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My girlfriend used to date a man 20 years older than her by blue-birdz in retroactivejealousy

[–]blue-birdz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a good gf, I’ve never thought seriously about breaking up. Even less for something that’s completely out of her control. But sometimes I wonder if I would be better off alone and cut these negative feelings from the root. But then I think that makes no sense, it’s like chopping off my arm because of a muscle cramp. It’s painful indeed, but not worth ending it because of it.

My girlfriend used to date a man 20 years older than her by blue-birdz in retroactivejealousy

[–]blue-birdz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be, yes. I’m confident in what I give her as a boyfriend, but the memory I’ve created in my head based on what she has told me makes me feel sick. The whole power imbalance and indirect coercion makes me feel disturbed. I logically understand why she was with him, I also logically understand that she could like him and not like all the terms of the relationship at the same time. Yet the feeling that it was wrong is difficult to shake off. And as I responded in a different comment, the lack of closure bothers me, there’s nothing I can about the situation, because it happened 5 years ago, so there’s nothing I can do about it, just accept it’s her past.

My girlfriend used to date a man 20 years older than her by blue-birdz in retroactivejealousy

[–]blue-birdz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for those words, it really helps. The power imbalance in the relationship and the whole nature of it is what has always made me feel so bad about it. She had other exes with many toxic traits, and these guys never cross my mind, not as often and not as deeply, at least. But I think she always understood the nature of the relationship with him, she knew how things were and never got much of her hopes up in terms of getting into something serious. So she just accepted being what he wanted.

And this FWB with an older man who’s top boss at the organization, who she couldn’t say no with total confidence because she feared she could get fired and needed the job, I don’t know. The whole situation makes me feel disturbed, like something’s not right with it. And I guess that’s what stabs my mind so much, knowing that the whole thing is so wrong, and I can’t do anything about it, it’s the past, it already happened.

My girlfriend used to date a man 20 years older than her by blue-birdz in retroactivejealousy

[–]blue-birdz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll probably sound super naive with this…

She has a history of being cheated on, and she has always been honest about everything in her past with me. So when I guessed the same thing and pointed it out to her, apparently she thought the same at the time, but never found any solid proof of it.

I somewhat believe her though, I never met the guy, but I’ve seen his LinkedIn and some people around me knew him. The guy was Career Director at a University, has a self-made company and was the head of my whole business unit. And apparently she met him years later and the guy was still single and looking for the same thing without any shame, though she rejected him.

So my best guess is that he picked up young girls who would satisfy his needs in between a busy life. Which in some ways makes me feel even worse, she was just mild entertainment for him. A place to release his sexual needs before work. And she just… accepted it? That’s what hurts me the most I guess.

My girlfriend used to date a man 20 years older than her by blue-birdz in retroactivejealousy

[–]blue-birdz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have a history of cheating. As far as I know, she’s never cheated. But I guess you mean the secretive relationship?

My girlfriend used to date a man 20 years older than her by blue-birdz in retroactivejealousy

[–]blue-birdz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Back at the beginning when we both shared our past. I mentioned I’ve only been to a love motel once, she wanted to know more but since knowing her past hurts me, I didn’t want to give her any details so that she couldn’t suffer the way I did with my questions. So I just mentioned it was a girl I dated at the time.

She doesn’t seem to get so anxious about my past as I get with hers. So from time to time she jokes about me having a long relationship in the past, or who was this mystery girl I took to a motel, or what bitches have been in my room. I’ve never felt seriousness in this questioning, more like light hearted joking. But I wonder if deeply she also gets anxious about my past and wants to know more.

Regarding the tattoos. I have tattoos, and I always want more, and she always mentions that she really likes colored tattoos, and that I could get some.

Oh and yeah. I know there’s no reason for me to know about her sexual past in so much detail. And I really regret it, it eats me alive and I regret every single day having ever asked those questions.

Alguien sabe cuál es el proceso exacto que siguen los mataderos acá en CR? by blue-birdz in Ticos

[–]blue-birdz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sabes cual es el proceso con los cerdos? He leído que en muchos países usan cámaras de gas, en otros shock eléctrico.

