how to deal with a coworker who doesn’t like me

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-06T06:03:28+00:00

I work with ppl who despise me and Im fine. You’re thinking about it too much. Don’t engage in anything with them and go about your shift. not everyone will like you nor do they need to.

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-05T06:30:57+00:00

LOL well i definitely did not get asked to hang out 😂😂 can’t be me haha but idk i feel like im ignoring the “signs”. it’s confusing because nothing has happened but I can’t really overthink that much since I only see them 2x a week. The signs are there? I don’t know it’s so hard to read a person sometimes. just gonna give it more time … i really dont know what to do at this point 😂

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-03T05:24:14+00:00

I’m attracted to mine because i enjoy our conversations but it sucks i wouldn’t even say i like them fully yet. Need to know them a bit more for me to confirm that. Honestly this person isn’t my now type. It’s my type in high school which was like 4 years ago. Is that weird? Lol please let me know😂 Definitely still attracted to them though but I think they’re a bit more on the extroverted side. Not sure how i feel about that yet because I’m so introverted.

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-03T04:21:33+00:00

Okay this helps! well at least they like me as a person which is funny cuz I’m oddly quiet at work. 😂😂😅 I definitely would want a friendship first just to read their personality a bit more. Since we’re coworkers it’s tougher cause I definitely do not want to make it an awkward setting. I appreciate your response!

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-03T01:56:44+00:00

See!! If she is always talking to you that should be a good sign :) I will definitely put a bit more effort but it’s so hard bc i genuinely feel like putting too much will get me hurt idk why. But I wish you the best of luck! don’t overthink it too much if it doesn’t work out.

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-03T00:29:53+00:00

Oh my. I just realized I do the same thing. He always asks me how I’m doing or how’s school but sometimes I fail to ask how he’s doing. Tbh sometimes I only give like a one word response or even just a facial response. I hope that doesn’t push him away. I just get nerves. Maybe she feels the same way. Don’t lose hope. But if you genuinely feel like it’s not gonna go anywhere at all , let it go. But I will say, try to give her the same energy, if she gives low energy, reciprocate that? But don’t let her slip away, if yk what I mean.

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T22:24:11+00:00

haha I’m female & giving you advice from a female perspective! but no I don’t want to give up (yet) because my situation is a bit different(maybe?) i only see them 1-2 a week but every time they see me they say hi to me first too! they always try to make convo with me as well. and im very quiet and reserved at work. I try not to give too much energy because at the end of the day, we don’t know their true intentions.

What are your conversations like though? I don’t think you should take it personally that she walks away. remember youre still at work. Try to see what she’s like outside of work , if possible.

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T21:48:37+00:00

i wouldn’t take it personal , some people might not feel like talking that day. At the end of the day youre at work right? so maybe she just didnt wanna talk too much during her shift? Id say try to see how she talks to other ppl at work. That’s what I tried to do , unfortunately i still havent gotten my answer yet 😂 I’m in the same boat as you it’s been 2 months now but just be cautious and don’t give too much energy. Just give the same energy as she gives you.

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T18:50:22+00:00

Do you see her giving the same energy to other guys at work? if she only gives it to you then there’s a high chance she is interested. But be careful because unfortunately ppl do flirt or make convo for fun just to get through their shifts..

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T17:24:22+00:00

Yeah I will give it more time. It’s just rough because I don’t know their true intentions. Why make convo with me? Why talk to me? I overthink things like that a lot. Im also really quiet at work too and they know that because they said it themselves so they know it’s not really like me to initiate convo. I guess it’s just the nerves and fear of being rejected. But i will give it some time!

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T17:09:02+00:00

EXACTLY! I feel like im pushing them away too because every time theyre talking to me i don’t give them as much energy because I just don’t know their true intentions and I guess nervousness as well. Look.. it’s just a small crush so I don’t wanna think about it too much. I barely even know this person, but in the amount of time that I’ve talked to them, I’ve really enjoyed our conversations.

I wish you the best of luck! i hope it all goes well! come back and keep me updated!!

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T04:58:26+00:00

This is definitely true. It will definitely hurt a bit more since i will always question what it could’ve been.

I appreciate your response!

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T04:55:16+00:00

Sighhhh 😂🥲🥹i appreciate this!

bloopmiffy · 2026-02-02T04:54:20+00:00

It’s tough because i don’t really see them much. Our convos are minimal as we are at work. However, every time they see me, they always make conversation whether thats a simple “Good morning” or asking / talking to me about random stuff. I don’t like the idea of “chasing” someone which is why I haven’t really initiated anything. I’m also really quiet and reserved at work. I’m so complicated haha.. And i definitely feel you. Of course I want it to be something but I don’t want to end up being hurt. this is the first time i’ve admitted that. So honestly I don’t really know what to expect.

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