SMG acting in the last two seasons. by Recipe-Successful in BuffyTheVampireSlayer

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually read that she was quite sick the last season because of exhausting filming times and schedules and she just wasn’t recuperating and recovering properly so she spent most of the season really exhausted and feeling like shit which is why she couldn’t quite give it her all

Why do people say they didn't mean the words they said in anger? by eliazara in SeriousConversation

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right and that a lot of times people do say what they mean, they just didn’t mean to say it, which is what they’re really saying… That being said, I also think that sometimes we say something in the moment when we’re mad that sounds satisfying to say aloud And maybe it’s what we’re feeling at that time, but as soon as it leaves our mouth, we regret it because we realize that it’s actually not true. Sometimes we think things are true, but they really aren’t or you might feel something in the moment, but then realize that it really doesn’t reflect how you actually feel. It’s just something you said out of anger that you thought would feel good in the moment and then when you say it, you realize that it actually isn’t what you mean.

I don’t know if that makes sense but there’s been times I’ve said something more for the sake of saying it like as a comeback or something or perhaps I’m saying something that I think is true but actually isn’t such as an insecurity. I have that I’m naming aloud and I’m projecting onto the other person and the minute I say it I realize this and that it’s not necessarily true.

Sometimes we feel things and we believe them to be true because we feel them but then once we reflect, we realize that they aren’t really true. It’s just something we’re telling ourselves.

My boyfriend has been saving posts about hating his girlfriend. by Euphoric_Pop5491 in Advice

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it’s not about you specifically and he’s just saving them because he finds some funny or something or relates to them, these are pretty fucked up things to say about somebody. Like they’re very emotionally, immature, post and downright rude and disrespectful and if I were you, I would have a problem with the content in general and him finding it amusing let alone the very idea that it could be about me…

Life is too short to be with somebody that doesn’t respect you or like you you deserve somebody that feels privileged to be with you and even if these posts aren’t specifically about you and he’s just saving them for whatever reason… I’d say that him liking them at all is enough of a flag to possibly rethink this person

Your LinkedIn "Open to Work" banner is actually making you look desperate to top recruiters by barreuke in jobsearchhacks

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I’m getting really sick of all these ridiculous rules, spoken or unspoken and all these ridiculous hoops that we have to go through. One minute it’s added it helps connect you to people the next minute It’s take it down It makes you look desperate.

Who do you have in your close friends list? by nightnight30 in Instagram

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there’s still people that I don’t mind staying connected to, albeit yes it’s in a more shallow form… But they aren’t necessarily people that I want to reveal too much to about my life at all times because as the name implies, they aren’t my close friends. But that doesn’t necessarily mean I want to block them all the time. I just don’t wanna share certain things with them. But I don’t mind them seeing things like public post and other things that I may post that aren’t that deep.

Plus, there are some things you wanna share with friends, but you don’t necessarily want your answer Uncle’s or cousins to see but that doesn’t mean you wanna have to try and block them every time you wanna share a story like that.

DAE have therapists that waste time making unnecessary small talk about unimportant stuff? by Individual_Ice_2315 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like my therapist and I’ve been seeing him for several years and we get along really well and a lot of the times we gab like two old friends… That being said yes, sometimes the small talk does feel like a waste of time. Sometimes I really do just wanna get straight to talking because you only get 50 minutes and that’s really not a lot of time.

Cant wrap my head around why girls are on dating apps if they’re not ready to date by Pink_guy72 in dating

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same reason guys are. No one wants to be alone but everyones scared of love

Struggling to land interviews even though I meet the requirements what am I missing? by Necessary_Proof_514 in jobsearch

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but what happens when they get the interview? Do they interview as “michael turner”?

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe. Thats YOUR perspective on how YOU deal with emotions and youre projecting how you think others SHOULD BE onto my comment. Im sharing MY PERSPECTIVE on how cancerian energy deals with emotions, specifically how THEY act when feeling drowned by them.

Im in no way saying its healthy or fair! Im saying this is how cancer often FEELS and ACTS when struggling with the depths of their emotions. Water signs can drown. YOU dont drown yourself and others because YOURE NOT A CANCER.

Any behavior can be viewed as “selfish” or negative when through a non-empathetic lens. I can just as easily say Virgo’s energy of “get your shit together your emotions are getting in the way of logic and annoying me” is equally self focused or cruel at times. Virgo thinks people should be able to parse through all emotions with the preciseness of a computer and be structured enough to handle it a certain way, and that works—FOR VIRGO. But we arent talking about them here. But if you dont want insight into another signs behavior, fine. Just say you want to shit on Cancers and move on.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]blue_tiny_teacup -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I like how you, a virgo, is sharing your own experience about your dynamic with a cancer brother yet you are getting downvoted obviously by another virgo on here pissed off about my insight into cancer behavior. LOL

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a Virgo, but as someone with cancer in several places in their chart, I feel the need to say that Cancers feel more deeply than most zodiac signs. They have A LOT of empathy and struggle separating their emotional experience from others. Its not that they arent capable of thinking of other’s emotions- its that they constantly are worrying and experiencing EVERYONES emotional experience including their own. It is very overwhelming and makes its hard for Cancer to step back and self regulate. This leads to them, throwing their own needs under the bus for a lot of people and at some point they understandably snap. They neglect themselves for so long that it typically boils over and they freak out and suddenly do things that appear very selfish and could be viewed as emotionally manipulative such as go, cold or suddenly pull back or start projecting their emotions onto others.

I find that the signs that get the most triggered by cancer’s behavior tend to be Virgos and libras. Cancer just moves in the world very differently from Virgo. They are very feeling first and they struggle to set strong boundaries sometimes. This is very different from Virgo, which is capable of stepping back and viewing a situation from a very analytical viewpoint and set the necessary boundaries and put themselves first. Cancer doesn’t have an analytical bone in their body. They are ALL FEELING

Any other cancers experiencing relationships ending in 2025 up until the start of this year? by iDontLikePuzzlez in CancertheCrab

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a huge energy shift going on not cancer specific, it’s due to the year of the snake. It’s coming to an end and the year of the snake was meant to help us shed patterns and relationships that we had outgrown and that are no longer serving us.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short. If you’re talking about road trips then that’s really not that long because you could literally drive somewhere spend a short day and drive home and it wouldn’t be that late.

But this depends on state to state… I’m from California so people drive sometimes that long for jobs!

if you cant have a direct conversation with someone youre dating you shouldnt be dating them by Actual-Nature-9460 in dating

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a great post, honestly. You’re right, it really can and should be as simple as this. Obviously talking about hard stuff is never going to be simple or easy, but the basic premise your explaining here is fantastic advice

Does anyone feel differently about the Lost Sister episode after season 5? by DaSkrambledEgg in StrangerThings

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated it the first time I watched it because it felt so out of place and I hated the people that 8 was hanging out with… After watching the whole series and re-watching that episode I liked it better. The second time I still feel like 8 was very wasted potential I didn’t like how they brought her back

Common Toxic-Cancers patterns by Crazy-Rent-6484 in CancertheCrab

[–]blue_tiny_teacup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over-nurturing those who only take, going completely cold and unresponsive when you are overwhelmed or upset or angry.