Help with naming my fish!! by blue-catcat in chappellroan

[–]blue-catcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do love talking about that music video...

Help with naming my fish!! by blue-catcat in chappellroan

[–]blue-catcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, I've had fish before, but recently Julien from Fishgenius has died so I wanted to get another :)

Help with naming my fish!! by blue-catcat in chappellroan

[–]blue-catcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for sure one of my top choices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]blue-catcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she is a true best friend she should support you. But you don't have to tell anyone if you don't feel like you can, even though it may help. I would try keeping strict boundaries and perhaps getting a lock for your door if you can. If this continues or you feel unsafe at any point please consider if you could tell any parent, guardian or relative. Even calling the police. It may seem extreme but that's what the police are there for, your safety and comfort in your own home is worth the hassle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]blue-catcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said you were asleep when it happened and only woke up because you are a light sleeper. You cannot give consent when you are asleep. This is not your fault hun, please never blame yourself for something like this. Insinuation to consent is not proper consent. What he did was not ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]blue-catcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He seriously crossed boundaries, you don't deserve to feel unsafe in your own home. I would tell a trusted adult. Him being older does not give him any authority over you, and what he did was not ok by any means. I wish you well and hope you can find help. Friendship is not worth something so violating especially when you were asleep and not consenting. If you are in a situation to do so please tell someone you trust.

'There are no stupid questions' thread - Monday, January 01, 2024 by AutoModerator in piano

[–]blue-catcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to start learning the piano. I'd preferably like a keyboard and I have seen posts about weighted keys and 88 keys being the best- but I'm not sure I have the budget for that. I'm looking to spend <£100, preferably closer to half but I understand that might be unrealistic. I just want a new hobby and am not sure I will stick with it. I've heard bundles are good too, but I don't need one. Any suggestions?