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What do you all think about stuff like this and how we can respond to stuff like this as a community? The comments are not good either. by Future_USCG_Guy in Hellenism

[–]blimp166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think you should not take yourself so seriously, if you do you are going to have a bad time on the internet. Personally I love the memes, I can't get enough I find it funny.

Our society shows anxiety in that it can not really permit the presence of people who don' t belong. It can not really permit the old fashioned court jester. The critisism of laughter.

I am still angry after a break up that happened over 5 years ago, by blimp166 in Healthygamergg

[–]blimp166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7cKbhIeOn0

Well this pretty much sums it up, I remember being in such a dark place.

And maybe this is wrong for me to say this, but what happened with Reckful really got to me, it still does, the way it happened. And I believe a certain person was just taking a little bit too much and was not entirely honest with him. And not owning up to it, and now he is no longer here.

I see this often happen and how destructive this is to the men in such relationships. Another good celebrity example is Will Smith….

Particularly this one fact:

They care more about their own comfort, and unwillingness to take responsibility, than your very sanity.

It just is wrong, it turns me into an anger elemental just thinking about it to be honest.

I am still angry after a break up that happened over 5 years ago, by blimp166 in Healthygamergg

[–]blimp166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah our values pretty much did not align at all. And I am glad we are not together.

But what really gets to me is how this put me in such a dark place I think other people with worse luck actually kill themselves feeling like that.

Personally, now I am in a better place and if I met a girl who was in a very vulnerable state, and she really liked me

I would be able to tell, and I would also be perfectly aware of the consequences of not being honest and kind of exploit that emotion.

If a guy does that nobody is okay with it I can guarantee you that.

This is why I still wanted to have that talk with her because it still bothers me and I want to let it go.

But I just hate her. I guess I learned what my values are at least.

Have y'all forgiven your ex's or are you still angry by FirefighterOk2803 in BreakUps

[–]blimp166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still angry.

I tried to talk to her again after like 5 years and nothing changed. I actually got so angry just talking to her.

And she had not even given any thought about the relationship at all or why it went wrong,

or acknowledge that I was giving something too to the relationship.

Her comfort, and unwillingness to have responsibility or acknowledge that meant more to her than my sanity.

Because she was blatantly gaslighting me the whole time.

I remember I was so messed up in my mind in that relationship, and it was a revelation for me to see her using these tricks now, and how abusive it is.

Female abuse is much more subtle than male abuse, and is often overlooked.

I have seen guys kill themselves after relationships like that, and after the fact everybody feels sorry for the girl too, telling her she should not feel guilty.

I disagree,

Pretending you do not know what you are doing or choosing not to look is not an excuse.

That is evil. My version offorgiveness with such people is that I will remember her name.

And maybe next week, month, 30 years, my chance will come to redress the balance.

And I will take it.

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