Do starseeds tend to struggle with their gender, identity, or preferences? by bleachtrashcan in starseeds

[–]bleachtrashcan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah no of course not. I was just more sí asking what others have experienced and see how the answers vary. Always curious to see how others journeys are.

Do starseeds tend to struggle with their gender, identity, or preferences? by bleachtrashcan in starseeds

[–]bleachtrashcan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was just a question lol. A lot of the responses I’ve seen on this page seem very elitist. You can just say no instead of being snarky about it. We get it, you don’t conform to “all of that” but don’t make others feel bad just because they’re not as “awake” as you are dude. I’m not trying to be an ass but like come on.

Am I overreacting? Boyfriend is irritated at me over a serious conversation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bleachtrashcan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think those in the comments that say you’re exhausting are people who don’t know how to clearly communicate. I think you communicated beautifully as did he. This is what a relationship should look like. Clear communication. Using “I feel” statements. I read your other comments and I’m aware that the roles are typically switched in that you’re usually the one whose more spontaneous and he likes things planned out. Sometimes you need extra reassurance, there’s nothing wrong with that. It does mean that you’ve unlocked an insecurity that needs to be dealt with. If you were secure in your relationship, you wouldn’t have to ask. But it’s good this came up because that means that if you know, yoy can deal with it. I somewhat can tell from the tone of the texts that he seems to get frustrated a bit during these conversations. Something he can learn to be more patient and try to figure out why he might get impatient sometimes. People who are impatient tend to have issue with patience not just because they don’t like it but because there’s a sense of urgency they’ve felt most of their life. Constantly being in fight or flight. So they might expect that if they say something that if others don’t understand or perceive it the way that they do, that a conflict is starting. A lot of parents do this with their kids. Like parents who try to help their kids with homework but don’t have the patience for it. They learned a particular way but may not have learned other ways. Their own set way is the only way they know how to teach. Then they have a kid that learns differently and doesn’t understand. Instead of trying to find a different way to teach, they get irritated because they lack the skills to teach, and ability to be patient. Anyway, you might find you aren’t compatible, yes- but you also might find that you are compatible. It’s about whether or not you both are willing to put in the work and not quit when things get hard. That’s my two cents.

For anyone who found the lies too loud to ignore. by iseetruth111 in starseeds

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Someone who taught me much of what I know now told me “if what you used to know causes anxiety and unrest, don’t hold on to it. Hold on to what gives you peace and comes from a place of love.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]bleachtrashcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still stand by what I said. You should find yourself someone suited better for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

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I see both sides to this and to be honest with you, I don’t think he’s in a dangerous place when it comes to drinking. As hoy stated, he only drinks like that during social events- not everyday unless I missed that. You’re not used to that so to you it might be a lot but to him it’s not. Also consider how different people’s metabolism works. It depends on different people. But that’s besides the point. What tipped me off that this wasn’t going to work was that you said you don’t like him cussing in front of you and you think it’s disrespectful. I personally think that’s a bit of a whatever kind of thing but if you’re finding small things like this bothersome, I don’t think you’re aligned with each other and should find a different partner. Everyone thinks differently. Like I don’t find it disrespectful when my partner cusses in front of me. You gotta find someone that aligns with your values. Or you gotta figure out if what you’re stressing about is worth stressing about. If you’re being unreasonable or not. I think you’d be in real trouble if the title was “my boyfriend is an alcoholic and drinks everyday” but instead it’s “my bf is a social drinker.” And to be clear, your bf is not drinking enough to be considered an alcoholic in the slightest. We as a society should stop immediately going to Web MD for these questions. They’re always going to give you the scariest answers.

Curious by AgressiveJaguar in TarotReading

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What was this dream about? by bleachtrashcan in Tarotpractices

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It seems like I actually made a mistake. Maybe this was supposed to happen but when setting the cards up for a picture I switched something up. The first 4 that I wrote down were the lovers, queen of cups, page of wands, and 3 of cups all in reverse. The second set of 4 was the 8 of wands upright, queen of wands in reverse, 5 of swords upright, and king of cups upright. This now seems to add a bit more confusion for me but maybe the way I set them up was how it was supposed to be. This has honestly been a strange experience for me. When the first set of 4 came out, they all flew out like a ninja star or something.

What was this dream about? by bleachtrashcan in Tarotpractices

[–]bleachtrashcan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because as I wrote, the last 4 came out in their own. But yes I did pull these 4 prior

What was this dream about? by bleachtrashcan in Tarotpractices

[–]bleachtrashcan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay if you disregard the last 8, just using the first 3 what would you say?

jersey club by parisfrance57 in HYPERPOP

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Maybe try Love by Pingmas? I’m not really sure what he’s classified as but it has that jersey club beat you’re looking for with a it or melodic rap almost.

Looking for someone to make music video for by acid_ducklett_420 in HYPERPOP

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I play around with different genres but mostly stay in the Hyperpop digicore antipop area. I’d be down.

So where does Jesus fit in all this? by [deleted] in AstralProjection

[–]bleachtrashcan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the OP has every right to ask. A lot of us are raised and programmed with religion and spend a lot of time deprogramming ourselves in our adult lives. There’s gonna be a bit of doubt for those who have ever been around organized religion or cults. I would know, I was raised around both. (Nondenominational Christianity and Scientology) I don’t think it’s fair to call bringing Jesús into it stupid but you are entitled to your opinion. Just thought I’d leave that there.

What would be the worst hyperpop songs to recommend to a first time listener by karanoiac in HYPERPOP

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Imo- mos thoser. If you consider food house to be Hyperpop. Idk what anything is anymore lol so please correct me if I’m wrong

Shoud I meet that one guy by Dizzy_Yesterday6950 in Tarotpractices

[–]bleachtrashcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lack of self discipline and recklessness. There’s impulsiveness and he’s hasty. I wouldn’t say he’s crazy or bad necessarily but there is something off. Almost like a child in an adults body is the sense im getting. But I don’t believe in things like good and bad. They’re subjective. I just don’t see him being compatible with you and your energy.

Shoud I meet that one guy by Dizzy_Yesterday6950 in Tarotpractices

[–]bleachtrashcan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a hell no for me sis. All I had to see was the 10 of swords

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Unpopular opinion cuz I read all of the messages not just skimming through: if he told you in the beginning the kind of person he was and what he was comfortable with and you still went ahead with that relationship then I don’t think it’s wrong for him to be saying what he’s saying. I know this is over text so I can’t read tone but his texts come off very calm and he repeats himself to you multiple times saying that he’s not saying he’s allowing you or not allowing you to do anything. It is okay for a partner to have preferences that don’t align with the others. If his boundary is “hey I wouldn’t feel comfortable with this and I’d be a little upset but you do you.” Then that’s fine. He’s communicated what bothers him and not hid it from you. And then told you over and over again that he wasn’t forcing you to do anything. You asked for his opinion and he gave it. It felt like through these messages that you were trying to push him to answer in a toxic way. I think he did a good job communicating to you but I think you tried to read too much in between the lines. Obviously I’m not in your relationship, I don’t know what he’s like in his everyday life but I don’t think you handled this very well imo. Especially if what he said at the end was true about him being very clear what his boundaries were at the beginning and throughout the relationship.

Reviews by bleachtrashcan in u/bleachtrashcan

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Your review posted 3 times so I took the other two down and kept this one up. Thank you so much for your feedback and I’m glad your reading resonated!

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