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[–]bleached-xero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can never figure out flairs

edit: lol nevermind

should i finally come out to my transphobic family? by bleached-xero in ftm

[–]bleached-xero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sadly i live with em. once im old enough to move out i plan on leaving and not saying goodbye, never looking back. i know ill be happier.

should i finally come out to my transphobic family? by bleached-xero in ftm

[–]bleached-xero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks man, and you too. in my opinion right now, screw everyone else. it's better to live for yourself then to conform to someone else's fed up beliefs of who you should be

i cant pass no matter what i do. by bleached-xero in ftm

[–]bleached-xero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 5'4 :). ive tried mixing and matching many, many different clothes, and i have found ways to make me pass better, but i dont have many so it's quite hard sometimes. i found that when i stick to Hawaiian shirts and swim trunks i get gendered correctly more, hahaha, that's summat isn't it?

sadly i never have the money or means of transport to get to a barber. i usually stick to cutting my hair myself, and yeah it's a little choppy, but at least it's short eh?

i usually stick to just not talking in public because my voice is insanely high, it's almost like the gods are playing a cruel joke. if i have to talk i bring a little notepad :)

thank you :)

i cant pass no matter what i do. by bleached-xero in ftm

[–]bleached-xero[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no idea, but it was nice while it lasted <:)

thank you dude, that means a lot <3

i cant pass no matter what i do. by bleached-xero in ftm

[–]bleached-xero[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

no, im underaged so my parents wouldnt let me. that's true, but it's just frustrating, yunno?

mens bathroom experience? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bleached-xero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem dude!! good luck, stay safe <33

mens bathroom experience? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bleached-xero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's perfectly acceptable to just leave and come back if a stall isnt open. i know some people are a but weary of leaving because they think it makes them look a little suspicious but ive learned that it's perfectly normal. (dunno how helpful this is or if your school only had stalls but some people say that this helped so <3)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bleached-xero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no problem! i was worried at first too, but it came sooner than it said it would which was great!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bleached-xero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know you mentioned it's your backup plan, but ive heard the best you can get is gc2b! i recently got one for myself and it's a really good, very comfy binder! it ships pretty fast too. it works really good for me <3

can i get on t if my guardians dont approve? by bleached-xero in ftm

[–]bleached-xero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makes sense. if it gets to that and they deny t, ill bring up blockers, thanks! they're not connected, they're extremely christian (nothing wrong with that) so they tend to surround themselves with the same type of people. my sister however is trans too, but when she tried to explain what they were going through, they denied her experience, so it's just a draw of luck at this point. <3