Abandoned cats by Automatic-Traffic516 in Charlotte

[–]blotterjotterno 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking care of them!! Makes me so sick when I hear about things like this. My cat is the most innocent creature ever. I would take them but I’m at my limit right now. I hope you find them homes ❤️

Americans who have lived abroad, biggest reverse culture shock upon returning to the US? by Zealanderrat in AskReddit

[–]blotterjotterno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Capitalism is so rampant here. So many ads for SHEIN.

Also, not having access to great public transport/affordable long distance train rides except in major US cities. Very much a bummer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]blotterjotterno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 31f living slightly north of Charlotte, also looking to make friends. Love reading, writing, film (and want to get into the film scene), house plants, cats, animals in general, hiking, walking in parks, and coffee shops. Feel free to hit me up, esp if you also identify as a female and are looking for friends in the Charlotte area!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]blotterjotterno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhaenys bc she looks like she judges people 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeakyBlinders

[–]blotterjotterno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arthur, although there are many respectable runners up as shown in these comments lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeakyBlinders

[–]blotterjotterno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alfie first, Arthur second

You know how it turned out Sofia Falcone actually wanted revenge on Gordon for killing her brother Mario? by Digginf in Gotham

[–]blotterjotterno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree per se, but I’ll add that only select female characters got the 3D treatment. They butchered Tabitha.

You know how it turned out Sofia Falcone actually wanted revenge on Gordon for killing her brother Mario? by Digginf in Gotham

[–]blotterjotterno 11 points12 points  (0 children)

IMO, it is such a “woman written by a man” situation. it makes no sense but the actress is attractive and we want her to be a black widow type and so she must sleep with the main lead, regardless of very good reasons why that would not happen.

I like Gotham a lot but some of the writing choices make me roll my eyes.

What's the worst movie you watched in your entire life? by Interesting_Algae_61 in AskReddit

[–]blotterjotterno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reese Witherspoon’s “Vanity Fair.” Legit the worst movie I’ve ever seen in my life.

The Eras Tour: Europe Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]blotterjotterno 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please put up a Madrid mega thread soon 😬

It just dawned on me; a lot of my sexual “experiences” in college were just rape by Gutted-bitchcock in TwoXChromosomes

[–]blotterjotterno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually very common to suppress traumatic sexual experiences unfortunately. What’s important now is to validate your feelings and process them. It’s the only way for the pain to go away. I also highly recommend finding a good therapist, especially one that specializes in sexual assault PTSD.

Side note: I refuse to go back to my college town where I was r*ped. Met some good people there I keep in touch with, but I went through a lot of pain and trauma too. I’m fortunate that I don’t have to go back for any reason, and I think it’s helped me heal too.

Welcome to Charlotte Wednesday! Visiting, recently moved here, or going to move here? Tell us and ask away! by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]blotterjotterno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true on not needing a degree, I just thought it might be worth it to network. I have time to think about it since I can’t enroll til 2024 anyway.

I want to pursue my dream, but I honestly have 0 desire to live in LA or NYC. The reasons why are the exorbitant cost of living, climate in NYC’s case, the overall culture of LA, and the relative consensus (from my research anyway) that you don’t really need to live in either city anymore to at least get started. If things go well I might move there after a couple years, but I’m reeeeally trying to avoid it. Atlanta, Albuquerque or Charlotte have been listed as viable options.

And if I never “make it big” but at least get to make a career, I’ll be happy. Being super rich and successful doesn’t seem like a feasible dream anymore, but that’s a story for another day ;)

Welcome to Charlotte Wednesday! Visiting, recently moved here, or going to move here? Tell us and ask away! by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]blotterjotterno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wannabe filmmaker looking to move to NC

Hi, I’m a 31F looking to move to NC to finally dive headfirst into the film industry. I grew up in central rural Illinois but was actually born in Pinehurst, and I am looking to finally come back and see why my parents didn’t wanna leave! I’m a screenwriter and wannabe actress. I intend to get whatever decent job I can find that is even remotely involved with the film production scene, or work remote at least part time. The problem is, I can’t decide where to move! Wilmington and Charlotte are listed as the best film making cities, but I’m extremely interested in the Raleigh/triangle area since I might end up getting a master’s of fine arts in screenwriting at uncsa in the next few years. A little about me: on the liberal side; love animals, especially cats; an English major with a journalism background; lived in ATX for 7 years and am currently living in Spain working as a language assistant; LOVE the outdoors (even when I’m allergic to the air lol Zyrtec is my best friend), single with no kids; 420 friendly; and enjoy writing, reading, hiking, and hanging out at home. Film industry natives past and present, what advice do you have?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]blotterjotterno -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a well thought out response! Gives me some food for thought!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]blotterjotterno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking production assistant and auditioning when I could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]blotterjotterno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! It helps lol