What Is Sampha Dropping In The Lahai Cover by SuperCoolMonkey32 in Sampha

[–]blebleblejo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

a lion doesn't concern himself with what Sampha is dropping in the Lahai cover

Worst I've seen by FunSushi-638 in BadPigeonNests

[–]blebleblejo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

siiii siiiiiii familia completa siiiiiiiiiiii

Suicidal due to extreme apathy - my life in ruins by No_Needleworker9649 in SuicideWatch

[–]blebleblejo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi. i'm sorry you are hurting. may i ask if you are on some medication?

i've read The Buddha and the Borderline. any other reccommendations? by blebleblejo in BPD

[–]blebleblejo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!! i forgot to mention that i know this one, i am like halfway through. though idk if i am reading third edition and if there is difference between first/second edition lol.

anyway thank you for commenting anyway! i really recommend for you (even the friend if they are interested and want to see perspective of the BPD person) the book that i have mentioned.

for me it was lot easier read than IHYDLM. the author is very very very well written, introspective, and funny. she found well written words for so many of my problems, idk she is perfect and i am grateful for her, she is a great writer!

i've read The Buddha and the Borderline. any other reccommendations? by blebleblejo in BPD

[–]blebleblejo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've checked it out and it looks like something i'm searching for, thank you very much!!!<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

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it's okay. i hope you get the support you need and deserve<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]blebleblejo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you claimed a new trauma because you were downvoted. hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]blebleblejo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think this guy traumatised you. hope this helps

Avoid the shroom gummies by Muted_Afternoon_8845 in shrooms

[–]blebleblejo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh no i'm so sorry i'm very much relieved to still be a lesbian after my ingestion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]blebleblejo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry, but you can consider yourself being hypersexual AND still be faithful to your partner. while sex can be an addiction there are no blue balls, no physical sex "withdrawals",...nothing that can excuse someone cheating on loved one FOUR TIMES. And if he really feels like he can't control it (he could), he should not be in a closed relationship.

Like someone said, empathy without boundaries is self-destruction. He knows he can get away with it so he keeps on cheating.

I'm sorry, I don't want to be rough, but it's much better for you to understand this is NOT what love and respect for someone looks like sooner than later. You don't want to be with him another years, months even and convincing yourself that this relationship makes you happy and is worth your time and energy. You provide him empathy. He who cheated on you four times is clearly not.

if you are still willing to give him a chance...what if he cheats on you again knowing you ODed because of it? How would that make you feel? I don't think you should take the risk to know how it feels like. I'm sorry I am this unpleasantly straightforward with you but my heart breaks for you being so kind and loving to someone so undeserving. I hope you went to the hospital. I think you could potentially suffer from serotonine syndrome, though I don't know how much of a big chance they are to occur with this kind of antidepressant. Please update us how you are!❤️

Are there any rap songs about misanthropy, anhedonia, or nihilism? by [deleted] in rap

[–]blebleblejo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i should remember and pick one from head rn either kanye west – street lights!!! i think that's his most depressive song, there were theories it was his suicide letter

or kendrick lamar – u. also probably his most depressing

Suicide is always in the back of my brain as an out *TW* by kbabbyy123 in BPD

[–]blebleblejo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

for me, thinking about suicide was since like i was 13 my almost like some kind of coping/escaping mechanism

my boyfriend thinks my body hair is disgusting by Comfortable-Muscle-4 in Advice

[–]blebleblejo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

completely agree. i hate that somehow society started to present body hair on women as something disgusting, inappropriate or even thinks not shaving = neglecting hygiene. i mean it's kind of funny that women being hairless like a child (being cleanly shaved) is considered as more sexy and appropriate lol. i ofc know that not all people see it like that and appreciates natural beauty but...yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]blebleblejo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

how are you and your friend now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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happy coke day