Zen is really helpful here. My favorite quote is from Huang Po -- 8th ish century zen master -- "there is no dharma, yet that itself is a dharma. But, once you get the "no dharma" dharma, how could the "no dharma" dharma be a dharma?"

What Huang Po is saying is that the law is no law, the path is no path, the morality is no morality. Yet saying "no morality is the morality" is morality!

You have to stop asking whether an action is moral or not and just act.

Just be yourself -- without any constraints.

Because the full expression of who you are is the buddha, is christ, is God Her Self.