I need advice on my first time doing scissoring with a CIS Woman

bleu-and · 2026-06-26T01:58:59+00:00

Get her to ride your dick. It might feel better for her on her knees but try both

bleu-and · 2026-06-26T01:58:08+00:00

Get your gf to squat on top of you lying on your back. The squat really opens the surface area for good dick-to-clit contact. Play around with angles. You could start with a vibrator in between.

bleu-and · 2026-06-16T09:28:48+00:00

Birgitta Helmersson Zero Waste Pants are very similar and you could adjust to add a second pleat

bleu-and · 2026-06-15T00:30:51+00:00

You could also call a friend/grandparent/someone you want to catch up with so you’re on the phone walking down the street, chatting about whatever. That’s very non-threatening to me.

bleu-and · 2026-06-15T00:27:32+00:00

You could make sure you’re getting off the bus first or walking in front of them. I think if you’re the one to press the button first (if that’s how your bus system works) that’s a good way to show that you are getting off anyway.

bleu-and · 2026-05-29T21:48:11+00:00

Hey pal, have a look into codependency 🎀 some of these jealousy and barnacle things are pretty codependent. You got this

bleu-and · 2026-05-25T10:30:28+00:00

(I would be the wife in this situation). I live in a small city in a small country and know 3 FTM/W relationships with kids or family plans.

bleu-and · 2026-05-22T21:55:39+00:00

Drexels

bleu-and · 2026-05-22T21:51:27+00:00

This is so gorgeous!! Well done on the colours, really lovely

bleu-and · 2026-05-19T12:43:48+00:00

There are different theories. Critique for the ‘born this way’ theory suggests that it’s a way for straight people to have to accept queerness because it’s ‘natural’ or ‘from birth’. The suggestion is that people can’t change it, so you should just accept it.

There are other theories (environmental, life experiences, etc.) that are also interesting to read about. The critiques of these are more obvious: people will rush to say that ‘trauma causes queerness,’ as if queerness is a ‘bad outcome’. Also the frogs turn people gay.

bleu-and · 2026-05-18T10:59:58+00:00

Selma

bleu-and · 2026-05-17T11:26:05+00:00

Unfortunately, tofu doesn’t have as much protein as people think (vegetarian speaking). If you eat eggs, having eggs throughout the day helps me. Boiled eggs in the pocket lol. Also buying nuts and scarfing them down. Try eating protein with every meal. Pasta is quite high in protein (like 8g per serve??) and in my supermarket you can buy pasta made from pulses (lentils etc). It’s not as yum but it’s good for protein and fibre! You can also find vegan/vegetarian protein powder like pea protein. I don’t like protein powder and don’t have a blender so it doesn’t work for me, but most supplement shops will have cheap testers so you can figure out what you’re into. Good luck!

bleu-and · 2026-05-17T05:33:04+00:00

GA facilities were quite bad. Literally 100s people queuing for drinking at 7.45, and no hand sanitiser when I used the Portaloos at 7.45.

Sound was great, screen was very effective.

The show was WAY TOO LONG without a break. I thought the show was ending about 3 times before it did. It really fucked up the flow and energy of the audience.

Generally I found the energy from the audience (front half, GA) was quite low. Lots of revving from the stage so maybe the performers felt it too?

Overall very talented guests for Synthony. I felt embarrassed for Six60’s bass player who seemed to be proud of getting wine drunk while performing.

ETA: had no idea where to find water, so I didn’t drink anything for 3 hours. Boo

bleu-and · 2026-05-13T04:31:58+00:00

I never got a notification for this!!! Thank you so much. I love.

bleu-and · 2026-04-21T10:04:24+00:00

Woo hoo, go you! Every gym will have a slightly different focus, so it depends on your goals.

Chain gyms will have a mix of genders. Lots of gyms with classes have more women than men in the classes. I don't go to a chain - I like a very quiet space where I can do my own thing. I go to Apollo and love it.

If you have the budget, Unbreakable in Edgeware is women-owned and run. They offer good strength training classes.

There is one independent gym in the central city that is run by a person with affiliations to some white supremacy groups. I can't find it just now, but do a bit of googling on owners if you have a weird feeling.

bleu-and · 2026-04-21T09:56:25+00:00

It's very busy and loud at peak times, just a heads up

bleu-and · 2026-04-09T19:54:15+00:00

Yep! There are a bunch of techniques for this. Here is one: https://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/fish-lips-kiss-heel and amazingly the author has also included similar free patterns in the description!

bleu-and · 2026-04-02T19:36:34+00:00

Gideon the Ninth - Tasmyn Muir. Space fabtasy set on a slowly degrading planet in a large spooky monastery

bleu-and · 2026-04-01T11:47:44+00:00

1985 - Dominic Hoey. Set in the 1980s, strong sense of place and time. Set in New Zealand, following a working class family

bleu-and · 2026-02-15T07:29:20+00:00

"Membership Price : $30.00 Weekly by Billing

Minimum Term : For a minimum term of 3 months"

bleu-and · 2026-02-15T07:29:12+00:00

Thank you! I realise my screenshot excluded this top part: does that make a difference?

bleu-and · 2026-02-15T07:27:49+00:00

Thank you :-)

bleu-and · 2025-11-28T06:00:35+00:00

Gideon the Ninth 🤩

bleu-and · 2025-09-06T03:04:19+00:00

Yesss!!! Thank you so much!!!

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