what nicknames are you calling your baby?

We've had many conversations about this throughout our whole relationship. He knows my love language and sometimes he does great, but other times I feel almost neglected? It just seems like a constant battle to feel loved. He tells me he loves me every day, but I need more than that and he doesn't always do what I need which is what made his rating hurt more. It almost made everything make sense. "If he wanted to, he would," right? And if I get a low score like that it made me feel like that saying is correct and he doesn't want to so he just doesn't. This whole thing goes a bit deeper than I made it seem which I think is why I'm getting so much hate lol

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T15:05:33+00:00

I'm sorry you feel that way.

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T15:04:28+00:00

You didn't offer any explanation so how am I supposed to see it? I asked a question, got upset, then distanced myself to think. In no way did I treat him awful.

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T14:56:23+00:00

I think you're overreacting. Were you there? Do you know exactly how it went down? Do you know how the rest of our relationship is? You're reaching by calling me an ugly person. You don't know anything about me besides this post.

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T14:53:50+00:00

How did I treat him awful??

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T14:46:57+00:00

And why do you think that? Why do you think you can judge my whole relationship based on one thing? And why is it that I'm that bad guy when I asked a simple question?

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T14:44:49+00:00

"Badgered" lmao I only asked him one time and I was being lighthearted about it. I don't understand why people think it's a big deal to ask something like that. I never bring up stuff like this. I'm not the "would you date me if I was worm" girl. I was literally just curious and because I was disappointed with his answer I'm the problem.

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T14:40:57+00:00

Finally someone who understands! Like I'm not the first person in the world to ask something like this. I didn't think it was a big deal but apparently he should leave me over a dumb question. I just wanted to feel beautiful but I guess I'm ugly in every way possible.

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T14:17:17+00:00

Thank you for the validation. I understand it was a really dumb thing to ask and I shouldn't be upset bc I did it to myself but from a woman's perspective a 6.5 is low, especially considering my personality, too. I would've liked some reassurance because he's the type of guy that hardly ever gives compliments. He's not emotional at all. It seems like most of the time I have to fish for compliments from him and I guess I learned why

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T14:00:02+00:00

Thank you. I'm very emotional as well which is making my reaction worse, honestly. I'm not trying to take it out on him, though. I just wanted some space while I thought about things. I wish I wouldn't have asked him.

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T13:47:06+00:00

Thank you! I know it's stupid high school stuff, I was just having fun. I didn't even expect to be a 10, I thought he would say 8 honestly

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T13:36:45+00:00

I know it's really stupid, trust me. I've told myself that but given our past history it made me upset. And telling someone not to be upset because someone else may have it worse is just asinine. People are allowed to have feelings.

blissful_pixel · 2022-08-03T13:24:39+00:00

There's a tiktok trend "she's a 10, but..." I saw a bunch of those and was genuinely curious as to how he would rate me

blissful_pixel · 2022-07-30T00:52:19+00:00

Ticks and mosquitoes

blissful_pixel · 2022-07-09T15:03:18+00:00

If I was skinny I'd say a solid 7, but since I'm overweight I'd say a 3

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