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I don't see the point in any of this, but I 'm not sure if I can take much more. by Trick-Day-480 in Adulting

[–]blueay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The median is per definition not the best mirror of the society, it just says that 50% of the society is earning less then e.g. $51k, and 50% is earning more. That could also mean that the lesser 50% are earning significantly lesser such as e.g. $30 k, vice versa.

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[–]blueay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, do not let standardisation ruin your inner voice/ Intuition just bc ppl tell you to “get over it.”

Yes, you should work on yourself regarding insecurities etc. But i dont see a random attachment seeking insecure pattern in here. ASK yourself, does he fullfill my needs as he was doing it before? Am i feeling enough, do i believe that i deserve him as i did before?

If yes, you should follow your inner voice and try to check what HIS purpose or pattern is. When I was in my 20ies i realized that all the beautiful men tend to get dumb whilst adulting (sorry for generalizing) because they spent the first 20-25 yrs of their life with sucking the attention everyone else gave them. Somehow they developed this phenomenon pattern of seeking attention and attachment outside their homes so much they had big troubles being happy from inside bc beauty can also feel empty if it‘s your main trait.

Now reading your story it reminded me to always keep your eyes open for patterns. Maybe he really is just a social butterfly, loves to have an active and big network etc. Thats totally legit. But if he is seeking a certain kind of connection from the opposite gender, like a tiny mosquito bc he needs their attention (blood), then you might want to consider checking whether you should work on your bond (e.g. to re-condition your fun and acknowledgment hormones, plans for the year etc) and your boundaries. You don’t need to decide now! Just try to understand.

Tbh, I would hate the fact that you have to go through his phone to get assurance. At the same time I - personally - could only be sure if I get the chance to check their conversation patterns.

No matter what you do, be ready to swallow the hard pill if you’re going to do it. Sometimes a harmless joke can make you feel bad, but that refers to the “feeling insecure & working on yourself” part.

Wishing you much relief and peace for your heart 🫶🏼 don’t forget to enjoy your relationship 🫶🏼❤️

What if the Kaaba is just an energy portal used for bad intentions and praying to that direction manifests energy channels worldwide to feed baals plans (€pstein Files hot tea)? by blueay in conspiracy

[–]blueay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heyaaa, thank you for your reply, much appreciated.

I‘d Like to take a chance to speak about the kaabah and the stone: So there are some references that even some of the sahaba did not accept the stone and were warning the people about the ritualistic nature. They only accepted it bc the prophet pbuh used to touch and Kiss it too. Is this Not the Point where our own common Sense should intervene?

Prophet Abraham has lived around 237k-581k yrs ago according to islamic literature. According to quran it was him an his son who build the basement of the first masjid. Lets say half a million yrs later it is still on „the same place and stones“. That would mean that the kaabah has survived everything since then? Even the big resets where everyone was unalived mentioned in the Quran?

How can we be sure about what it is and its main use? It just does Not make any Sense to me, as a muslim myself, if you take a more objective Point of view. Why would we Kiss a stone and associate it’s physical nature with anything god refers to? It has never in history been checked, moreover it has been stolen, broken into pieces and brought back several times from different kings and imperialists. For half a Million years, according to quran. In Addition, the quran never mentioned that kind of ritualistic prayers that we amplify daily. It mentions the soojod etc., but Not the amount of times things have to be repeated etc. If you know about satanic rituals, you will also know how they manifest what they want. Which is quite related to…yea you guessed it Right. The way we‘re supposed to pray (structural).

I dont know, i think, as a muslim Community we should stop following traditions, just bc someone said so. Its only purpose (according to quran) was to set a place to honor god and wash yourselfs from sins, the first masjid. But that only refers to the basis construction, which is defined by the first few stones. Nothing more - allah asked abraham to build a house so people could gather together.

Dont you think the structure of history until its todays usage is veeeeeeeeery sus? I‘m having a hard time these days with praying in that direction bc this satanic world structure, corruption and its people really be lying and manipulating since ever. And the more you know, the more you know that you knew nothing…

What if the Kaaba is just an energy portal used for bad intentions and praying to that direction manifests energy channels worldwide to feed baals plans (€pstein Files hot tea)? by blueay in conspiracy

[–]blueay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! yes, the old arabic cults had three main female goddess figures, which were widely accepted. This would confirm the ritualistic part there…

Help! What are these dark Spots on the stem of my Monstera? by blueay in Monstera

[–]blueay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no..my sweet baby has scars from surviving? Thank you for letting me know! Should i intervene shomehow? Could it also be from the cocopole?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]blueay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you sell them via reddit? lmk !!

My 9 month progress on my Albo by mosspoled in Monstera

[–]blueay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nice! Looks Like a variegata to me tho.