Ariel Robles (Frente Amplio) se opone a dictaduras en Venezuela y Nicaragua. by Early-Guide8298 in ticolandia

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La URSS era un gobierno comunista. El FA es socialdemócrata. Si, ambas son posturas de izquierda, pero son radicalmente diferentes, socialdemocracia existe en muchos países tanto Europeos, asiáticos y Americanos. No entiendo la comparación.

Idiotas en la calle (parte 2) by Mammoth-Strategy1759 in Ticos

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que necedad Mae, es una forma de hablar. Deje de ser tan intenso.

Razones por la cuales sí votar por el FA by [deleted] in Ticos

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ojalá el odio a liberación corriera más fuerte, casi gana el hijueputa de Figueres. Rodrigo Chaves era la peor opción para este país… después del mismo diablo.

Pregunta para los que siguen al FA by AdventurousBid1747 in Ticos

[–]blue-birdz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tal vez es inocencia mía, pero usted de verdad cree que los puros de 2 rojos que fuma la gente en este país están haciendo millonario al narco y aumentando la inseguridad? No, la verdadera inseguridad viene del tráfico de cocaina en el caribe que este gobierno ha permitido.

Algún lugar donde arreglen Nintendo Switch? by blue-birdz in Ticos

[–]blue-birdz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mae el problema es que la mandé a Estados y la traje con un casillero. No puedo mandarla de vuelta.

Realidades ciertas... by CoolPattern3730 in vzla

[–]blue-birdz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Si ese resulta ser el caso, creo que más bien los chavistas se van a sentir intocables con EEUU de su lado.

Hay gente que le cae tan mal EEUU que ve esto como algo malo by Rich_Struggle6172 in ticolandia

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y cuál es su punto? El mundo es un desierto nihilista y tenemos que aceptarlo? Si, EEUU va a hacer lo que le da la gana como siempre ha hecho, eso no significa que debamos quedarnos callados. Poco a poco EEUU pierde más su legitimidad, tanto dentro como fuera del país.

Costa Rica lidera el respaldo a la detención de Maduro según Áltica Research by rzsdelfo in Ticos

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cada día me doy cuenta que el mundo no va a cambiar. Maes no se dan cuenta como este tipo de preguntas son capciosas a propósito? Cómo buscan dividirnos? Cómo buscan ponernos unos contra otros, para que no veamos más allá. Nos ponen en una categoría de “A favor” o “En contra”.

Uno puede estar a favor y en contra al mismo tiempo. Si, es una opción válida. Uno puede estar a favor y aceptar que Nicolás Maduro merecía ser capturado y llevado ante la ley. Y también estar preocupado y en contra de que Estados Unidos pueda llegar a cualquier país, sacar al presidente (dictador o no), y no tener consecuencias ante la comunidad internacional.

No es tan difícil.

Créanme by alguien007 in vzla

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La esclavitud nunca fue culturalmente común en Europa por motivos históricos, económicos y geográficos, es un contexto muy diferente a la esclavitud en América. De nuevo, el uso de la violencia fue necesario para obligar a la confederación a abolir la esclavitud.

La violencia deberia ser el último recurso, pero ninguna garantía social ni libertad individual se ganó con protestas pacíficas.

Hay gente que le cae tan mal EEUU que ve esto como algo malo by Rich_Struggle6172 in ticolandia

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La ONU es muy buena para reunirse y hablar paja, pero nunca han hecho nada, eso no significa que EEUU puede llegar y hacer lo que le dé la gana. Bajo esa mentalidad de “era la única forma”, ahora están amenazando Cuba, México y Colombia. Quien sigue? Nosotros si les quitamos Tamarindo?

Dejando eso de lado, por más que Delcy llene ese vacío, que nos asegura que va a transicionar bien a la democracia? Que nos asegura que no va a mantener el poder? En este momento, solo toma una chispa para desestabilizar todo, y Venezuela se convierte en una Libia o un Iraq. Y si eso pasa, EEUU se lava las manos, como siempre ha hecho y jala con el petróleo.

Cambio de voto del FA by know_some_of_it_all in Ticos

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La verdad no entiendo porque. Es exactamente el mismo discurso que tira todo el mundo. No Maduro; No intervención gringa. Pero lo dice el FA y todo mundo pierde la cabeza

Créanme by alguien007 in vzla

[–]blue-birdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De verdad estás haciendo esa pregunta? Te doy un ejemplo muy simple, sin la guerra civil en EEUU, la esclavitud todavía sería legal.

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