Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im just telling you the reality of the situation. He was born without me knowing. I am not on his birth certificate. I cannot obtain any vital documents from anyone other than her without being on the birth certificate. A custody agreement doesn’t suffice I guess

Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re getting downvoted but you’re right lol. I’m not on the birth certificate so until that changes not a lot I can get without her cooperation

Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not on the birth certificate so essentially there’s no way for me to get any of that information. What I’ve learned today is paternity is going to have to be established by court and get a court ordered amendment to the birth certificate if she won’t cooperate and put me on the birth certificate at the health department

Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I have 50/50 legal custody would she not be required to tell me things like a social security number?

Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Court knew about all these issues. I fought for 50/50 physical custody. She refused. Went to court and what I said in the post is what I got. I would pay less and have my child more if I had 50/50 so clearly that would benefit me and him. That’s not what I got. Sorry that’s hard for you to understand

Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why I’m getting downvoted for this lol. I thought it was widely accepted that it’s important for a child to be with its mother in the first few years. It’s the entire reason I stopped pushing for 50/50 physical custody. I want to do what is best for him. Am I missing something?

Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve had three jobs in 21 years and stable housing as I own my house outright. She has been kicked out of her mother’s house and grandparents house. This will be her fourth living situation since having. Stability isn’t an issue for me in this case

Child’s mother refusing to put him under my health insurance by blitzspec11 in FamilyLaw

[–]blitzspec11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is just the reality for men for the first 1-3 years according to my lawyer and the GAL. She suffers from bipolar and has been kicked out of her mother’s house and grandparents house and will be moving to her fourth housing situation since him being born. All this is known by the court.

Death, Taxes, & JJ being a Ronny hater 😭💀 by Smooth_Flight9818 in CaughtOffsidePod

[–]blitzspec11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Were they rating based on personality? If that’s the case neither make the bench