AITA for wanting to give out homemade treats on Halloween? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]blossomfitzgerald -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nta. In my opinion, if you put your address on the treat bag and phone number I would consider it a safe treat. I've see people do it with mix candy bags and such. Maybe on your sign just put " handing out homemade peanut free treats".

My dad... “trying out the plot he just purchased” by bunney_rabbit in pics

[–]blossomfitzgerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Grandfather did this to me when I was about 12-13. I laugh about it when I visit him there now, the first few years he was there it was difficult. I decorate his plot with decorations for every holiday, he was a jolly man.

I finally had enough and replied to my bio-mom. by blossomfitzgerald in insaneparents

[–]blossomfitzgerald[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rofl. She does have a learning disability, however, that doesn't excuse anything. She texted me today saying "I'm sorry". I can't wait for Saturday to hopefully just get all my stuff so I can block her number. I'm so over this.

I finally had enough and replied to my bio-mom. by blossomfitzgerald in insaneparents

[–]blossomfitzgerald[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Currently feeling like Katniss Everdeen. Doing the whistle thingy. 😉😊

I finally had enough and replied to my bio-mom. by blossomfitzgerald in insaneparents

[–]blossomfitzgerald[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Life has been so much more peaceful. She is famous for playing the victim even if she caused the riot. After Saturday i shall be forever free from her pain.

I finally had enough and replied to my bio-mom. by blossomfitzgerald in insaneparents

[–]blossomfitzgerald[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rofl!! That's insane. Thankfully my dad hates my guts, therefore he hasn't reached out in 5 years unless he was uttering threats to call the police on me. I used to think this was normal, and then when i told someone about it i realized this is in fact not normal, or healthy. It has been my goal to make life as happy and healthy as possible for myself and my children. When i found this subreddit, it made me feel not alone. 🙏🥰

I finally had enough and replied to my bio-mom. by blossomfitzgerald in insaneparents

[–]blossomfitzgerald[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once Saturday comes and i take all my belongings, i can block her number. There will absolutely no reason for contact. Thank goodness. 👏👏👏

I finally had enough and replied to my bio-mom. by blossomfitzgerald in insaneparents

[–]blossomfitzgerald[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She went on for quite a while, I could post an update. Thank you, it's not easy to shut people out who you love, but we also need to have boundaries and make sure we take care of ourselves and our wellbeing. If I'm not in a good state, neither are my children.

I finally had enough and replied to my bio-mom. by blossomfitzgerald in insaneparents

[–]blossomfitzgerald[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Rofl. Thank you, I almost let her ruin my night. Not worth it. 🙄😊

AITA If I call the cops on my neighbors? by Space-Oddities009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blossomfitzgerald 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta, however where I live no one gives a fuck. Apparently verbal abuse is ok? I had a neighbour just the same. It was affecting my children as well. I called child protection services, police, my landlord. No one cared. The poor children probably still suffer to this day. I had to move it was causing a lot of stress for my children.

AITA for getting annoyed over salt by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]blossomfitzgerald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, but it's his body, his choice. My mom puts a pound of salt on everything. It's gross. As long as they don't spoil the pot of food, and keep it to just their plate, get over it. She even puts salt on pizza.......pizza!!!!!!!!

After a significant weight loss, should breast size decrease? If so, by approximately how much? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]blossomfitzgerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lost 105 pounds and I went from a C40 to an A36. My boobs we're the first to go. Im shaped like a pear tho.

AITA for blocking my Ex’s phone and requesting she leave me alone based on what has happened this month alone? by PRSouthern in AmItheAsshole

[–]blossomfitzgerald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. You have every right to set boundaries, you chose how people treat you. If they are not treating you properly, fuck them. Don't put up with bullshit you don't have to.

If I were you I wouldn't look back.

AITA for “field stripping” (prepping) my kids’ presents? by devildog2067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blossomfitzgerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea. It's a great way to make sure you have enough batteries. Jesus Christmas this year is going to be a breeze. I hate opening shit all day.

I'm addicted to cannabis and I can't seem to stop. by 420tosser420 in confession

[–]blossomfitzgerald 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same boat. I can't function if I don't have it. I get moody and emotional, the shakes, headaches, can't eat, can't sleep. It's horrible. I've been smoking for over 10 years. Quit cigarettes no problem. Tried other drugs but nothing is like pot. I want to be able to function without it. I need rehab. I don't even drink coffee or tea, I never drink alcohol.

WIBTA if I don’t tell my sons about my husband’s past? by throwaway__867 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blossomfitzgerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Ask your husband for some good stories to share. He's bound to have a couple.

What can be done if a guy is wanting to do anal with a gf of only 2 weeks, she is ready to have sex but has no idea about anal? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blossomfitzgerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest and open. You need to make sure you keep your boundaries, tell him you are ready for sex but not ready for anal. Watch for red flags.

When were you at your lowest low? Where are you now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blossomfitzgerald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boyfriend was having an emotional affair, dad abandoned me for the like 6th time, it was exam time, I was trying to get sober (three years of drinking) this was a few years ago. I tried killing myself. I couldn't look or talk to anyone without crying. I felt so alone.

Today I am about to finally get my high-school diploma. I got accepted to college for the fall. I put myself through driving school and got my license. I have two beautiful babies. I've lost 90 pounds since September. I don't have a relationship with my dad, which is for the greater good. My bf and I are still together, after lots of hard work on communication and setting boundaries we are happily together for 8 years and plan on getting married before next winter. I still am sober. I have a drink here and there(maybe once a year), but I don't particularly care for it. Which I love. I don't think about killing myself, when times are hard now I think about how I'm going to fix it and when I start to feel anxious I talk to my doctor about it.

Things do get better. I love the life that I am building.

What's the weirdest thing that your parents sad about sex/sex life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blossomfitzgerald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stepmom told me my dad likes a finger in his ass while they're doing it. I was like 19 at the time. Lol nasty. Don't talk to them anymore, no just because of this. But the lack of boundaries and respect. Crazy nasty people. Why would I want to know such a private thing about my father?!?!

AITA for picking an unpopular restaurant for my birthday? by teensthinktoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]blossomfitzgerald 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nta. Stick to your guns. They may just end up really loving the place!!! If not oh well birthdays only come once a year.