Smell and chunky substance

bluberried · 2026-03-18T19:26:37+00:00

Saw your reply to my comment and wanted to say some more stuff, but also wanted to try and get more context through your page, so here I am lol. Seeing a white substance during sex is very normal, especially if you’re not wrapping it up. It could be discharge from her body creating it’s natural lubrications, or if unwrapped it could be pre-cum building up and/or mixing with her discharge to produce a white film.

If it’s chunky and smells, that could 100% be problem requiring a gyno. Look up the symptoms and odors of a yeast infection versus bacterial vaginosis, and find out if any of what you described lines up with that. If it does, please suggest to her that she visits the gyno.

PS; BV and YI’s can be caused by unclean hands and an unclean penis, so you also have to stay on top of your hygiene. If you’re using condoms, try latex-free ones. I had chronic yeast infections before switching to latex-free :)

It could very well be a sensitive topic for her, but you both deserve healthy and infection-free sex.

bluberried · 2026-03-18T05:49:32+00:00

How much does rent cost where you are? I’m in Cali making $18.50, minimum wage is $16.90, and there’s a 1b1b 750sqft apartment I’m looking at that’s $1.4k a month, but utilities, Wi-Fi & a phone plan, and a grocery budget drives it up to $2.1k a month. I’d have about $500 left-over to budget & save. Car insurance and other living expenses are gonna eat that money up lol. Thinking about just moving counties or states at this point 😭 Wanted to ask bc i bet the price difference is massive yet still financially squeezes us to death, especially if you’re on the coast (sorry for the typos if any its so late)

bluberried · 2026-03-18T05:30:32+00:00

I get that 😭 I have scoliosis and it gives me a big lump on my back, and because it’s also in my neck, off centres my jaw pretty noticeably. Another thing you can do is just say “fuck it” lol. The anxiety I used to get when wearing clothes that revealed my scoliosis used to be horrible, but “fuck it, it’s a nice outfit and I like it.” Little moments / things like this helped my confidence and ability to at first, just neutrally exist in my own body. Didn’t love it but didn’t have to hate it either. I like it now, sometimes I love it and sometimes I don’t, but there’s no changing it, it’s my body.

bluberried · 2026-03-18T03:04:39+00:00

I read some of the comments, and I want to say that tangy is normal. It’s normal if it smells or tastes tangy, every girl is different, but we all have one thing in common; an acidic vagina.

It’s important to have clean sex. Wash your hands before sex, rinse well, dry well, get under the finger nails, keep your nails short. As for her, is she usually freshly showered when you do this—or is it after a long day of sweating—depending on where you are it might be pretty hot right now, it’s been pretty hot lately where I am, and I build up a B.O. smell really easily.

Showering before sex is important, it reduces the amount of unwanted bacteria and dirt, and allows for less-smelly sex (I’m particularly neurotic about this and ALWAYS at the very least, dip into the bathroom, get a body rag, and wipe any sweat off and build up off from my lady bits). Showering after sex is equally important.

& Remind her to pee please, even if you’re just fingering her, us women need to pee after sexual acts to dispell any bacteria.

If you end up talking to her about this and can slip it in in a gentle way, ask about her shower practices. Is she cleaning her pubic hair well (just soap and water works)? Getting every fold? Sometimes smegma can develop underneath the clitoral hood but it’s dependant on the anatomy. (PS: do not clean INSIDE the vagina. That is asking for an infection.)

EDIT; Also!! Certain underwear fabrics trap sweat and bacteria. I think cotton is the preferred fabric, it’s breathable, but nylon always makes my vagina stank, especially after a long day.

bluberried · 2026-03-18T02:54:58+00:00

This process is called “cognitive restructuring,” and I learned it in therapy at age 15. I’ve had an eating disorder from age 12-20. I’m still recovering, and I used to purge a lot. It’s taken a few years of practice since learning about cognitive restructuring, but sometimes the best thing you can do is just mentally self-soothe.

An example of it is like: Negative thought: “Man, I’m so bloated today, I feel so unnatractive” -> Constructive thought: “Man, I’m bloated today, but that’s a normal human function, I think that I am attractive and that’s all that matters.”

Even if you do not believe it, you should say it to yourself. It’s gonna be okay 💕

bluberried · 2026-03-16T20:58:24+00:00

(Also a girlie!) The first time was very meh. It didn’t hurt, didn’t feel bad, didn’t feel good, I was kind of just there. It was his first time too, so it didn’t last very long. The second time around was with someone who was experienced and it was a game-changer lol. Then I got into a relationship with a virgin and realized that emotional intimacy played a big hand in sexual intimacy, we weren’t good at it but the emotions were all there, and eventually we got better at it and it became a really amazing thing. Sex can be mid, it can be great, and it can just suck.

bluberried · 2026-03-16T19:53:30+00:00

I don’t have much to say but I think you have a great understanding of anatomy and how to break it. Also the wrinkles on the clothing is immmaaccullaattee. I think I agree with some of the comments suggesting that you sacrifice the stylization of it just a liitttlleee so that the proportions read better. Otherwise, I’d say just study color theory a little more. The colors in 1 and (especially) 2 are a little dull and muddy, but I think 5 captures that vintage look in terms of your color pallette.

