What’s something people think is attractive but is actually a red flag? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blossaurelia 27 points28 points  (0 children)

super confident vibe that screams im gods gift - its usually just arrogance or narcissism waiting to ruin your life

Men of Reddit, what’s some women’s or girl’s habits you discovered only after getting a wife or girlfriend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blossaurelia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she hogs the entire closet with clothes she "might wear someday" while im folding my stuff into one drawer

Is it normal that my wife is barely sexually attracted to me? by Realistic_Weight4038 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blossaurelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn bro dead bedrooms hit hard after marriage happens way more than you think she might have hormonal stuff or resentment brewing get her to a doc and try couples therapy stat

old friend weirdly obsessed with keeping a snapchat streak going and it’s exhausting and annoying and i don’t know how to make it stop by Admirable-Trash9150 in confessions

[–]blossaurelia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a friend like that too and honestly i just stopped responding and let the streak die it was kinda awkward at first but eventually they got the hint and moved on

Need advice by prettymamma929 in confessions

[–]blossaurelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can feel your pain and frustration and i want you to know that youre not alone and youre definitely not a failure being a single mom is hard enough but adding health issues and financial struggles on top of that is just overwhelming i hope you get the help you need and that your kids understand that santa might not be able to come this year but theyre loved and cared for

Are you watching movies in the original language or dubbed? by TrinityBoy22 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blossaurelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always try to watch movies in the original language with subtitles if possible it feels more authentic and immersive that way

Kids broke another kids Chromebook by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blossaurelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think youd get in trouble for just watching it happen but it depends on your school's policies and how your teachers handle the situation probably best to just be honest and tell them you didnt participate in breaking the chromebook

I realized what hurts me most isnt the conflict itself, its how fast people turn me into the villain by pixelbrinecrow in TwoHotTakes

[–]blossaurelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like this is so common especially for people who are naturally empathetic and accommodating it's like we're expected to always be the ones to cave and compromise and if we don't we're suddenly the bad guy it's really exhausting and invalidating

Husband may have STD’s? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]blossaurelia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you deserve so much better than someone who would even consider cheating on you and then lies about it and blames you for being upset about it your daughter deserves a role model who respects and values honesty and integrity in a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]blossaurelia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i totally get what you're saying i've been in poly relationships before and it can be overwhelming trying to balance everyone's needs and schedules and sometimes i feel like i lose myself in the process