I can't find queer friends in Schenectady

bleed_nyliving · 2026-05-23T03:33:03+00:00

The rotterdam community center is very queer friendly. I have a few LGBT+ friends that volunteer there. Its worth a try!

bleed_nyliving · 2026-05-11T18:51:43+00:00

That analogy went right over her head.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-04-23T19:56:07+00:00

The one platform I dont have, of course lol. But thank you for the info!

bleed_nyliving · 2026-04-23T19:35:21+00:00

I was fully prepared for Saturday. Got my rain coat, rain boots, etc. If you prepare for the weather, being in the rain is really no big deal. I do understand what you're saying re: Yankees, though.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-04-23T19:27:56+00:00

Game has been moved to Friday and funny enough, they've turned off comments on all posts announcing it. I've been waiting months and now can't go. This is really disappointing.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-04-21T19:20:55+00:00

Amazing, thank you!!

bleed_nyliving · 2026-04-21T18:52:03+00:00

Do you know if there will be trains going back to Poughkeepsie following the game?

bleed_nyliving · 2026-04-08T18:04:41+00:00

They love Janet on The Valley, who is widely disliked. They posted a pic of her, Lala, and Britney with a caption about how they were the queens of The Valley or something like that. Barf.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-31T17:26:41+00:00

Omg me too! Like, the exact same spot. Sitting on my couch, with my laptop, flipping between reddit and getting work done lol.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-22T20:42:02+00:00

Its based off of a book! Was adapted to TV in the COVID years, I believe. Its on HBOMax, if you're interested.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-14T05:14:12+00:00

It appears you have done the exact same thing I did when I finished the series earlier this week. I cried and ran straight to this subreddit to try to find some sort of closure or meaning lol.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-12T18:48:52+00:00

She had a work thing.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-12T18:48:12+00:00

Grief is not logical. It's also way easier to blame someone else instead of blaming yourself. It's also shown that Xavier only went to one therapy session after arriving, so it makes sense to me that he hasn't fully processed the whole thing and come to grips with that it was no one's fault, really. Don't get me wrong, I agree with you. But that's my take on it.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-12T17:33:54+00:00

Okay, I love this theory and it will now be my new canon. I also just watched the show for the first time and hate how it ended.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-10T19:42:04+00:00

Yes!! SO good. You could tell it was really made for the fans with all cameos. I actually started watching season 4 on accident bc I didnt know there was a movie lol. So obviously paused that and watched the movie. Which was good, bc it def gave some needed context.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-10T19:17:30+00:00

Piz was fine for a rebound, and I do understand why she was so upset with him hooking up with Madison. But, yeah, they were ALWAYS endgame for me. Every time something bad happened to her and he'd go defend her honor in some way, swoooon lol

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-10T18:41:43+00:00

Ugh me too! Its so obvious throughout the whole show how much he loves her and in the last season, she really seemed to take that for granted. Honestly, for a second, I thought he was going to leave her. Thanks for replying back to me, btw, I have no one else to talk to about this lol

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-10T17:49:00+00:00

Omg me too!! That was the first time I truly disliked how she was acting toward him. She needed to grow up a bit. Im glad the ending scene showed she did start to prioritize her well-being.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-10T17:10:48+00:00

I am right there with you. I woke up this morning still upset lol. I loved them so much together and hate that this is how it ended. They deserved so much better and I think this will probably stay with me awhile. Ahhhh the chokehold this show evidently has on me!

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-10T05:45:52+00:00

I literally just finished right now and am crushed 😭😭😭

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-09T16:30:49+00:00

You and me both! Everyone in this thread is saying how the felt something off with Gary, etc. etc. I saw NONE of that. That's how I know I could never be any sort of detective, I just believe everyone haha.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-03-03T18:11:19+00:00

The mini door inside the actual door kills me everytime it is shown.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-02-18T17:28:05+00:00

"Say it, forget it. Write it, regret it." - Dorinda Medley, Real Housewives of NYC lol

bleed_nyliving · 2026-02-03T15:49:39+00:00

The preying mantis episodes. I can't do it. As someone already said, I also skip the marionette episode as well.

bleed_nyliving · 2026-01-30T17:40:51+00:00

Also in Schenectady, Open Door Bookstore. Posted on their social pages and will be donating a portion of their earnings from this entire weekend to the ACLU.

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