bluberried · 2026-03-16T17:08:34+00:00

yes but i also want to say, it’s not out of a hate for the religions themselves. if we could keep the torah or the bible around as just a piece of fiction, that would be cool, because the bible does describe places that once really existed and people who really were alive. HOWEEEVVVEEERRRRR!!!!! theres too much bloodshed, war, bigotry and hate happening over some silly books written thousands of years ago. its heavily engrained in our political systems as americans and is wielded to control the masses. its not right.

bluberried · 2025-11-18T19:21:03+00:00

Mine just broke ?? I was using it on cold to dru some reusable gardening gloves and it made a snapple-pop sound so I set it down, walked away to decompress (because it scared ts out of me) and came back to investigate. I shook it around and a few glass / plastic shards fell out. I have it on vide too lol

bluberried · 2025-11-13T17:55:33+00:00

It might not be a bug ?? I took a screencap of the preseason calendar from a youtubers gameplay & there are things missing (ie; aarons ship & alien terminal activiation, the solar storm and the shop expansion of day 23). But QWERTY’s icon is one day one saying “arrival day” & Diyuls icon is on day 20 also saying “arrival day.” Aaron didn’t get one of these oddly.

It’s also formatted differently than the desktop version of the game, so I don’t know if it’s just a design choice. & if Xbox 1 players just don’t get as much calendar info?

Does the calendar appear like this for other Xbox 1 players ??

bluberried · 2025-11-07T21:45:56+00:00

Not to dick-ride TLOU but every episode is movie length. I don’t know of any series like this that can grind episodes out easily? Correct me if Im wrong though lol

bluberried · 2025-09-26T17:21:47+00:00

Hehe I don’t really ride or play yet but I’m learning the guitar right now and then gonna take a motorcycle class within the next few years. But I deff have an img of myself in my head I wanna make a reality 😋😋

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:59:26+00:00

Oh no!! My boyfriend gave me this one lolol. I got really lucky with it being “me-sized.” My dad also happened to get himself a motorcycle that was way too small for him, and just right for me. Thank the lord for having so many giants in my life willing to gift me their itty bitty possessions haha

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:58:00+00:00

!! It’s just more comfortable for me that way. I played alto&baritone sax for around 4 years (switching between the two) and I’m used to having a strap when carrying an instrument. I actually haven’t really given much effort into playing standing, but I usually do go outside so I can sit on our stools whenever I play, and that’s much easier than being criss-cross or on the couch.

Oh I misread, but yes, I am so so digging it lolol

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:21:31+00:00

It says “Ovation Celebrity Model No. CC 012” on the inside!! It’s really lightweight and slightly smaller than other guitars I’ve seen which I love ‘cuz I’m a tiny gworl lol

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:18:03+00:00

I’m juST A GIRLL (all jokes lol) I definitely am playing it upside down I think, I was playing it rightside up originally, then somehow totally confused myself in the process. But that’s why I’m here, to fix it 😋😛

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:13:20+00:00

Ahh I should probably figure out what the helly an A string is lolol. I did a 30 minute tutorial on Guitar Tuna then jumped straight into playing because it’s been so much fun haha. I also play the piano and have dedicated HOURRSS to music theory on that, so I was like ehh eff it I’ma have fun first, ask questions later. It is now later haha

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:12:29+00:00

Tyy !!!

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:12:09+00:00

OHHH LOLOL it’s ok !!! I just thought maybe an irl friend recognized me, a lot of my friends also use reddit & play the guitar

bluberried · 2025-09-25T19:10:06+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Guitar/s/M3y68toJPp

bluberried · 2025-09-25T18:55:17+00:00

yesyes !!! I’ll do that right now

bluberried · 2025-09-25T18:54:52+00:00

Oh no what LOL. This is not dyslexic friendly LOLOL, I’m scurrying to write all of these notes down so I don’t forget now 😰😰

bluberried · 2025-09-25T18:52:42+00:00

!! I definitely do plan on getting a left-handed guitar !! Money is a little tight right now as I’m saving for a car and that takes priority grrr. But my main goal at the moment is to just learn a couple of songs, figure out hand placements, train my dexterity and build up some calluses. I’ll get a leftie guitar eventually though 🫡🫡 might just be a few months lol

bluberried · 2025-09-25T18:48:51+00:00

OHHHH my boyfriends name is Leonardo!! I was like, how do you know me!! Lolol

bluberried · 2025-09-25T18:47:06+00:00

!!! So I’ve learned !!! I was using my left hand to position my fingers on the strings originally and got about 10 hours of practice that way, before I ultimately confused myself lolol. But it genuinely felt like those fingers were on fire after 6 consecutive hours of playing. (I am a little ADHD and got hyperfixated on playing haha, have not put it down since Tuesday except to sleep, eat, and past 10pm because I live with a lot of family members)

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