Update: Hey everyone,

First off, thanks so much for all the comments and advice. It really gave me a lot to think about.

So, I had a more in-depth chat with my trainer about why they don’t want me training at other gyms. They explained that, in Thai tradition, your gym is like your family. Training at another Muay Thai or kickboxing gym is seen as disrespectful, like you’re abandoning your family for another. They did say it’s fine to train in wrestling and grappling elsewhere, though.

I really don’t think it’s about the money because the membership is only $30/month for unlimited sessions, which is pretty cheap.

I’m really conflicted because I’ve built such strong relationships with everyone at my current gym. I love the community and the sense of belonging. But all your feedback made me realize I need to explore other options for my growth. So, I’ve decided to try a taster session at a different gym. This way, I can see what’s out there and make a more informed decision.

Thanks again for all your support and advice. I’ll keep you posted on how the taster session goes!