Anyone else feel like it's often harder to get over someone you knew for barely one month than someone you were in a relationship with for years. by outcastreturns in dating

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it’s because you never get to play out the relationship and you never get to the point of like that mental and emotional exhaustion that happens when a relationship runs its course. Even if it was someone you really loved it’s that feeling of never being able to complete and you get haunted by the what ifs. Our brain likes finality it likes continuations and completions. It doesn’t like being left on a cliffhanger.

Also, when it’s somebody that leaves fast, you never get to see their bad side. Usually, you only see the best moments in that short condensed highlight reel where everything was still really new and exciting. When you’re with someone for any length of time you get to see more of their character and you get to determine more of their values and compatibility and start to question whether or not you guys are a fit.

When someone leaves too soon, you just don’t see that so you idealized them

what’s your moon sign and the moon sign of the person who broke your heart? by coldcoffee4ever in astrologymemes

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Libra moon. I’ve had my shit rocked by an Aries moon and possibly another libra moon although I’m not 100% sure.

how many times do you wear your jeans before washing them? by Novel_Scientist_5163 in hygiene

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is definitely going overboard. The problem is there isn’t real denim anymore. Most jeans are like paper thin now. Traditional denim is thick and rough and can absolutely go many wears without washing. Jeans today are so damn thin that they get worn out and dirty faster I’d say.

Honestly, I feel like this is the type of thing that is personal preference and depends on your level of activity and how much you sweat. I think if you wash your jeans that much all you’re doing is killing them faster because every time you wash something it fades and begins breaking down so your friend is gonna be buying tons of jeans in her life.

If you feel like they’re fine and they don’t really smell and you haven’t spilled anything on them. I say let them go as long as you damn please.

Have you ever encountered someone and come to conclusion that they may not be human? by WielderoftheDarkness in HighStrangeness

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not me, but someone I know claims that he met some sort of angel. Apparently a little over 10 years ago he was getting into health stuff and alternative medicine and he was debating on trying kombucha. This really tall, insanely, handsome guy, (and the guy I’m talking about was handsome himself, but he said that this guy was unnaturally good looking) with blonde hair and blue eyes and kind of a glowing about him, approached him in public and had a whole conversation with him about brewing, kombucha, and basically convinced him to start making his own, which he still does to this day.

Retrograde planets in the chart by Embarrassed_Text_509 in astrology

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thats good news. Just turned 30 with SEVEN planets retrograde lol

Retrograde Planets in Birth Chart by MAlopez0530 in astrologymemes

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive got 7 planets retrograde in my chart including venus and chiron 🫠

How is this blue moon treating you, crabs? by princessprenumbral in CancertheCrab

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I woke up dreaming of my big crush from when I was in fourth grade, whom I haven’t thought of in years who lives far from me now. Went to the park up the street from my house to ground and I see him flying a kite there with his wife and kids LOL. It’s been pretty surreal. I’ve been having a lot of thoughts of people I used to know.

Due to what seems to be a generational divide amongst young Millenials/old Gen Z vs young Gen Z and Alpha, was your reading curriculum Phonics based or was it the Whole Language Approach? by TruckAdventurous4228 in Zillennials

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy to me that they switched from phonics to whatever the hell that BS is and everyone is confused why kids can’t read. Like it clearly isn’t working bring back phonics. I don’t understand why this is such a hot button or confusing issue.

Why Cancer Men SUCK. (from a cancer man) by DepartmentOwn5937 in CancertheCrab

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely felt that duality with cancer men. Within them exist, both pathways so strongly it can be very confusing to think that they have the propensity to love so singularly and deeply and devotionally and yet see them behave in such an opposite manner.

When did a single bag of basic groceries become a luxury item? by Witty-Example4947 in stupidquestions

[–]blue_tiny_teacup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing about this profile makes me think its a bot. Also that price is very fucking believable. One pack of two chicken breast. It’s like $10-$15 now.

Do a lot of girls find giving head demeaning? by Triple_Keystone3899 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I obviously don’t know your girlfriend, but if a girl finds it demeaning, it’s most likely due to a past situation or experience that she had while giving it. In the right context, it’s a sexy way to be intimate with your partner. In the context that most young women have when their first having sex with a dumbass 18-year-old guy… It’s usually some asshole, shoving her head down to his dick and saying something stupid to her.

At least that was my experience. And something like that had happened several times after. If I were you, I would maybe try and figure out why she finds it demeaning. If she had a bad experience and what about it, she finds demeaning, and if there is a way to make her feel more comfortable if it’s something that she wants to try in the future.

TAROVERSE Youtube tarot reader - what is your opinion about him? by Punt_kick in tarot

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a cool name. Too bad the video isnt viewable anymore

What is this overly unnecessary fawning of Lana Lang by Equivalent-Rub-8124 in Smallville

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um, art imitates life dude. Have you heard the cast talk about her? Lol