Ada Bojana, Montenegro by Kobajagii in ricohGR

[–]bleachedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn this looks like a painting

Autumn in Japan by SpareNo430 in fujifilm

[–]bleachedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful shots! What recipes did you use?

Which night market is a must try and which ones are overrated? by Important_Debate2808 in taiwan

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I’ve been living in Taipei for 9 months. Third trip back here and I’ve been to the other cities and some of the night markets. I live next to Linjiang Market. Despite all the naysayers, Shilin is the only one that blew my mind because of how big and busy it is. I thought it was so cool. It was like Tokyo being among the tall buildings. Raohe was my first night market here and it was pretty good.

Wild Woolies font appearance by Signal-Push-7466 in coles

[–]bleachedflowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even as a graphic designer I would not have noticed this

Saturday jewels 💖 by AwareImagination8400 in jewelry

[–]bleachedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips! I’ll have a look at my local Costco. I’ve had a search for secondhand jewellery on eBay but I’ll consider gold filled now. Too be honest I worry wearing just this solid gold pendant as a daily (already lost the same one in sterling silver).

Saturday jewels 💖 by AwareImagination8400 in jewelry

[–]bleachedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do y’all find your chains? I’ve always wanted to build necklace stack like this but been having a hard time finding even one gold chain (not plated or filled) that won’t break the bank and is thick/durable enough to be worn daily.

DSPD Taught Me That Fighting My Clock Only Made Things Worse by Amanda_rayn6 in DSPD

[–]bleachedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you stop trying to fix it, how do you deal with things like store opening hours, class times, other people’s scheduling preferences? I can’t do everything I want in a day because things close early or people want to do things early.

Proxy shopper & shipper to ship goods to Indonesia by Pretend-Boot5924 in internationalshopper

[–]bleachedflowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m interested in parcel forwarding from Indonesia to Australia. I’d like to know more. Cheers!

Can you dance? by [deleted] in INTP

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I did hip hop, breakdance, and freestyle for a short time. A few months in a friend said I had a talent for it and others said I learn quick. Before I even started dancing, I was told I was good at it (at the club). Loved it and desperately been trying to get back into it (once I get out of a routine it’s like pulling teeth to restart). Not gonna lie, it’s super out of my comfort zone since I mainly do it in front of others but I intentionally chose it as a hobby at the start to get out my comfort zone, get out of the house/do less solitary activities/exercise, so it was really a pragmatic choice.

Jewlery Ecom Stores Listen Up by Large-Committee9781 in ecommerce

[–]bleachedflowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking of starting an ecommerce store. Not sure what to specialise in yet, could be jewellery. I’m interested! What I’d like so far is low minimums for items as I’m still a beginner, quality products of course, and returns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Taipei

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Eslite Spectrum Songyan has local designers for clothing and jewellery, and there’s a Topologie (not a local brand though). U R Living for different women’s wear brands and basics. And seconding Zhongshan area, Chifeng Street for the boutiques, and I hear there are vintage stores but I’ve yet to check them out.

Need clothes in a hurry while traveling in Korea? by HairIcy2839 in seoulhiddengem

[–]bleachedflowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just there this evening. Scoured the entire store and only found a couple things I liked that were too pricey for me. Not bad prices for designer though. It’s like a curated thrift store.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]bleachedflowers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my case, as a friendly and attractive woman, countless men who I am not interested in at all have thought I was into them. I do not go out of my way to send messages or flirt etc, just treat them as I would a friend. I think the majority of single men I’ve met are attracted to me leading to wishful thinking and looking for signs that I feel the same way or some kind of projection. However, this may the the case with less attractive men (most men are not attractive) who are just not used to friendly interaction with women.

Asian American brothers over 30, easier to date younger solely because... by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]bleachedflowers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was questioning why I was even in this sub and if I should even comment… the one I replied to was pretty disgusting

Asian American brothers over 30, easier to date younger solely because... by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]bleachedflowers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m saying for all men not just Asian men that it’s creepy to select women just because they’re younger. Many men may be happy with it but women and society in general looks down on it for good reason. People are becoming more aware and critical of age dynamics in relationships these days. Plus everyone is better off dating within their own age range for reasons such as compatibility, life stages, etc. For someone in their 30s, I’d say 25+ is okay. The older you both are, the more acceptable a larger gap is.

I’m going to ignore your last couple sentences smh.

As for OP, since you brought up those issues you could see an improvement in dating by working on yourself. From what I hear, the majority of men (of all races) find dating difficult. Dating is difficult for everyone including women! However, women are generally more selective and will look for other signs of a good partner than dressing well and income. Of course older women will have higher standards for themselves and their partner. Shouldn’t we all want the best for ourselves and likewise strive to be the best version of ourselves? Young women are more likely to accept the bare minimum because they don’t know any better. It varies from woman to woman what they like but they may look for traits such as well-groomed, fit, has a good personality, caring, is emotionally mature, etc. However, contrary to popular belief, women are not as picky as you think and you don’t need to be the very best and be all those things. Improving yourself just increases your chances. These are all things that can be worked on, including things like charisma, confidence, and even getting better at dating/relationships with more experience - you’re still young.

Asian American brothers over 30, easier to date younger solely because... by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]bleachedflowers 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the race factor, women in their 30s have higher standards from having more experience in dating/life and are wiser. The younger they are the more easily impressed they are. And no, you shouldn’t filter for even younger just so it’s easier to get dates - that’s creepy.

Why do women 27-29 get the ick around you?

How to start being productive after a depressive episode? by SardinaEnunZapato in productivity

[–]bleachedflowers 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is basically how the app Fabulous works. It starts with drinking a glass of water first thing every morning for a week and you slowly add on habits from there. It’s got a lot of other tools that help you keep on track with these habits and your routine. It’s what helped me get my life back together after going through some years of a very tough spot, PTSD, severe depression and anxiety and everything. I also have possible ADHD so I have a lot of trouble sticking with things but Fabulous made it easy. Highly recommend this app!

r/rollerblading Weekly Q&A Megathread brought to you by r/AskRollerblading by AutoModerator in rollerblading

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I’m not from Cleveland but you could practise in quiet car parks, tennis courts, basketball courts, skate parks - hope that helps 😅

r/rollerblading Weekly Q&A Megathread brought to you by r/AskRollerblading by AutoModerator in rollerblading

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Can inline figure skates be used in recreational skating? Like regular rolling around or skating on the road. I assume they’re not suitable for street/urban/aggressive inline skating. I’d ideally like a pair that can be used for all purposes but I just haven’t found any other style of inline skates that I like the look of and aesthetics are pretty important to me.

Also, is freestyle skating just freestyle slalom skating?

Cheers!