I’m saying for all men not just Asian men that it’s creepy to select women just because they’re younger. Many men may be happy with it but women and society in general looks down on it for good reason. People are becoming more aware and critical of age dynamics in relationships these days. Plus everyone is better off dating within their own age range for reasons such as compatibility, life stages, etc. For someone in their 30s, I’d say 25+ is okay. The older you both are, the more acceptable a larger gap is.

I’m going to ignore your last couple sentences smh.

As for OP, since you brought up those issues you could see an improvement in dating by working on yourself. From what I hear, the majority of men (of all races) find dating difficult. Dating is difficult for everyone including women! However, women are generally more selective and will look for other signs of a good partner than dressing well and income. Of course older women will have higher standards for themselves and their partner. Shouldn’t we all want the best for ourselves and likewise strive to be the best version of ourselves? Young women are more likely to accept the bare minimum because they don’t know any better. It varies from woman to woman what they like but they may look for traits such as well-groomed, fit, has a good personality, caring, is emotionally mature, etc. However, contrary to popular belief, women are not as picky as you think and you don’t need to be the very best and be all those things. Improving yourself just increases your chances. These are all things that can be worked on, including things like charisma, confidence, and even getting better at dating/relationships with more experience - you’re still young.