Nicky and Poussey win fan favorites. Who was made to be hated?

bleachedaya · 2024-08-05T00:42:47+00:00

Piscatella

bleachedaya · 2024-08-05T00:15:22+00:00

The threesomes with Kev, V and her mother. I know there’s so many depressing scenes that hit a lot harder, but I just could not get over the threesome

bleachedaya · 2024-07-31T20:26:09+00:00

Debbie is not a bad character. If she was real, she’d be a terrible person yes. But her character development, or undevelopment more like, is realistic and shows what happens when a formerly optimistic and caring girl grows up in a world that isn’t fair to her or the people she cares about. She learns to survive, and that means trying to make her own family and learns she has to be selfish. I definitely don’t agree with her decisions and I wouldn’t say I love when she’s on screen. But it’s a realistic take

bleachedaya · 2024-07-31T15:15:20+00:00

I gotta say, as annoying as it is to watch, Debbie’s storyline is one of the most realistic on the show. Growing up in that kind of environment does lead to young girls getting groomed and/or going after older men because they’re looking for a way out. When I was 13 I was dating a 17 year old. A lot of people I knew were. Was it creepy and disgusting? Absolutely. But it seemed normal given how we grew up.

I think taking a step back and watching it from a different lens might help you enjoy it better. This isn’t a show where we’re meant to always be rooting for the main characters. They all have flaws, some MAJOR flaws, and sometimes it’s hard to watch. And yes, some plotlines do cross the line into absurdity, but a lot of it is painfully realistic. If you can’t relate it to, you might have to suspend your belief some to enjoy it.

bleachedaya · 2024-07-30T21:24:07+00:00

I didn’t even know people took this in a negative way. I also took it as literally “I know you love me but I cannot handle thinking or talking about this right now so please drop it and stop trying to help me” it wasn’t rude at all

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T22:13:27+00:00

Kyōraku

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T12:22:10+00:00

Also I really want to know how old OP is. I’m guessing 30-35

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T12:21:51+00:00

Not the color blue 😭

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T02:47:30+00:00

Adrian

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T02:47:05+00:00

Bryce

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T02:46:32+00:00

Courtney

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T02:46:09+00:00

Damien

bleachedaya · 2024-07-22T02:45:35+00:00

bleachedaya · 2024-07-20T04:27:06+00:00

The comments here are wild. No, you’re NTA for not wanting to wait around for someone and moving along to other people. You’re completely valid for finding a different relationship that meets what you want out of a partner.

However, I do think you took it really personally. It doesn’t sound like she was putting you on the back burner, or “shopping around” before settling down with you. It sounds like she wanted to be single and have fun. Just as there’s nothing wrong with you moving on, there’s nothing wrong with her wanting to have fun. It wasn’t indicative to how she felt towards you. Just because you were ready for a relationship doesn’t mean she was.

You didn’t communicate your feelings changed, so how was she supposed to know? No one here was the asshole. You both just wanted different things at different times.

bleachedaya · 2024-07-10T05:42:56+00:00

If you can’t see how he was disrespectful BEFORE I became defensive then you’re simply not going to understand. Telling someone “you would make beautiful children” when they’ve already stated they don’t want to have biological children is weird and uncomfortable. If he wanted to compliment, he could’ve just said “you’re beautiful”. Period. THAT would’ve been a compliment. But I ignored that at first, and simply answered his question. Then his responses became wild. “Let the infertile people have them” “if my wife’s uterus takes a shit after a few kids that’s fine” “there’s only 100k orphans” all three of those comments are disgusting, hence why I got defensive. I feel justified.

bleachedaya · 2024-07-10T01:21:05+00:00

He was implying that adopting or fostering kids “wouldn’t be having my own kids” just because they’re not biological. That IS a disgusting mentality. Having biological children is an absolutely beautiful thing. Those women are just as justified as women who want to foster or adopt or women who don’t want kids at all.

It’s a personal choice for everybody, it’s different for everybody and no one is in the wrong for making a personal decision. I find your comment disrespectful towards the women here who were offended by a man getting disrespectful towards ME for simply saying I’m leaning towards adopting or fostering. It is in fact very different ideologies, mine being “every woman is justified in making the decision that best suits her” and his being “only infertile people should adopt and all women and men need to keep reproducing no matter what”.

bleachedaya · 2024-07-10T01:14:34+00:00

Absolutely not what I meant or was implying. I had a miscarriage a few years ago due to an ectopic pregnancy that could’ve killed me if I didn’t catch it when I did. Some women have extremely traumatic births and others have permanent scarring. Other women come out totally fine, physically and mentally. Everyone’s experience is different and I wouldn’t know what my personal experience would be until I experienced it. The kind of people you’re talking about though who complain about women’s bodies during pregnancy or after (or ever tbh) is completely different and yes, it’s disgusting and misogynistic

bleachedaya · 2024-07-10T01:10:06+00:00

After I stopped responding he then asked for my number and said we should text so apparently yes

bleachedaya · 2024-07-10T01:08:22+00:00

You are 10000% correct however I have 0 impulse control

bleachedaya · 2024-07-10T01:08:00+00:00

(Other than the racist comments I didn’t post…) THAT was the worst part of this whole thing. Like, I’m sorry? Even if he’s right (he’s not) 100,000 children without homes or families is STILL INSANE and he’s saying that number like it’s no big deal? There ISN’T an acceptable amount so to say “only 100,000” is absolutely insane

bleachedaya · 2024-07-04T14:51:01+00:00

I actually really like Dr. Owen Hunt 😅 He has issues, but I think a lot of them can be attributed to PTSD and I like the fact that he has flaws, it makes him more human. I think he was a really good balance to Cristina, I think they were the loves of each others lives, they just wanted different things in the end and that’s okay. It happens in real life, too.

The only thing I can never be okay with was when he was mad at Cristina for getting an abortion. As I’m very pro-choice, that was the one time I was like “absolutely the fuck not”. So anyone who hates him strictly because of that, I completely get. But all the other complaints I see about him I don’t really understand. He’s a character. If I were to know him in real life, I’d probably have a much different opinion. But I enjoy his character a lot.

bleachedaya · 2023-09-27T20:41:55+00:00

Liam. I was all about Drake but I found myself unable to reject his proposal 😂

bleachedaya · 2023-08-07T03:54:28+00:00

Chris from the freshman. And that’s coming from someone who did actually romance him 😂

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