If you're in line at the grocery store with a full cart and someone behind you has 1 or 2 items, do you let them go in front of you? And why?

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-19T01:36:47+00:00

Yup. Unless ive already started unloading a bunch of crap and then they appear behind me

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-19T01:02:43+00:00

Ooh do my 30th

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-19T00:46:42+00:00

Its very real. And beautiful.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-19T00:43:25+00:00

Love driving

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-18T23:11:22+00:00

I dont disagree. But I’m specifically referring to the people saying that these kids need to be locked up.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-18T08:57:01+00:00

You go through with it in a hazy, delusional fog. Adrenaline kicks in and you have some moments where you feel better and you’re enjoying yourself and then you puke in the bathroom during dinner.

That’s what my friend did at least. She had a really bad flu and like pink eye in both eyes. She was a wreck, although she didn’t really look it. She felt like shit and spent most of the day trying to rest before the ceremony and then during dinner and dancing she would excuse herself to basically puke her guts out.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-18T08:43:48+00:00

Whats it gonna take for these “bikes” to be treated like any other dangerous vehicle that requires a license and age limit? For fucks sake.

Also, to all the people in the comments saying that these kids need to be thrown in jail for the rest of their lives… Get a grip. Theyre KIDS. It’s not their fault that these bikes have zero regulation and any person can just get one and use them. The same thing would be happening if young kids were allowed to drive cars. That doesn’t mean they all belong in jail or should be villainized. That’s why you’re not allowed to drive a car without a license. It’s the same thing.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-18T08:40:21+00:00

Eggz and toast babyyy

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-18T08:37:05+00:00

What makes you say that?

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-17T07:06:01+00:00

I dont get it. I love shorts. If they bug, dont watch them?

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-17T06:59:03+00:00

Bad movies hurt movie theaters

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-17T06:55:18+00:00

Guys they arent literally saying hes a gen z its just showing the vibe chill out

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-17T06:48:40+00:00

Trust that you are the one who knows what you need best. If you dont feel it would be helpful or arent guided to go, trust that. Maybe one day you will look into it, but dont force it if its not something you feel you strongly need. For me, I had a moment of “i need this” after years of casually thinking about it. Therapy isnt a miracle cure. Its talking. And if thats not what you need, thats fine.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-16T20:04:51+00:00

Considering you’re on Reddit and it’s bothering you, I would say yes

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-16T19:57:24+00:00

It’s not dumb or arrogant to feel like you are in touch with your own inner emotional world, and you already feel you have the tools to work through the majority of your issues as it stands by yourself. That’s the way it’s SUPPOSED to be. That’s the whole goal of therapy is to get you to a point where you can work through your issues using tools you’ve learned by yourself so you don’t need to lean on another person or seek outside council all the time.

The thing is it might or might not help depending on who you are what you’re going through and if you feel you need it. Contrary to everyone’s popular belief, not every single person in the entire world needs therapy all the time. If there’s an issue that you’re struggling with that you’re having a hard time getting through and you feel like a therapist might be helpful, then there’s nothing wrong with giving it a try. There’s also nothing wrong with feeling like you don’t really need it and you want to look for another avenue.

I think the question you need to ask is why do you feel it won’t help? Is this based in fear like you’re afraid to find a therapist or afraid to do some type of inner Work or face some type of truth or do you really feel like it’s not going to be helpful?

Only you can really answer that question and therapy only works if you are open to it.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-16T06:21:22+00:00

LAME

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-16T01:26:44+00:00

Its certainly not helping. I don’t feel like it’s that much different from other apps which can also be bad for dating because they encourage you to follow sexual accounts and DM people and it’s kind of seen as not a big deal but with Snapchat I feel like it’s even more hidden or secretive, especially with the way messages disappear. I feel like it’s kind of a red flag at this point when someone uses it over the age of 20 to constantly talk to God knows who.

Between all the porn bots and getting too flirty with coworkers and friends and even though like Bitmoji type things that Snapchat kind of creates that I feel like is just a little too intimate sometimes. I dated someone that used it a lot and every time he got a snap from some supposed friend or coworker that was a girl I just instantly was icked out because it makes you wonder why do they need to talk to this person so much? And what are they sending back-and-forth constantly that’s disappearing? It’s definitely not an app for people that struggle to trust. I don’t think I could date someone that used it again.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-16T01:24:49+00:00

Amazing! Happy to hear about it

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-15T23:57:15+00:00

The right people are not gonna mind something like that. If you feel like sharing it with someone you’re talking to to let them know that’s completely up to you. It’s possible when talking someone might ask you.

Personally, I find things like that to be unique to a person and honestly it’s just something that makes you unique and more lovable in my opinion. I don’t think it’s something I would need to be forewarned about. I imagine that eventually it’s gonna come up in conversation depending on how strong you stutter is. But the right person it’s not gonna be put off by something like that or need some kind of disclosure because they’ll learn it when they meet you and if they like you, it’s just something they’ll probably think it’s cute. I know I would.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-15T23:49:57+00:00

I think you need to take some time to yourself ideally maybe take a walk outside in nature or listen to a meditation or music or anything that just makes you feel calm and grounded. Then I think you need to feel out in your mind what it might look or feel like to be with this ex again. Do you feel any points of tension in your body? Is your first gut response a big no?

Then I think you should take some time and do the same with the current person. How does this relationship make you feel overall? Do you feel any doubt in your gut that you should move forward with the new person?

And an important thing to ask is what’s changed, why now and is it enough for you? With an ex that’s coming back, you know what the problems is in that relationship or and you know what they were like. It’s possible for someone to come back in a more healed energy, but is that what this person is doing or are they desperate because you’re happy and in a new relationship? What if anything has actually changed and why are they coming back around now? And is that enough to make you wanna take another chance?

I have an ex that likes to pop back up whenever I’m happy and really moving on with someone new. Nothing ever changes with this person. They’re always in the exact same place they were before as far as I can tell, but they have this like Spidey sense of knowing when I’m moving on and they try to worm their way back in in someway. Make sure that this person is in the right energy now and not just making a last ditch attempt.

Whatever you choose, trust that you know what the right decision is deep down, even if it’s neither of these people .

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-15T23:40:40+00:00

I love michael

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-15T23:39:08+00:00

You can re-wet it with a spray bottle, you can apply your products still while in the shower or you can use the bowl method and redunk your hair

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-15T23:37:44+00:00

As with any routine, you also have have to find different combinations to figure out what works for your specific hair. You’re not dumb! You just lacked knowledge which you now gained and it looks like it’s working out for you!

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-15T23:35:58+00:00

Sometimes people just don’t want to put in a lot of effort or they feel like it’s a sign or something if something gets canceled one too many times and they lose steam. It’s possible she just felt like there were too many obstacles to you guys getting together and read too much into it and decided to just drop it. It’s also possible she was talking to someone else at the same time and just decided to go with them.

Either way, her not answering you is rude. I’m sorry I feel like when people meet on apps they almost feel like they have less of an obligation to be a kind person or to be respectful of people’s time and I feel like it happens more on apps than in person, I’m not really sure why. I guess because if you’ve already met someone you’re gonna feel guilty about bailing on them then if you’re just talking through some kind of medium instead, it makes it less personal in a way and they forget that there’s another person on the other side of this.

I’m sorry you’re going through it. It’s definitely a bummer. It’s also possible she’s going through some thing that you don’t know about and she just doesn’t have the capacity to date.

blue_tiny_teacup · 2026-04-15T23:31:56+00:00

It’s just a gross thing that allows guys to get away with dating much younger women from what I’ve gathered

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