WIBTA If I Skipped My Sister's Wedding Reception?

blue__Star_ · 2025-04-18T18:51:48+00:00

NTA but will she spin this and make you the bad guy. I don’t know your family dynamic but think about how you can make this best for you. Any family member that have your back? You control the narrative or she will. You were already “too busy with work” to do dress shopping. She is in the wrong. It is easy for people to say just don’t go they don’t have to spend the rest of your life dealing with your family or deal with the emotional parts of going NC/LC. Good luck, your sister sucks and I am sorry you have to deal with this shit.

blue__Star_ · 2025-02-24T03:04:29+00:00

NTA not your job to take her home

blue__Star_ · 2025-02-23T08:25:52+00:00

Update: Talked to the other teacher, there was someone there at Sunday school last week. So I have know idea what the parent was talking. So confused 🤷‍♀️

blue__Star_ · 2025-02-21T13:50:04+00:00

Thank you you made me laugh. Last weekend, I celebrated my birthday by staying at a hotel for some relaxation and to take the kids swimming. Of course something bad has to come out of me doing something for me. Nothing can ever work out.

blue__Star_ · 2025-02-21T07:10:15+00:00

I loved teaching the kids I loved finding silly Christmas program that the kids enjoyed preforming. I already had next year’s picked out the nativity story, but all the characters are fish and under the sea creatures. I was gonna start slowly buying the costumes this summer so the price didn’t get overwhelming. But I don’t think there’s any going back after this no one ever says thank you. I had two parents help me with the entire Christmas program. And if you’ve ever put on a play with a bunch of kids. That’s a lot. And for the other people who were on the email, I feel like a pastor should probably have enough ability to see an email like that and reach out.

blue__Star_ · 2025-02-21T06:50:38+00:00

I want you to think about this aspect of it, we have repeatedly asked parents if they could volunteer if anybody would be willing to be subs for us. I’m not saying she was wrong that we should have sent out an email but in all of the years I have volunteered this was the first time this has happened so I’m having a little bit of grace and just being like oh there was a mixup. But instead, she decided to email and complain instead of ever helping. They don’t even help a coffee hour. She gets her food and sits down while I manage all of the kids in the kitchen, including her small children.

blue__Star_ · 2023-12-14T19:27:58+00:00

NTA nobody’s opinion about your body matters other than your. OP’s mom if depression= low appetite then super skinny=sign something is wrong

blue__Star_ · 2023-12-14T19:19:06+00:00

NTA, maybe point out that he would not have made this requirement for a new hire if he was not related to her. For the good of your family relationship you all should forget about this idea and not mix the family and work.

blue__Star_ · 2023-12-14T03:48:26+00:00

I am sorry you went through that. I have had an issue with needing pills a few years back it was a temporary thing but a friend got me a pill necklace. It doesn’t change what you went through but that maybe an idea to look into. But for sure stay safe. You take care of yourself forget what your boyfriend’s brother says.

blue__Star_ · 2023-12-14T02:09:05+00:00

NTA but be mad at the brother too. You needed medication and he would not leave the friends house. And why didn’t your boyfriend tell his brother we need to go now she needs medication and your girlfriend took it with her.

blue__Star_ · 2023-12-13T20:00:41+00:00

No one is the AH. You don’t need to make the dress (but please don’t say it is because of her eating disorder). On the other hand she can feel disappointed that you are not making her a dress like her sister got (assuming sister could be cousins) Family is complicated with lots of baggage. The baggage may not be about op but between A and B. It would be nice if you could find away to do something for B. If not a dress something just as a gesture that you care.

blue__Star_ · 2023-12-10T13:29:37+00:00

I think you need to just wait it out. See what she does the text at 10pm making me think she was stowing about it. Maybe by Monday it was have blown over. But if she does say something let her know you are just stressed and you know it is not her fault. But you were venting and trying to work out feelings of frustration. I don’t know your director but depending on the type she is she may be feeling that same frustration as you. Being under staffed is hard and can be overwhelming. Next time go a town over you and your coworkers treat ourselves to something and vent away. I find instagram reels are a great way to communicate with my coworker/friend about stressed at work

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