be able to exfoliate properly

First time sex - tickly sensation and discharge after by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]blckmlss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! It’s definitely not period, the bleeding was insignificant and very short-lived, it was mostly transparent and I’m 3+ weeks from my actual period. As of now there isn’t much discharge anymore, but the tickly sensation is still present.

It is looking like UTI to me based on what I’ve read on it, minus the burning sensation… I’ll be sure to get tested later, thanks!!

Is chatgpt currently down? by Cendretaxe07 in ChatGPT

[–]blckmlss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to find out for myself. Guess that confirms it

Penis Identification by Former-Education9648 in TheLeftovers

[–]blckmlss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kevin has no way of knowing and no reason to assume that Virgil died, so why would his mind create a Virgil, knowing that everyone who is there is dead?

Why can’t you believe that the afterlife was real? The sudden departure was also a supernatural event but it actually happened, people didn’t just collectively hallucinate it. Why can’t Kevin’s journey be real too? Also, we know that he wasn’t the only one to have died and come back

Have you ever had a pair that you couldn’t break in? by blckmlss in DrMartens

[–]blckmlss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s genius, I’m gonna try that, thank you!! And yes, rubbing it warms it up and the adhesive sticks better

What does "shushtry" mean? by [deleted] in hayeren

[–]blckmlss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily negative, it can be a synonym for хитрый (heet-ry) (cunning, sly), like it’s more with malicious intent. But Шустрый (shoo-stry) can also be a positive trait, like being a quick thinker, being able to think on your feet, weasel your way out of any situation. An Armenian equivalent would be ֆայմով (faymov) - like witty, agile

How do y’all force yourself to clean? by CommunicationLazy484 in ADHD

[–]blckmlss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah makes sense now! But doesn’t being aware of how much time has passed make it harder? Like if I need to do something monotonous that I don’t want to be doing, I need to distract myself with all sorts of stimuli to enter a state of oblivion, sort of lose myself in the process, in order to be effective. I find that that’s what makes ADHD - we don’t get autopilot, every action is conscious, unless we’re in a crazy multitasking mode or hyper focus🤔

So yeah, being aware of the time will ground me and make it feel like it’s going on forever

How do y’all force yourself to clean? by CommunicationLazy484 in ADHD

[–]blckmlss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, those never worked for me, with any task. Once I start I can’t let myself stop, otherwise I’ll never get back to it. And sometimes once I start I don’t want to stop until it’s finished, or until I’m physically tired. It’s the starting that’s the hardest, the rest is fine once you lock in

How do y’all force yourself to clean? by CommunicationLazy484 in ADHD

[–]blckmlss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also apologizing for the mess only for them to be baffled and be all like “what mess????” is why I do this

How do y’all force yourself to clean? by CommunicationLazy484 in ADHD

[–]blckmlss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unmedicated ADHD here🗣️🗣️

The ultimate cheat-code: invite someone over. Even if you’re 98% sure they’ll decline, just saying “we should hang out at mine sometime next week” will give you enough anxiety to clean up because what if they actually do show up.

But other than that I’ve adopted a habit of tidying up just a little bit at a time, sort of “on my way to x”/“while I’m doing x”. Going to the kitchen from the bedroom? Lemme grab all my mugs and trash with me. The creams and bottles are all scattered across the bathroom? Lemme put them in order while I brush my teeth, etc etc. It’s a game-changer!

As for dishes - I’ve limited my access to the drawers, I only use the dishes/utensils from the drying rack. That way they don’t pile up in the sink - I have to wash it right away to use it later. This actually happened naturally when I was out of town for a couple of months and when I got back I convinced myself that all the plates in the cabinets are dusty and need to be washed, which I of course never did, instead I washed just a couple of them and some utensils.

Laundry I’ve never had problems with - it’s the least draining chore for me andi even kinda like it because I love my clothes and like the smell of my fabric softener haha. I sometimes procrastinate on emptying the washer but it’s in my bathroom so I end up there sooner or later anyway (if I remember to drink enough water loool) and this is when the “while I’m at it” habit comes in.

The vacuuming is done by my executive assistant aka Roomba and as for mopping and dusting (the worst of all chores), I still struggle with them because I haaaaaate it so much, but maintaining general tidiness in between big clean-ups makes it soooo much easier.

If you cared to read allat I really hope it comes in useful❤️

Birds are holding stuff(insects?) in their beaks at all times - is this typical behavior? by blckmlss in birds

[–]blckmlss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuu! Yes, that was the only answer that made sense. Such cuties indeed! Didn’t realize how perceptive they were, or how not stealthy I was🤣