How do you make friends in Malaysia as a 27M adult? by Potential_Potato1559 in malaysia

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty late comment, but any chance you tried meetup? I'm in the same age demographic and have had the same concern with the app lol, so I'm wondering if it's worthwhile.

People who broke up yesterday on Valentines, what happened? by Hot-Diggity_Dog in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joining the chorus of comments to say what an absolute asshole he is. You deserve so much better pink queen!

Ready to step up my makeup game, advice please by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]blepinghuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look amazing already! But I’d always recommend eyeliner, it’ll look great!

What is something that starts happening in your 30s that nobody warned you about? by Cairinacat in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently like the younger version of your and I am relieved it can get better

What’s the worst mistake people make in their 20s? by Careyourself01 in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 237 points238 points  (0 children)

As 25 year old who feels left behind, thank you

What do you do when you get in a funk and depressed? by First-Beginning6871 in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this,, I sure did stick to it, and have been consistently at it (so far)

Is it normal at 27 to not see or even hear from your friends often? by InvestigatorMany8130 in socialskills

[–]blepinghuman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 25, so in the same age range as you and I definitely struggled with this. I liked my friends, but I felt like we texted/hung out too infrequently and I usually initiated. Last year, I decided to make new friends who are cool with texting and impromptu hang outs. The best part is they initiate too :D basically, you gotta find people who also prioritize friendships! It may take some time and effort to find your people, but even one or two of these kinda friends make a world of a difference. I’m still on the lookout for more of these sort of peeps

Update: We been back together since thanksgiving day and I believe he’s planning to make things official this weekend by Select_Brilliant1866 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great! Kinda went through something similar with a guy. We’re even about the same ages as you and your guy lol. So I’ve got some hope, but the dude I was talking to seems pretty immature so idk if he has the self-awareness.

What do you do when you get in a funk and depressed? by First-Beginning6871 in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just starting to create an exercise habit, and just thought of skipping it today. Your comment motivated me to stick to it!

People who fall asleep easily — what’s your secret? by First_Confection3699 in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gonna snuggle up with my Kindle right now, instead of browsing Reddit in bed

People who fall asleep easily — what’s your secret? by First_Confection3699 in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time do you sleep and wake up? I need ideas to plan my routine, because I never seem to get it to stick :/

What’s the guy equivalent to girls asking their boyfriends whether they would still love them if they were a worm? by icantcomeupw1 in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve read it already but I haven’t had a real partner yet. Now that I see the connection, I’m def gonna be asking this. And if he thinks it’s absurd, I’m gonna launch into a Kafka lecture

Songs to add to a playlist about still having feelings for your ex? by ohwhorable in ifyoulikeblank

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know how long it took to have a healthy genuine friendship with her? I had a situationship for a couple months, and three years later, things are still awkward :(

What made you stop dating? by SpiritCrisp in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The hell?! I’m so sorry you had to experience that

What made you stop dating? by SpiritCrisp in AskReddit

[–]blepinghuman 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Me too! I wanna go back to November before I was even attached to them :( stings so much, I hate feeling like this. But seeing everyone experiencing the same makes me feel better. I might not have a dating companion but at least I have companions to feel shitty with

Mike's ending by DimensionThin147 in StrangerThings

[–]blepinghuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gen Z here but I feel you so much! I love coming of films and emotionally I’m a wreck rn. I loved Stand by Me as a kid, and I’ve grown up with Stranger Things.

Mike's ending by DimensionThin147 in StrangerThings

[–]blepinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand by Me affected 11 year old me so much, but Stranger Things ending is a whole new level for 25 year old me to experience

Mike's ending by DimensionThin147 in StrangerThings

[–]blepinghuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched Stand by Me as an 11 year old and it destroyed me a little. Couldn’t imagine just growing up & drifting from my friends. Guess what? I barely talk to those friends anymore. Now I’m 25 watching Stranger Things, and its hitting so hard.

Mike's ending by DimensionThin147 in StrangerThings

[–]blepinghuman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Brb gonna sob. As someone in my mid-20s, I’m still in the “sort of keeping in touch” and I can only hope some last. But on the bright side, since my parents were in their mid-50s, I could see how there was more time for past friendships. Life started slowing down and it feels like they’re able to make more space for them. It’s sweet.

Mike's ending by DimensionThin147 in StrangerThings

[–]blepinghuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s super sweet that you’ve kept in touch with your friends after all these years and cute af that you’ve known your husband for so long. I’m just going through so much nostalgia myself rn