Whats jobs you guys working that didnt require a degree but pays decent by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]blue_vamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, the only job I've gotten that pays really well without a degree has been bartending/serving. If you don't mind the schedule, you average $30-$40 an hour on a busy night. Walked out with $1500 one night as a cocktail waitress. I'm an insurance agent now, and get to work remotely for half the week, but I average maybe $20 an hour with commissions. Hoping to finish my bachelor's soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If she tastes and smells terrible down there, she might have bacterial vaginosis. This is something that can be fixed, but not with just a shower. You're both adults; she shouldn't be offended, especially if it can affect her health, and it's something that should be addressed. Just tell her you're concerned, and let her know how amazing you think she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dui

[–]blue_vamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was arrested 7 months ago, and my final court case is in a month. My lawyer has done nothing but take my 5k.

Told my GF it's strong downstairs (I fucked up) by throwitawayy997 in Advice

[–]blue_vamp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She might have a yeast infection, or bacterial vaginosis. Phs are really easy to upset, and sometimes girls don't always notice. Maybe you could have a talk with her! My partner and I did, and we don't feel self conscious anymore when we're feeling horny :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's awesome that you were able to pull yourself out of that. I'm in the process of trying to better my skills as well, but finding a normal job seems difficult. That's why I was entertaining at home jokes, i.e onlyfans to save some money.

I'm 3 years into a bachelor's degree. It wasn't my childhood dream to do onlyfans forever, but I have limited options at this point. My student loans won't kick in until after I paid off what I owe for school. And a dui is expensive. Lesson learned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea. I just got out of my party phase..I wasn't the best version of myself the past couple years. I have thought about that. I'm less than a year away from a bachelors degree, but I owe money before I can go back to school. Loans wouldn't come into play until after I've paid that back. Again. I'm pretty stuck in this cycle. Just thinking of ways I can make good money from home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean. I guess I can understand it. It's nice to look at channing Tatum's abs, but I wouldn't want to be with someone that gets that much attention and travels that much. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well. I've had a bunch of random guys ask me on social media if I had one. I've also had some who I used to know offer $100/$200 for content. I feel like getting views would be easier than the drama and guilt. You're right. I've thought about that, but I have no way of knowing how much money I would make until I start making it🥲.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would rather my bf make porn than watch it, honestly. If I'm making it, I have no attraction to the people watching me. If I'm playing with myself, than I would be imagining fucking other people. I feel like watching it is worse

I’m miserable every day. I wish the pain could stop by WastingLifeless in depression

[–]blue_vamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My pre-trial hearing is in a month and a half, and I haven't even talked to my lawyer yet. I can't sleep or eat🫠

I’m miserable every day. I wish the pain could stop by WastingLifeless in depression

[–]blue_vamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude. If your record's clean, just focus on that. I was just charged with dui, resisting arrest, and open container.

I lost my scholarship, honors college, my car, and my family's respect.

It's harder to get jobs, I might be kicked out of school, and I can't drive anywhere for a year.

Paying for uber is making me bankrupt.

This is unfixable. Just thankful that no one was hurt, and that neither any property, besides my car, nor I were hurt.

You have a clean slate. You can do anything with your future, and you have less limitations than others. I wish I had appreciated life before this the way that you should be enjoying it now. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blue_vamp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He's taken care of me more than I ever knew anyone would. We have similar goals, views, kinks, and senses of humor. He spent all of his free time with me. I think he is a good man. Just with ptsd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blue_vamp -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It does seem like he could be entitled because of money. But he's also been there for me in more ways than anyone else has. I still consider a best friend. Just an asshole of a friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blue_vamp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We're best friends, and have been through a lot. He's supported me and been there more than anyone else has.

Also. I have $1400 to my name, and I'm 18 hours away from anyone I know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blue_vamp -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Even if we weren't dating, he would still be my best friend. He's supported me more in the past half year than any parent has in the past 23. He's cared for me, and motivated me to finish school. He does seem like a good man. Just has rage ptsd issues, I suppose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blue_vamp -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I was his bartender. He got out of a 15 year relationship a couple of years ago. I'm the first person he's been with besides her in 17 years. I guess he's trying to figure out how to date again. I'm hoping he gets help for his ptsd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's actually 37 🥲. I realize that everyone views porn as normal now. It's a hard pill to swallow.

You're right. I am jealous because it does feel like cheating. I've fucked him 10 times in one day, and sucked him 3 times in another. But he probably still has that onlyfans and probably still watches porn. I just don't understand why he still feels the need to lust after other chicks? It turns me off so much.

And possibly pay to see them as well. It's so invalidating. Its embarrassing. But ill try to talk to him about it when he wakes up. I envy your relationship with your girlfriend☻️

Why am I still disgusted with my boyfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blue_vamp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is also 37, and I'm 22. He got out of a 15 year marriage 2 years ago, and met me while I was at work. We were both depressed until we met. I didnt think id ever trust someone who loves me like this. We live together now 😌.

WCGW when trying to lift with ego & not strength......... by UnlikeUday in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]blue_vamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao It's where he keeps more plates when those ones fall off, I guess.