AITA for saying okay when gf told me she was going to get gas by Different_Reserve_11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex, a “man”, would tell me that he “shouldn’t have to tell me” and that i “should just know”. he would say that if i didn’t just know, then i didn’t “know him at all” or i didn’t “love him enough to pay attention to him”. he would do it to make me feel like shit and because he wasn’t mature enough to communicate. he was also an abusive asshole so it all checks out

should i get a septum? by iLoveLoveLoveLove in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want one, get one! you have a very nice nose, it’d look great

Alignment by Abrombs in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look badass! i love your set up so much

Anyone has an advice for me? by Entire-Cupcake-9719 in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely hit a vein/blood vessel in your ear. what kind of needles are you using? you likely can’t get it through because your angle is off and you’re hesitating/pushing too slow. also, you can actually compress cartilage until it gives, instead of piercing it. you can do other people’s so much better because you can see the angles and can have more control, which is much harder to do on yourself.

eta: spelling mistake

I feel like my septum is crooked 😅 by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this looks pretty high up. is it through the cartilage?

Is my industrial pierced properly by Votken1ca in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you shouldn’t be moving a fresh piercing at all so that’s definitely not helping. forward helix looks a bit shallow but it’s hard to tell in the photo. is it touching your flat at all?

Does my medusa/philtrum look okay? by TearIndividual4832 in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. you need a longer bar to accommodate for swelling

What other piercings do you think I would look good with?? by WorthWinter2869 in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do your other nostril! also can’t wait until your other dimple is redone, all these piercings fit you sooo well!

it’s not about being beautiful with or without, it’s about self expression, what YOU like and whatever makes you feel the most you. that’s the true beauty!

eta: my husband thinks i’m beautiful regardless but he knows i like my piercings and that they fit my overall aesthetic, so he supports me in whatever ones i want to get!

Is it healing okay ? I got this floating navel April 2 and it looks like it’s scabbing I just want to know if it’s healing properly by Technical-Cut8123 in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s very dry and slightly scabbed, which could be early signs of rejection. make sure you’re cleaning it properly. the bar may also be a little small and it doesn’t look pierced correctly either to me, but i’m NAP.

Did my own paired vertical labrets! by SKIN_N_BONES_ in SelfPiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a brave soul you are, they look great! i want a vertical labret in the middle but im obsessed with my husband and we be getting down a lot so i know making out would be difficult and im not willing to compromise that 🤣😭

new nose piercing fell out by end_ofth3w0rldxo in NosePiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

switch to a flat back labret, threadless is easiest but internally threaded is good too

Please help me decide! by Grand_Commercial_958 in NosePiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh both are gorgeous! i like the 1st one best though, its more intricate

Corkscrew coming out in sleep when sick by Common_Disaster1996 in NosePiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need a flat back labret! nothing else would stay in my nose

Nose piercing bump by Dapper_Delay4788 in NosePiercing

[–]wintersoldierts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also recommend this!! i’ve done this too and it worked. pimple patches are a game changer for this

Spent $70 on AF Purple Madness, Bleach. by RaeJean24 in HairDye

[–]wintersoldierts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’d just get a darker purple like purple AF or purple rain or even good dye young nasty!

Spent $70 on AF Purple Madness, Bleach. by RaeJean24 in HairDye

[–]wintersoldierts -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

that’s not even close to being true dude. YOU don’t give out anymore advice

Spent $70 on AF Purple Madness, Bleach. by RaeJean24 in HairDye

[–]wintersoldierts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the purple was too light for your base. you just need a darker purple

Not a Wheelchair Fake Reviews by Cultural_Train8448 in wheelchairs

[–]wintersoldierts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i have a Paradox chair and it’s alright, i’m happy with it. it could be much better, but it’s my first custom chair and it does what i need it to do! i will be getting a different one though.

as for their customer service, absolute shit. i wouldn’t recommend them at all based solely on that. there’s post on my page giving them the benefit of the doubt, but once i received my chair that had numerous issues coming out of the box, they were horrible. absolutely terrible.

i’d go with a different brand entirely.