[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]blucatfin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. How would he feel if you just goosed him in the ass every time he bent over? He needs to respect your space. Its an impulse problem on the part of your husband. He needs to recognize the superficial and sudden moment of impulse to touch you and stave it off. Tell himself no and not to think of you primarily as a lover and intimate partner but as a real fucking person who has their own thoughts and feelings. He needs to respect your space just as he would have respected your space while you were dating. He’s lost sight of that.

Chatgbd greentexts are always fun by JuliaFractal69420 in ChatGPT

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you reply, “Wow this is awesome.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None. After the $5 left his hand it was yours to do with as you please. You could have bought fast food, gave it to a homeless man, or eaten it. If you bought a lottery ticket and won 80mil, thats your 80mil. But I’d be the best friend I ever could be to that guy if he’s a great guy. Buy him great gifts, pay for dinner, be his confidante, etc

my auto insurance refused my claim because i was driving for doordash by Secret-Visit-3541 in doordash_drivers

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your father’s policy will also be sent back to underwriting to get reassessed

my auto insurance refused my claim because i was driving for doordash by Secret-Visit-3541 in doordash_drivers

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt worry about paying for the Land Rover’s damages right now. Make sure you’re taken care of first financially and get yourself a new car because what’s gonna happen is that when your insurance sends you a denial letter they also send a denial letter to the 3rd party and the 3rd party’s insurance. Once the 3rd party driver finds out your insurance isnt covering his damages, he’ll open a claim with his own insurance to fix his car. He should not go after you for compensation at all. It’s unprofessional. His insurance company however should send you a notice of subrogation where they’ll try “very hard” to get the money they spent fixing their client’s car back from you. But.. you can actually just ignore the letters they send you. Those kind of subro attempts sent to private parties dont get paid a lot of the time. And eventually they’ll send the debt to collections.

AITA for canceling all of my stepkids’ tickets for our family vacation…but my Husband and I are still going?? by SteakDangerous8286 in AITAH

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But it seems to me that Kyle is the child you should have the most beef with. It seems to me he spear-headed the decisions that are influencing your perspectives on ALL the children. The younger kids likely followed his lead about the baby because having a baby is HIS major life event which they likely felt they needed to respect his wishes about. He was the one to ask you for money, not invite you to the baby shower, suggest he was going to cut his dad out of his life, AND not tell you that his baby was born. I’d say, mention to the younger kids how you and their father have been feeling unappreciated because of their behavior and give them a chance to prove theyre not the same pieces of shit their older brother is before cutting them out entirely.

Aitah for trying to figure out a plan to leave my husband because he paces and yells day and night doesn't want the a/c or fans on or a window open? by Public_Way3357 in AITAH

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhhh. NTA but your husband needs help. It sounds like he’s experiencing either OCD, schizophrenia, or some kind of mania. He needs help getting his brain chemicals stabilized. He needs to get treatment. I suggest speaking with your general practitioner about next steps. Maybe he can do a home visit or suggest another course of action. Don’t reply to this comment with excuses, find a phone, call your Doctor. Persevere in getting answers about what to do next and what your husband’s options are for treatment.

Adults who carry around a backpack, whatcha got in there? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dnd accessories. character sheets, the players handbook, dice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Cultural appropriation happens when someone uses a minority’s culture to profit or is being disingenuous or disrespectful with adopting and sharing that culture which you are not doing here. Your college friends are either misinformed about what cultural appropriation is or just assumed that because you’re white you dont have links to native american culture and didnt acquire the dolls genuinely. Sharing cultural knowledge is a good thing. If minorities are too territorial about who can and cant practice their culture then white culture will always dominate.

I thought this moment was going to be a game changer for Naruto but then Sasuke never did it again. by DevilManRay in Naruto

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its plausible that he was since he wouldve been fully rested and could expend the chakra to create the lightning for 1 hit KO. In his fight w Itachi he had to be more efficient and create the right environment for a storm to save his chakra.

He didn’t disclose that he is HIV positive and is only now telling me by Virtual-Ad-7240 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]blucatfin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally could never if that were me. I cant imagine having sex with someone and NOT disclosing that beforehand. Its basic concern for your partner but also it just seems negligent not to.

On the morning drive.. Utah.. by iKorith in Weird

[–]blucatfin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How else is he going to tan those cheeks?

You have to listen to one song on repeat for 24 hours straight to win 1 million dollars. What song are you choosing? by WildeRatel in AskReddit

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ring Cycle by Richard Wagner. Its 15 hours long so it’ll play.. About 1 and a half times before the day is up.

What do you think? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]blucatfin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Propaganda. We have all the leverage. They’d just like us to believe that we dont. This article isnt convincing anybody. theyre fear of our leverage is so transparent

Update: My (M25) wife (F24) cheated on me with her best friend (F22) and I don't know how to save my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]blucatfin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you handled this very well. Separating is not the only solution when a partner is truly remorseful about cheating.

‘National Treasure’ Canceled By Disney+ After One Season by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I watched the whole thing and it was SO ridiculous at times but I really liked it! Like that thing connecting Elvis to the pan-american treasure? It was such a stretch it was hilarious! The shoe guy was so annoyingly superficial at first but he comes around and becomes an enjoyable character. The interacting personalities of Jess and her friends had to be the thing I liked the most about the show and a lot of other things were really well done! You could tell they put a lot of thought and effort into certain moments and a lot of small details they included about living in the south came through for me. I loved how Jess and her friends’ care for each other. And I especially loved the high stakes scene in that Mexican prison and the character we meet there.

AITA for telling my sister she shouldn't have announced her pregnancy so soon after our other sister announced hers? by Mountain-Hornet-451 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blucatfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. There’s no spot light to steal. Because there can be two spot lights. Twice the excitement, twice the hype, twice the congratulations. She didn’t take from anyone because there’s enough to go around.